01 Bai Yufen's tragic life experience made her.
Bai Yufen is the aunt and grandmother with the best ending in the Bai family.
Judging from the fate of the Bai family's aunt and grandmother, Bai Yaping has a tragic life, Bai Yuting has been lonely all her life, and only Bai Yufen's life is very happy.
Bai Yaping and Bai Yuting are aunts and grandmothers who are favored by the Bai family, but Bai Yufen's childhood was not so happy.
When she was a teenager, her father was sentenced to be beheaded and left home incognito, and her mother hanged herself, leaving them four siblings to live under the care of her second grandmother.
As the eldest sister, Bai Yufen often needs to take care of her younger siblings in the Bai family, because she became an orphan at a very young age, so she has developed the habit of being independent and able to endure hardships.
When she got married, the Bai family was in a moment of crisis, and both parents died, without the help of her parents, which was really difficult for a girl to adapt to.
Let's take a look at Bai Yaping, although she is close to marrying the Guan family, but because she can't handle the relationship with Guan Shaoyi well, she can't adapt to the life of her in-laws' family, and often stays in her mother's house and doesn't go back, which has also become one of the reasons for her tragedy.
But after Bai Yufen got married, except for going back to the Bai family to have something to do, she basically stayed at her in-law's house to deal with affairs.
She is still married far away, and she is as good as anyone in the Bai family in terms of hardship.
But hardship alone can't solve things, and life is not a matter of hardship that can be lived well.
02 Bai Yufen's growth.
Bai Yufen's rapid growth began after the death of both parents.
Bai Yufen is the daughter of Uncle Bai, Uncle Bai is loyal and honest, and kind, so she also inherits her father's qualities.
These qualities allowed Bai Yufen to reap Bai Jingqi's love and the pity of her second grandmother.
After Uncle Bai's accident, the second grandmother took Bai Yufen with her, and Bai Yufen learned a lot of scheming and methods in the shopping mall from the second grandmother.
Growing up in the mansion, she has been in business since she was a child, she is as smart as Bai Jingqi and loves to learn, she knows her life experience, and she has no help from her parents behind her, so she learned to be in charge early.
These skills laid a solid foundation for her after she got married.
After marrying in Jinan, Bai Yufen can not only handle the relationship between her and her husband, but also help her in-laws gain a firm foothold in Jinan shopping malls.
Do you still remember Bai Yufen's performance when she helped Bai Jingqi redeem her clothes in Jinan?
Gasping for air? Come out one. Her domineering spirit just shows that she is very familiar with the owner of the pawnshop.
This is my cousin" Bai Yufen's introduction immediately attracted an apology from the pawnshop owner: "Isn't this the water that washed the Dragon King Temple, my eyes are not good, and I use it to blow my nose."
It can be seen that Bai Yufen's identity in Jinan is not ordinary, in addition to being Lu Shao's grandmother, she is also a celebrity in the business world.
In the process of Bai Yufen's chat, the pawnshop owner immediately returned Bai Jingqi's leather coat to him.
Bai Yufen then said that she would invite the boss to dinner.
It can be seen that her understanding of human affairs is not ordinary.
She didn't rely on being Lu Shao's grandmother to overwhelm others, but skillfully made friends from all walks of life.
From here, you can see how Bai Yufen established her own connections after marrying Jinan alone.
Her appearance not only raised Bai Jingqi's status in Jinan, but also provided conditions for Bai Jingqi to start a business in Jinan later.
03 Bai Yufen's means.
Bai Jingqi, who started a business in Jinan, relied on Bai Yufen's fame and status to quickly soar.
Bai Jingqi, who succeeded in entrepreneurship, soon fell in love with Yang Jiuhong at first sight.
And Yang Jiuhong is actually the kiln sister raised by Bai Yufen's father-in-law.
Bai Jingqi's domineering offended Bai Yufen's father-in-law, and Bai Yufen's father-in-law, as an overseer, arrested Bai Jingqi and put him in prison.
Bai Jingqi will definitely not end well if he is powerful on other people's territory, but Bai Yufen got her father-in-law and husband, rescued Bai Jingqi, and made her father-in-law give up Yang Jiuhong.
If she was replaced by Bai Yaping, she probably wouldn't even be able to handle it herself.
But with Bai Yufen's ability and means, she can not only make her father-in-law respect and be jealous of her, but also persuade her father-in-law to give up Yang Jiuhong, this is her means.
Outside, she also gave her father-in-law enough face, "My father-in-law, I am surrounded by groups of women all day long, and I can't remember who Yang Jiuhong is." ”
It can be seen that Bai Yufen can skillfully handle this kind of family relationship very well.
Why was Bai Yufen able to hold the father-in-law who was an official?
Let's boldly guess that there must be a relationship of interest in this.
I still remember that the second grandmother used a trick to benefit ** when she pinched Chang's father-in-law.
Let Chang Gonggong get the shares of Baicao Hall and Nanji, and share dividends for a lifetime, then Chang Gonggong can always work for the second grandmother.
Bai Yufen can learn from the second grandmother's trick to convince her father-in-law, besides, it is not important to lose a kiln sister, and it is even more difficult to lose a daughter-in-law who can help her make a fortune.
Since Bai Yufen's father-in-law can become an overseer, his knowledge must not be limited to women.
For the women in "Mansion Gate", I think Bai Yufen has the shadow of the second grandmother, as well as the shadow of those who experienced hardships in the early years.
She has a kind heart, she has been drenched in the rain herself, she can't see Huang Chun and Yang Jiuhong suffering, and she is willing to reach out to help them.
She is also strong in her heart, and she never feels sorry for herself in the face of suffering, but breaks out of the world in Jinan through her own means and scheming.
Even without the help of the Bai family and the support of her parents, Bai Yufen gained her own career alone.
Moreover, she can seize the confidence given to her by the Bai family's re-rise, and she can also use the power and fame of the Admiral's Mansion to pave the way for herself, so she can get the sense of security she wants.