The longer you live in the countryside, the clearer it becomes to reveal the complex social ecology of the countryside
When I think of my ancient hometown, I feel an irrepressible sadness in my heart. Most of the people in the village are elderly, and most of the young and middle-aged people have gone out to wander. There is a strong contrast between the desire for the countryside and the countryside that was once seen as a paradise for city dwellers, but which they desperately wanted to escape. In the eyes of some people, they have to run to and from work every day with heavy mortgages, overtime has become the norm, and they fight for their lives in the dead of night, doing jobs that don't pay well. The people in the village like to compete with each other, and when they buy a house in the city, they will show it around, but in fact, this is not what everyone wants.
In my deepest memory, the countryside is a desert full of emotions and emotions. We, the mountain people, rely on the mountains to eat the mountains and the water to eat the water, and when it rains, some people will run into the fields and plow the fields with livestock. Some people will even fight because of the water grab, form a grudge, and will never see each other again for the rest of their lives, and even if they do, they will never meet again. In this place, it is not a poetic place, but under the simple appearance of the people, it is a conspiracy, a conspiracy to bully the weak. Even if they are close relatives, they will intrigue with each other and will not fall behind. A lot of people are duplicitous and hypocrites. In poor rural areas, the rich oppress the poor, and the sons oppress the unowned. There are many little-known legends circulating in the village, some people grow crops in the mountains, only to be stolen before they can harvest, and some people fight with people and are often ridiculed, but they don't mind. As soon as there is a conflict between the people in the village, they will fight, and what women are best at is scolding, and when they scold, they will be merciless. The peasants love to spend time in small talk, talking about the strife in the village, envy, jealousy and hatred, and discussing whose son's son has not yet married, which girl has not yet married, and spends his energy on other people's small things. Many people talk for a few hours, which is rare in the city, people in the city value their own time, they are not willing to waste their precious time, they know that other people's affairs have nothing to do with themselves, as long as they make good use of their time, it is enough. The situation in rural society is not just a façade, and many people have a hard time dealing with kinship, hurting each other because of various factors such as land, trees, money, etc. In the village, there are very few relatives, conflicts occur from time to time, and many people will not contact each other again because of some trivial things. In the countryside, the essence of human nature is **, on the surface it is peaceful, but in fact it is a mess.
The countryside is a place where people are warm and cold, and they are deceitful, on the surface they are calm, but secretly, I don't know how many intrigues and intrigues. There, there is no purity in the family, there is no friendship in the family, and the conflicts of the villagers are constantly entangled, hurting each other and hurting each other. Perhaps it is precisely because of this complexity that the countryside has a different scenery and story. Perhaps, in this world that we know but don't know what it looks like, we should be more understanding and tolerant. Only by being in the middle of it and feeling its unique customs can we better understand and accept. The countryside is a special and complex field that we need to explore and think.