"Insight: The Price of Divorce, Life Choices of Regret and No Regret".
After the glamorous divorce, I was in my prime, 32 years old, my face is still the same, but I don't know that I have suffered eight years of pain, and I have quietly carved the vicissitudes of the years on my face. At the beginning of the divorce, I firmly believed in my choice, but looking back today, when I think of my ex-husband's favor and the once happy family, I feel a deep sense of remorse in my heart. I left him, but now why do I ask him to remarry, but I am refused?
This is Zhao Man's heart, she feels extremely melancholy and regret after eight years of divorce, and her resentment towards her ex-husband seems to have become a burden in her heart. She couldn't help but ask, why couldn't she cherish happiness in the first place, but now it has become so vulnerable?
Zhao Man, 40 years old this year, she used to be a beautiful woman who married Qiao Dong, who was three years older than her. Although Qiao Dong has a mediocre appearance, he did not hesitate to pay a bride price of 100,000 yuan in order to marry her. When I first got married, my life was simple but happy. However, the passage of time, the trivialities of life and Zhao Man's excessive narcissism about her appearance made her lose patience with marriage.
After the divorce, Zhao Man's life became empty and uninteresting. After experiencing several meaningless relationships, she discovers that these are no substitute for the happiness she has lost. She has always turned a deaf ear to her ex-husband's retention, but eight years later, when she realized her mistake, she could never get back that happy time.
Once, Zhao Man ignored Qiao Dong, turned a blind eye to marriage, and spoke wildly when he divorced. However, today, she feels the happiness she once had in loneliness. When she found Qiao Dong and tried to save her family, she was coldly rebuffed. Her heart is full of remorse for her decision, can she choose again, can she go back to the past?
At the same time, Qiao Dong's life has become relaxed and comfortable, he no longer runs around and toils, creating a better environment for his son to grow up. After Zhao Man left, he didn't dwell too much, but lived the life he wanted. His son was admitted to the ideal university and became Qiao Dong's proud capital. The fortunes of the two took a dramatic turn.
Zhao Man's life has changed dramatically, and after the divorce, she lived a chaotic and decadent life. However, when she realizes that time cannot be turned back, remorse does not help. Perhaps, the life of repentance is the most profound lesson, and will she be able to draw strength from it and reshape her future?
Life is full of choices, and each choice can trigger a series of chain reactions. Zhao Man's experience tells us that divorce may have been the decision at that time, but only by re-examining it in regret can we find out whether the original choice was really wise. Regret or not, everyone will stay at the crossroads of life for a moment. Perhaps, we should cherish the happiness in front of us even more, and not wait until we lose it to regret it.
In this life arena full of choices and variables, have you ever regretted your decision? Leave a message to share your story, and let's ** the impermanence of life and the weight of choice together.