Girls give too much material to men, which will make the relationship go in the opposite direction.
Because you spend money and give gifts to a man, which is also considered to be a payment, you must want to get feedback on the man's emotional value, and if he does not give the corresponding positive feedback, you may have an unstable mentality and begin to ask for his emotional value.
Normal men will not take the initiative to ask girls for material payments, only chicken thieves will speak.
Then when you ask for an erotic price, normal men are confused, why do you want to do it for no reason? Inexplicable quarrels? After all, he didn't ask you to give him a gift, it was your wishful thinking.
And a lot of men are not good at providing emotional value. He works more hard in the male arena and doesn't study so much in the love arena.
If a man can provide emotional value more than you, it only means that he is a battle-hardened sea king, and you can't hold him. A man who can't hold it is not for you.
I also liked to buy gifts for men and give sweatshirts and keyboards perfume before, but I found that he was not very happy to receive them.
However, he gave me a shopping card, and I responded: My brother is generous! Then I dressed up beautifully and went to his company to wait for him to have dinner together. He took me by the hand and walked around the company, and his colleagues saw the envious glances, not to mention how proud he was.
Men just love face, otherwise why would so many big brothers spend a lot of money on female anchors.
Understand the needs of men and then provide value. A normal man doesn't need you to worry about everything for him like his mother, only a chicken thief man will suck the blood of a girl.
If you don't understand the needs of the other party and create value indiscriminately, and the other party doesn't appreciate it, you are also very aggrieved. A person wants apples, and he will not be happy if you give them pears.