Whether you have money or not, you must have a good relationship with these 3 types of people, not snobbery, but foresight!
Sanmao once said: "When we have money, we eat meat together; When there was no money, we starved together. This sentence speaks to the relationship between money and life, sometimes, money is not the most important thing, but the people who can share your hardships. In this world, there are three kinds of people, whether you have money or not, you have to have a good relationship with them, not for profit, but for the happiness of life.
We all know that the gap between the rich and the poor is a common phenomenon, some people live in abundance, and some people live in poverty, which also leads to different directions in life. Some people become arrogant and arrogant because they have money, forget their true nature, and lose the trust of friends and relatives; Because some people have no money, they become inferior and depressed, give up their ideals, and lose their self and dignity. These are all because of the influence of interests, which makes people's humanity tested. The real way to live in the world is to take advantage of the situation, use your own advantages, find the right partner, and make progress together.
The first type of person is like-minded people. These people have the same goals, the same interests, the same values as you, and you can learn from each other, support each other, motivate each other, and grow together. Just like a pack of wolves, although each wolf has its own personality, they all share a common purpose, which is to survive and reproduce. They will work together to fight their enemies, hunt for food, and protect their homes. If you can find such people, you have to have a good relationship with them, don't quarrel over small things, don't be alienated because of jealousy, and don't be assertive because of pride. You have to be honest with each other, respect each other, and trust each other, so that you can go further and higher together.
The second type of person is the person who sends carbon in the snow. These people are your saviors in difficult times, they will not dislike you because of your poverty, they will not look down on you because of your lowliness, they will not abandon you because of your frustration. They will give you warmth, strength, and hope when you need it most. As Yang Jiang said: "The rarest thing in life is that when you are humble, there are still people who are good to you." "If you can meet such people, you have to have a good relationship with them, don't reject them because of self-esteem, don't avoid them because of shame, don't be indifferent because of ingratitude. You have to be sincere, grateful, help each other, and care for each other, so that you can get out of the predicament together and move towards the light.
The third type of person is the one who is always with you. These people are an important part of your life, they are your loved ones, your lovers, your children, your relatives and friends. They will accompany you through ups and downs, share joys with you, get through difficulties with you, and accompany you to old age throughout your life. They are your spiritual pillars, your emotional sustenance, your life partner, and your eternal memory. If you have such people, you have to have a good relationship with them, don't argue over trivial matters, don't cold war because of misunderstandings, and don't hurt because of negligence. You have to be gentle and considerate, tolerant of each other, understand each other, and support each other, so that you can walk through life together and move towards happiness.
Life is a journey, with ups and downs, joys and sorrows, gains and losses, sorrows and joys. In this journey, we will meet all kinds of people, some will bring us joy, some will bring us pain, some will bring us enlightenment, and some will bring us harm. But, no matter what, we have to cherish the people who are good to us, they are our wealth, our blessings, our luck. As it is said in the Analects: "Wouldn't it be nice to have friends from afar?" "We should treat these people with gratitude and kindness, so that they can feel our sincerity, our respect, and our love. In this way, we can get their hearts, be respected by them, and create a better life together.