Birthdays are a special day for everyone. It marks another year of growth and another journey of life. On this day, we usually receive blessings from friends and family, enjoy good food, and share happiness. However, sometimes we find that on the day of their birthday, some people choose to cry instead of laughing. So, why can't you cry on birthdays?
First of all, we need to understand that crying is not a negative expression of emotion. On the contrary, it is sometimes a way to release stress and vent emotions. On their birthday, some people may feel lonely, lost, or anxious. They may feel that their growth is not as good as they should have expected or that they have lost something important. In these cases, crying can be seen as a way of self-healing to help them clear negative emotions inside.
However, why can't we choose to cry on our birthday? This is mainly because the essence of birthdays is celebration and gratitude. It is a time to look back on the past and look forward to the future. On this special day, we should focus more on our own growth and progress instead of dwelling on the failures and pains of the past. If we choose to cry on this day, it may make the otherwise happy atmosphere heavy and depressing, affecting our own mood and that of others.
Also, a birthday is also a time to show yourself to others. On this day, we usually invite friends and family to celebrate and share our joy and happiness. If we choose to cry, then it may confuse and upset others, and may even cause them to misunderstand our emotional state. This can have a negative impact on our social relationships and deprive us of opportunities to share happiness with others.
Of course, we can't completely dismiss the possibility of crying on your birthday. Sometimes, we may encounter some unforeseen difficulties and setbacks that make us unable to suppress the sadness in our hearts. In this case, crying is not a wrong choice. It can help us vent our emotions, lighten our burdens, and make us stronger and braver in the face of difficulties.
However, we need to be mindful that crying does not mean giving up and despairing. Rather, it should be seen as a temporary emotional release that allows us to re-face life's challenges after adjusting our mindset. On our birthday, even if we choose to cry, we should face the future positively after crying and continue to pursue our dreams and goals.
In conclusion, birthday is a special day that we should cherish and let it be a testimony of our growth and progress. While crying can be understood in some cases, on our birthday, we should opt more for laughter and gratitude to make this day one of the best memories of our lives. At the same time, we must also learn to remain strong and brave in the face of difficulties and setbacks, so that crying becomes a short stop on the road of our growth, not an end.