After the showdown, what kind of performance will men generally have, and what will some of the corresponding inner activities and thoughts be?
These are two very, very important questions to think about, and listening to them will make you understand men better, especially betraying men, and be able to find measures to deal with them, so that you can put yourself in an undefeated position. After the man is debunked, the sisters remember that 95% or even more than 99 will have five reactions.
The first is full of lies and refuses to admit it, right? He would say that they had just met, just chatting, you were thinking too much, and in any case he would never admit to physical deviance. He made a mistake with this kind of man, and he didn't want to break up his family because of this incident, so after he was exposed, his instinctive reaction was to deceive you into not admitting it, hoping that there would be room for negotiation, right? I want to minimize the damage to you.
There is also a second reaction, which is to swear in front of you, saying that it will be broken in the future, in front of you, and then delete the block, but in fact? It is very likely that you will break the thread, the yang will be violated, you will be in Cao Ying's heart in Han, and at the same time you will be deceived by lies. So this kind of man is a scumbag who understands human nature very well, he knows what the promise you want is and how to get you.
There is a third type, that is, the attitude is determined to divorce, which is more tricky when encountering this kind of situation. He will even move out to live with a woman outside, then this kind of man is often more emotional, he will think that the reason why he will betray is because of love, put on the cloak of love, so it seems that he is not so unbearable, the reason why he insists on divorcing you is because he feels that he can't live this marriage, he has no need to maintain it, understand?
There is also a fourth kind, which is not explained, communicated, and solved. That type of him will directly be cold and violent with you, what is the subtext in his heart, he can get by, but pull down, then he has no empathy for this kind of man, he doesn't understand what love is, he can't realize his mistakes at all, he can't feel what your pain is as his wife, he is very selfish and indifferent.
There is also a fifth kind of back-to-back rake. This is the most disgusting, he made a mistake, he put all the blame on you, he will be a victim, and then cry about how difficult it has been for so many years, saying how wronged he is. Say how bad you are, how strong you are, how bad you are, and even he can cry about himself. I think this kind of man is the most disgusting, it's a pity that he doesn't want to be an actor, obviously everything is his main problem, but he asks you to change it, whether you are good or not, he has the final say.
So sisters, no matter which of the above five you encounter, you must first know the first problem you have to solve, know yourself and the other, understand what kind of person the man and the woman outside are, and then plan your coping strategy, which is the key. Now that you've got a showdown, don't complain, play your cards well first, it's your best choice at the moment, what do you think?
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