Open your heart and live your life to the fullest! Unleash yourself and nurture your true self.
In this hectic and chaotic world, are we often troubled by the eyes and expectations of others?
Do you crave to be recognized, approved, and loved, but are often unconsciously hurt?
When we pay attention to what others think, we seek recognition, approval, and affection, however, in reality, what others think is not as important as we think.
People who care too much about what others think are often annoying because they lack self-confidence and rely too much on external evaluations.
True strength comes from loving ourselves, and it is only when we learn to love ourselves and accept our abilities that we can truly love others.
When we pursue what we love, we realize that there are endless possibilities in life, because this is the moment when we truly reach our potential.
1. SeriousnessYou justLosenow
In the vast sea of people, everyone is running in their own way, but life is rarely smooth sailing.
Albert Einstein said, "Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, but about learning to dance in the rain." ”
We should face life's challenges with an open-minded mindset and not let other people's opinions dictate our choices.
Picasso said, "I paint not what I see, but what I think." ”
Only by truly opening our hearts and bravely pursuing the truth of our hearts can we live our own wonderful life on the stage of life.
Once you're serious, you lose"This may sound a bit unexpected, but the philosophy behind it is profound and worth pondering.
Too much comparison and comparison in life will only make us lose ourselves, and true happiness comes from inner satisfaction.
Let's learn to let go of our burdens and get rid of unnecessary pressure, so that we can better embrace the beauty of life!
2. Be self-centered and live your true self
Someone once asked: Why is the moon always so beautiful?
Shakespeare replied, "The moons are not compared, nor will they be the same." ”
We should not compare ourselves to others, each with their own unique light.
Oscar Wilde said, "The most important thing is to be true to yourself." ”
In the face of other people's evaluations and expectations, we should be self-centered, do what we love, and live our true selves.
Only when we bravely face our inner voice and dare to pursue our inner truth, can we show a unique style on the stage of life.
Try to be "self-centered" and don't care too much about what others say or do.
After all, everyone only has one chance to live, and let yourself become free and happy first, so that you can have more ability to help others.
When I vent my jealousy with the idea of "thinking about the other person", it not only interferes and destroys the lives of others as a destructive personality, but also destroys my own life.
One of the characteristics of people who vent their jealousy is that they often say "bad advice" or "mistakes must be corrected". If you respond to this, it will only make their verbal attacks more frequent and intense.
In other words, if you obediently accept what others say about your "bad words" and change your approach according to what they say, it will cause them to vent their jealousy more often.
Complaining more often makes you "less and less able to ignore what others say and do, and let go." If you want to be happy, strong, and good, you must first have the courage to not care.
Only by knowing how to ignore can you give yourself a little less restraint, everyone is imperfect.
According to Nobu Oshima, although we are taught to "take care of other people's emotions" from an early age, this concept is actually very dangerous.
If you don't want to provoke others to be jealous of you, and you don't want to make yourself jealous of others, you must "look at things with self-centeredness."
Many people may feel that self-centered people may not have friends around them.
Indeed, when you begin to reject the "advice" of those around you, the people around you will gradually move away from you.
But so what? Things gather like things, people gather in groups, and after a long time, the "advice" around them will naturally disperse. When you become a "self-centered" person, you will naturally be surrounded by such people.
Each of us lives a very self-contained life, which can motivate each other, and at the same time, promote us to enter a completely different, more interesting and more exciting life.
3. Cultivate blunt sensibility and embrace true love
In the world of feelings, sensitivity is not always a good thing. Excessive sensitivity often makes us care too much about the other party's words and deeds, which causes unnecessary conflicts and misunderstandings.
We need to learn to cultivate insensitivity and learn to let go of the baggage of the past, to accept each other's imperfections, and to tolerate each other's faults.
Only when we have true tolerance and understanding can we go further in the long river of feelings.
Love is the beauty that everyone yearns for. But is love always so good?
Someone once said, "Love is not about holding each other, but about looking in the same direction together." "We shouldn't be overly sensitive and overly concerned about what the other person says and does.
Victor Hugo said: "Sometimes, we expect too much from love and ignore the reality of the other person." ”
When we learn to let go of the baggage of the past and open our hearts, we can embrace true love.
When we cultivate blunt sensitivity and learn to let go of past contradictions and misunderstandings, we can create our own happiness together under the sky of love.
Let's open our hearts and live a wonderful life! Let us no longer be troubled by the eyes and expectations of others, but bravely pursue the truth of our hearts and bravely go to the stage of life.
Only when we truly live our own wonderful life can we shine a unique light on the stage of life!
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