Don t overestimate your relationship with anyone

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-03-03

We all dream of having a best friend with whom we can confide in our troubles and share our joys. But when the fun is over, you discover that the close friends you initially expected were just bubbles.

Because in this materialistic world, truly connected souls are very rare. We should not expect too much from our relationships, but learn to be independent and grow ourselves.

In this turbulent era, we must know how to protect ourselves, not be easily unfaithful, not easily dependent on others, and learn how to improve ourselves.

Life is impermanent, and there is still a long way to go. Only by reconciling with yourself can you find strength in solitude.

1.Don't express your sincerity lightly, know how to protect yourself.

In the hot summer, we longed for the cool mountain spring that would eventually come, but when we happily picked up a handful of water, we found that there was only a blister left on the palm, and it suddenly disappeared.

In the past, we also hoped to find close friends, but often after sincere giving, we got indifference and betrayal.

Because in this era of materialism and vanity, a true confidant is very rare. At the beginning of a relationship, we always let our guard down and be unreservedly sincere.

But such honesty is often not rewarded with loyalty, but with indifference. The more loyal we are to others, the less they will try to save us.

When you greet others with a smile, they will smile at you too. If you show sincerity to others, they will give you the same friendship.

But you need to understand that this is nothing more than a lie. The world is so polluted with profit that it's hard to trade it for honesty.

Being vigilant doesn't mean distrusting others, it means loving yourself. We can be kind to others, but we shouldn't expect others to be kind to us.

Remember that misunderstandings and conflicts are inevitable not only between strangers, but also between relatives.

Don't shed tears for being hurt by someone who doesn't deserve it. Don't wait for the wrong person at the wrong time.

Learning to protect oneself is not to protect others thousands of miles away, nor is it necessary to give all your sincerity before you understand each other.

2.Learn to improve yourself and not depend on others.

We've all imagined that when we are in trouble, our friends will take the initiative to lend a helping hand, and when life is difficult, our loved ones will help in time.

But the reality is that even the closest people can't always treat it as their own problem to help you.

In a society where interests are paramount and the suffering of others is ignored, self-help is the best policy.

The poet Shelley once said, "If you can't save yourself from the mire, you don't deserve to be saved by someone else." ”

These words remind us that we must live in this world with the courage and ability to save ourselves. You can't always rely on someone else.

Because even the closest people don't think of you as a person.

It's not because they're not interested, it's because human energy and time are limited, and we can't expect others to always prioritize our problems.

Therefore, when we encounter difficulties and bottlenecks, we must learn to rely on ourselves. Clear your head and actively look for breakthroughs.

The British historian Thomas Carlyle once said, "Life is like climbing a mountain, each of us must pick up our trekking poles alone and conquer our own peaks."

Self-help is ultimately the best option on this long journey.

So let's put aside our illusions and stop expecting handouts from others. Learn how to improve yourself and become stronger.

Because only strong people can help others, and only people who rely on themselves and grow will be most respected by others.

3.Reconcile with yourself and find strength in loneliness.

Countless philosophers have said that man's first home is loneliness, and man's ultimate destination is also loneliness. In the course of our life's journey, we will experience countless joys and sorrows.

We always crave our best friend by our side, but often face separation after getting our best friend. Therefore, intelligent and independent people will choose to cherish the present and not worry about the afterlife.

In this long journey of life, they learn to face themselves.

It is also the norm for people to come and go, gather and disperse. We must not lose our fighting spirit because of separation again and again, and we must understand that the pain of separation is a thorny road that must be passed through in life.

We still have ourselves, and we have a love of life, which is an eternal source of strength.

Loneliness is not terrible, what is terrible is the emptiness of the heart. Learn how to enrich yourself, face life with a positive attitude, and find your own sunshine in the depths of the jungle.

In this turbulent world, we have learned not to be easily attached, and we have also learned not to express our integrity easily.

Since we are born as human beings, we are destined to experience pain and trouble, but at the same time, we are also destined to have infinite possibilities.

Spring River Plumbing Duck Prophet, new hope is on the way. Let's have good expectations, give up illusions, face reality, and move forward step by step.

Happiness is in our own hearts, and we all have the right to be treated kindly. No matter how harsh our external environment is, there is a pure land deep in our hearts, which is our eternal spiritual home.

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