Four years ago, Li Shaminzi got married in a hurry, and on February 29, the quadrennial meeting, she deliberately recorded a short ** and talked about her desire to get off the list.
Four years later, Li Shaminzi is no longer attached to feelings, she said, thinking about it now, she feels that her brain was not very good at that time.
Once, she firmly wanted to get married and have children at the age of 30, without the need for her parents and elders to urge her to marry and have children, and spontaneously urged herself to take emotions as a top priority.
Now, she is obsessed with her career, counting the ** dramas she has acted, the new songs she has released, and the piles and piles are all more powerful than being trapped in her feelings.
In fact, Li Shaminzi's wish four years ago was answered.
In 2020, less than half a year after making a wish to get off the list, Yue Lao pulled a red line for her.
The younger brother "Lao Fan next door" (real name Fan Kaijie), who is 5 years younger, launched a rapid offensive against him.
Lao Fan traveled to the west, so he took pictures of the scenery along the road every day to share with her.
Lao Fan is a singer-songwriter, so every two days, he writes a love song for her to sing to her.
Lao Fan knew that Li Shaminzi had been hacked, so he had no sense of security, and he filmed her at every dinner** to inform her that there was no opposite sex present.
Lao Fan understood that Li Shaminzi liked romance, so he always said to Li Shaminzi over and over again with the intention of drinking: "Sister, sister, I like you so much."
Look, the first person to fall in love was Lao Fan next door.
In fact, Li Shaminzi, who fell in love, was even more sinking.
During the secret relationship between the two, Li Shaminzi issued an official announcement that she was off the list, but did not disclose the man's information.
Until, Li Shaminzi took Lao Fan next door to record the variety show "Daughters' Love".
This love, coming out of Li Shaminzi's mouth, is that she has the urge to get married, that she has gained a lot of emotion, and that she has planned early to live with him slowly for the rest of her life.
But in the eyes of the audience, it is Lao Fan next door who pursues fiercely but has no follow-up, and it is a 22-year-old young man who has not yet wanted to lock in his life, so he is cramped and uneasy in the face of his girlfriend's "forced marriage".
Especially Li Shaminzi's father, in the variety show, bluntly said in front of the camera that Fan Kaijie didn't care about his daughter and hoped that his daughter wouldn't talk about it.
Later, Li Shaminzi, who shouted that she married before the age of 30, "lost" in the end.
I don't know what day it was, Li Shaminzi began to hint at being single.
And at the age of thirty, he wrote: "Stand in the thirties that greet me, and stand in the scattered time that greets me." ”
Qu Ying once directly pointed out Li Shaminzi's character flaws that always "lose power" in her relationship: too nervous about anything, unstable in the core, and not confident enough.
Later, the little girl who was "hypocritical" and would "save herself from her broken self" really tried to stand up.
Maybe it's finally past the age of 30, and it's okay if you don't start a family when you find out. The sense of relaxation in the relationship came to her after she "couldn't fulfill her wish".
It's not that love is bad, it's just that the attachment that should be let go must be let go.