My girlfriend wants me to be my son-in-law, but my parents don't want to tell me that I don't want my son, I'm so embarrassed!
The difference between the family conditions of the two sides is too great, my parents' thinking is relatively old, and they feel that marriage must be a girl, and I am an only child and cannot be a son-in-law. The difference between the family conditions of the two sides is too great, my parents' thinking is relatively old, and they feel that marriage must be a girl, and I am an only child and cannot be a son-in-law.
My family is in the countryside, my parents' education level is relatively low, I am the biggest reason for being an only child, when I was a child, I could only afford to raise a child, my mother was pregnant with one, I was born with no money to raise the last **, my dad has no ability, used to work on the construction site with the village contractor, I can't do physical work when I am old, I found a job as a doorman in our local county after graduating from university, with a monthly salary of 1,000 and 5, my mother works in a chicken factory in the village, and the salary is not high, more than 1,000 a month.
My girlfriend and I were together in college, at that time she thought I was diligent and studious, and I could see a momentum to climb up, at that time, many of my classmates in school were addicted to games, eating, drinking, and having fun, I worked as a tutor outside of class to earn tuition, and my girlfriend appreciated me more, I am currently working in the provincial capital, and it is a little difficult to buy a house and a car with my family conditions, and there is a one-story bungalow at home, which was built 7 years ago.
My girlfriend's home is in the provincial capital, there are three suites at home, she has a set for her parents, and a set for rent, her mother is a senior middle school teacher (currently retired) and her father is inconvenient to say too clearly when he retires from a certain unit (it is a level that I can't reach) Such family conditions, if it weren't for my girlfriend, I might be difficult to get in touch with for the rest of my life, and my girlfriend is currently a primary school teacher.
My girlfriend's parents resolutely disagreed with our relationship at first, so much so that they threatened me with my job, my girlfriend did not give up, the most ruthless one cut her wrists, fortunately it was discovered, her parents compromised, asked me to come to the door, I don't need to get out of the RV, I have to follow my girlfriend's surname when I give birth, and I don't want a wedding bride price, 100,000 hardware, of course I think it's no problem, I agreed in person after proposing it at that time, and her parents told me to go back and discuss it with my parents.
I went back and discussed with my parents, but they were very opposed, saying that my conditions were on our side, and it was easy to find a marriage partner, and they didn't understand that I was looking for such a far, and they wanted me to be a son-in-law, and they felt that they had worked hard to raise me for me to go to college, and finally I ran to be someone else's son, and I told my relatives and friends about this situation, and they all thought that I was good as a son-in-law, but my parents couldn't understand, saying that as long as I did it, I would break off the relationship, and it was useless for the relatives around me to persuade me.
Now I don't know what to do.,My girlfriend didn't hesitate to cut my wrists for me.,Now to my parents don't agree.,They really paid a lot to raise me.,If I disobey their instructions.,I guess I won't recognize me in this life.。。。
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