In this world, there is a relationship that goes beyond the simple convenience of life and the label of social role. This relationship is deep, it is the communion of souls, and it is called a partner. However, society often defines marriage in a utilitarian light, limiting women's roles to housework and caring for the family. Under such a concept, we almost forget that the wife is first and foremost an independent personality, a person with dreams, emotions, and value. She is your baby, your friend, your partner, not a simple domestic servant.
There is such a couple around me, and their story has made me deeply aware of this. Their marriage is not a contract, not a job offering, but a spiritual journey and an exploration of life.
The male protagonist, Jack, is a successful lawyer with a busy schedule, but he never forgets to give his wife Amy the deepest respect and warmest hugs when he returns home. He used to say, "I married Amy because of her intelligence and kindness, her humor and understanding, not because she could cook for me or clean the house." ”
Amy, is a talented painter whose work is full of color and life. She chose to become a full-time artist, but that doesn't mean she's just a supporting role in the family. Jack knows that Amy's artistic creation is just as important, and every stroke of her brush is a beautiful contribution to the world.
Their lives are full of equality and respect. While Jack argues in court, Amy creates at home; While Amy meditates in front of the canvas, Jack is busy in the kitchen. They support each other and grow together, and their relationship is built on mutual understanding and encouragement.
Such a relationship is enviable. It tells us that marriage should not be the sacrifice and dedication of one party, but the joint participation and effort of both parties. Your wife is not a nanny, she is your partner in life, you should face the ups and downs of life together, and share the joy of success and the bitterness of failure together.
In this fast-paced society, it's easy to get caught up in character stereotypes and forget what a true partnership is. We should redefine marriage as no longer a duty and an obligation, but as a choice and commitment, an equal and respectful partnership.
So, when you get home and see your partner preparing dinner for you, you might as well express your gratitude in a different way. Not to say "thank you for taking care of you", but to say "thank you for existing", because she knows that what you cherish is not only this meal, but also who she is, the relationship between you.
Let's cherish our partner together, not only on holidays or special days, but on every day. Let's remember that a wife is a baby, a friend, a partner, not a babysitter. Together, let us love with our hearts and prove with our actions that our marriage is a beautiful journey and a worthwhile adventure.