Recently, there was a question about "Doesn't a daughter-in-law have the responsibility to support her in-laws?" The news has caused widespread heated discussions. After appearing on the hot search list, it attracted the attention of many families on the whole network.
The text makes it clear that only in the relationship between husband and wife can the wife be obliged to assist her in-laws.
On this issue, those who need to support their in-laws have a fierce dispute, and netizens in the comment area have even different opinions:
Frankly speaking, very few sons-in-law will provide for their wife and her family, let their wife go if they want to borrow money, and if they don't have money, they don't even have a door.
Absolutely! As long as you have a wife, basically no one wants to live in your house, or you can find someone who is willing to give you a child for free.
This view is actually well-founded, using the other party's methods to ** the other side.
Taking care of children is not just for the daughter-in-law, the child is not just a part of the daughter-in-law, isn't it also for the son to help take care of the child.
It seems to be a unique tradition that mothers-in-law do not provide companionship for their daughters, sons-in-law and children, nor do they buy property or pay a bride price for their sons-in-law, let alone for their sons and daughters-in-law or take care of their children.
If it is said that she is helping her son raise her children, then the daughter-in-law will feel more uncomfortable when she hears such words, which is closer to the meaning of xenophobia.
Many of the behaviors are obvious, rather than just following the unilateral advice of the mother. I have a friend who lives with my mother in her hometown. Just spend a few days at my mother's house and I'll understand.
If the daughter-in-law is responsible for supporting her in-laws, then the son-in-law should also take on the responsibility of supporting her parents-in-law. However, this is not an obligation under the law, it is only based on personal feelings, whether it is supported or not, it does not constitute an illegal act!
It's so heart-wrenching to hold you tightly! In the face of such a family, many women are not actually afraid of marrying the wrong person, but are most afraid of marrying the wrong family.
In this world, there is no such thing as unearned!
If you are not willing to give, it is impossible to expect others to be good to you?
As long as the in-laws are good to the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law will not fail to support the in-laws!
As long as the daughter-in-law is good to her in-laws, there is nothing that the in-laws will not help!
People's hearts and people's hearts are exchanged with each other, and so are the bitterness and pain experienced, so that more people can bear it together!
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