In "The Gate of the Mansion", Bai Yaping, Bai Yufen, Bai Yuting, Bai Jiali, Bai Mei, and Bai Hui have four generations of six aunts and grandmothers, only Bai Yufen has a foothold in her in-law's family after getting married, and is respected by the high-ranking admiral's father-in-law. When you think about it, this result is no accident.
The first generation of aunt and grandmother Bai Yaping is a bit like a crazy person, marrying into the Guan family, but she is just her own little life, and she has to grow up in her mother's house every day. She teases her children on weekdays, but she likes to throw them high, and the result is tragic.
Bai Yuting, another representative of the second generation of aunts and grandmothers, is even more of the headline news in Beijing, obsessed with listening to dramas since childhood, obsessed with Wan Xiaoju, and married **. This kind of life is also a smooth one.
The third generation of grandma is Bai Jiali, the daughter of Sister Yao, although the second grandmother was raised in her own room at a very young age, she was still bullied by the children of the family, and He Luopu failed to stay together for a lifetime, and finally left away from the family dispute, which is also a better ending.
The saddest thing is that *** aunts Bai Mei and Bai Hui lost themselves because of money, which is embarrassing. In addition to Bai Jingye, who caused the misfortune of the two daughters, there was also their mother, who had no responsibility, and the verbal words were: This is not my fault.
Therefore, only Bai Yufen has become the only aunt and grandmother in the Bai family who can handle it.
When Bai Yufen got married, Bai Mengtang had just passed away, and the Bai family was in crisis.
If you don't fight for yourself, it is easy to be looked down upon by your in-laws, not to mention that Yufen's in-laws are the number one powerful governor's mansion in Jinan Mansion.
But Bai Yufen had to not be despised, and she was also treated differently by her father-in-law, who was the commander.
remembers that Bai Jingqi robbed Yang Jiuhong and was arrested and put in prison by the Admiral's Mansion, but it was Yufen who found her father-in-law and asked for an amnesty.
I wrote an article before, why Yufen's father-in-law said that he didn't remember Yang Jiuhong, even Yufen's husband knew Yang Jiuhong, and Yufen's father-in-law wouldn't not remember.
It can be seen that Yufen's words have a certain weight in the Admiral's Mansion.
In addition to the Bai family behind him, this position was won by Yufen herself. She didn't do it as a young grandmother who didn't leave the door, but fought in the shopping mall.
She also bought shares in Lao Wu's pawnshop, and the business leaders of Jinan Mansion gathered, and Yufen sat firmly in the C position.
Yufen was originally married, but she won respect through her own efforts.
Many people think that Yufen grew up with her second grandmother, and her growth environment has a certain influence on her.
This factor is also the key point for Bai Yufen to achieve.
She watched with her own eyes how the second grandmother ran a chaotic Bai family. Since Bai Yingyuan was imprisoned and her mother committed suicide, Yufen, Jingyi and her two younger brothers have been taken care of by their second grandmother.
Among so many cousins, Yufen's favorite is Bai Jingqi.
She weaves the cage of the grasshopper, and the first one is to give it to Bai Jingqi;When Bai Jingqi and Jingwu fought, it was Yufen who protected Lao Qi and theorized with the third uncle.
Yufen has a relationship with protecting Bai Jingqi, because Bai Yingyuan likes Bai Jingqi.
The uncle doted on Bai Jingqi, and even treated Fujin in King Zhan's Mansion at night, and asked Bai Jingqi, who was still young, to come to the uncle when he said goodbye.
Bai Yingyuan stroked his head dotingly.
Bai Jingqi fed a tank of fish to death with Angong bezoar, and Bai Yingyuan also liked:
You, there is not a day when you don't cause trouble, what kind of tendon does this move, how do you think of feeding the fish.
There was no scolding, and the child was asked why.
Bai Yingyuan's love for Bai Jingqi is no less than that of his own children, or he gave the same love to Bai Jingqi.
Uncle Bai Yingyuan is a tolerant and loving person, who can accommodate the black silver of the third child and Bai Jingqi in the second room. Such a character, from another point of view, also made the second half of his life.
When the family suffered, Yufen had grown up and her character had been formed. She was more influenced by her father than by her second grandmother.
Yufen is confident and brave, which is influenced by her father Bai Yingyuan.
Although there are few episodes of Bai Yingyuan getting along with her children in the play, many years later, the second grandmother went to Wubaoshan's house to see Bai Yingyuan.
Bai Yingyuan asked how the children were, and the second grandmother first introduced her eldest son, Bai Jingyi, saying that she was twenty-five years old and it was time to say goodbye.
Obviously, this answer is not what Bai Yingyuan wants, he knows that with the second grandmother, his child will not be aggrieved, but his Yufen is not young. He is still a daughter.
Bai Yingyuan asked again: How is my girl?
In Bai Yingyuan's heart, her daughter's weight is not lower than that of her son.
The son can inherit the family business and set up a household, but the daughter is also the meat of the heart.
He was able to think of his daughter for the first time and care about his daughter's situation, which showed that in Bai Yingyuan's heart, Yufen was superior to his three sons.
Maybe at that time, I could see that Yufen's strength and character were better than those of her three sons.
Yufen was able to grow into a woman in the Bai family, second only to the second grandmother, thanks toThe love of her family of origin and her parents is undifferentiated.
Love gave Yufen confidence, the Bai family gave her momentum, and Yufen's success was the result of the joint action of the small family and everyone.
It's just a pity that a dignified pharmaceutical group ended up with no successor. Sad, painful.