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It is better to please others than to please yourself;
Dependence, it is better to be independent.
Author: Insight CC
March 8 is a festival exclusively for women.
Rousseau said, "The world is a woman's book." ”
It is precisely because of the existence of women that this world is so gorgeous and colorful, so beautiful and moving.
Therefore, as a woman, you must believe that you are the most beautiful color in the world, and believe that you are worthy of all the beauty and love.
Of course, on this day, the most important thing that cannot be ignored is that you have to love yourself well.
Oscar Wilde once said: Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.
If you don't know how to love yourself, you might as well read these eight letters.
Many women are giving-type personalities.
I know that you are no exception, always accustomed to giving, accustomed to forbearance, accustomed to burying your hobbies and emotions deep in your heart.
You take care of everyone, but you don't take care of yourself.
But how can a person who is always indebted to himself feel joy and happiness?
Li Dan once said: People must first feel happy before they can see roses.
People must first love themselves before they have the strength to love others.
So stop ignoring your feelings.
Strive to live yourself as a beam of light, first illuminating yourself and then others.
It is better to please others than to please yourself; Dependence, it is better to be independent.
At all times, loving yourself well is the first thing you need in this life.
In this life, a woman will always experience several darkest moments when there is no one to rely on and nowhere to complain.
In these moments, countless sadness can only be borne by oneself, and countless difficulties can only be overcome by oneself.
Even if the road ahead is full of thorns, you have to pretend to be strong to meet all the challenges of life.
The process of growing up is often accompanied by bouts of pain, and it can be difficult, uncomfortable, and painful at first.
But if you stay up, you will become stronger little by little in the course of life.
As Mr. Yang Jiang said: At the beginning, he pretended to be strong, but then he was really strong.
In this world, no one is born strong.
But reality tells us that it is better to rely on no one than on yourself.
If it doesn't light the way for you, you live as your own lamp;
If there is no one to shelter you from the wind and rain, you will live as your own umbrella.
When you have weathered all the storms, you will find that you can also live as a sonorous rose of proud flowers.
There is a saying on the Internet that has been particularly popular recently:
What you have pursued all your life has actually been there from the beginning, but we only realize it later.
From the very beginning, we had the most precious things in the world: time, love, youth, freedom, ......
It's just that we don't have the moment to lose, we will never know how to cherish it, and the deepest regrets in the world are all here.
So, for the rest of your life, you must do your best to cherish what you have.
Cherish the love of those around you and give timely feedback.
Love can nourish a woman's face and inner world.
If there happens to be someone in this world who loves you deeply, this is your luck.
Cherish the moment and enjoy the beauty of life to the fullest.
Don't dwell on what has passed;
For the unknown future, there is no need to be too afraid and confused.
All you can have is today, and all you can hold is now.
As long as you know how to cherish love and the present, what you will experience in the future will be the most beautiful encounter.
See a story in the book.
A female painter had a large garden overgrown with weeds, and her friends lamented her and asked her why she didn't plant something.
She whispered, "I planted the wind, and the wind is beautiful, and the wind blows on the grass, and the way the grass swings is also beautiful." ”
Life is like a garden without flowers, and happiness depends on our inner concept.
Although, women will be more sentimental and easily influenced by the outside world.
But as the saying goes: There is something in the heart that is small in the world, and there is nothing in the heart that is a bed wide.
When you experience a lot of things, you feel that it is bitter, and it is often miserable;
You think it's sweet, and no matter how hard the days are, it can also make you taste the taste of joy.
Therefore, in the journey of life, there is really no need to worry about it, and it is a sunny day to let go.
Making happiness a habit is the smartest way for a woman to live.
What is the best age for a woman?
Some people say that they are in their early twenties, and they were young and beautiful at that time;
Some people say that they are in their thirties, and at that time, they exude mature charm all over their bodies;
Some people say that they are forty or fifty years old, and at that time, they had a rare confused wisdom and sobriety.
But I want to say that there is no best age in life, a year old and a year-old heart.
At any age, you should like the time.
I've heard a saying:
The most attractive women, they have a special fragrance on them. This fragrance is full and heavy, resistant to chewing and appreciation, and is the accumulation of time and the clarity of the years.
Such a woman will not waste her time on the fear of aging, but will devote all her energy to living hard.
Every age is the most beautiful time for her.
May you and I all be like that.
Dong Qing once said: In a sense, everything in the world is an encounter.
Like, when cold meets warm, there is rain; Spring meets winter, there are years;
Heaven meets earth, and there is eternity; Man meets man and has life. ”
All encounters in this world are the cause and fate of fate.
Anyone who comes into your life has a meaning for him.
The appearance of some people will bring you pain; The appearance of some people will make you grow.
Whether they leave or stay in the end, they enrich our lives.
I know that in this world, women value fate more than men.
But if you cherish fate too much, you will be suffering by fate.
So I'll tell you one more thing:
Encounters don't necessarily have an ending, but they do have meaning. On the way to chase the moon, I have also been illuminated by the moon.
Fate to cherish, fate to go casual, is a woman's top respect for fate.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian said:
Every woman wants to feel safe, and we all want to feel safe in various ways, but no matter how hard we try, no matter how much we have, we still feel insecure in the end.
Insecurity is a common problem for every woman.
But a wise woman can be soberly aware:
Instead of expecting help from others, you should strive to improve your inner strength.
Keep more love for yourself and spend the rest of your life enriching yourself to give yourself a sense of security.
This life is a process of constantly improving oneself.
When we no longer think about relying on others, but take the initiative to constantly optimize ourselves in temperament, conversation, and mind.
One day, life will be what you want it to be.
What is Life?
I've heard a lot of philosophical answers:
Life is to cry and be born, and live with a smile. Life is a pot of triviality, full of joy and poured out sorrow. Life is like an onion, you peel it off layer by layer, and there is always a layer that will make you cry.
Life will always make us laugh in many moments, and it will also make us want to cry at some point.
Although in this bizarre world, no one can live a smooth life.
But no matter what the years have given us, you and I should still live gracefully.
Eat well, meet slowly, and keep the love.
Live the days with fireworks and the dull time with brilliance.
With a good state, such a woman will be treated gently by time.
Sanmao wrote in "If There Is an Afterlife":
If there is an afterlife, be a tree and stand for eternity. There is no posture of joy and sorrow, half in the dust, half in the wind, half in the shade, half in the sun......
But in fact, you and I have enough time to be ourselves in this life, so why should we look forward to the next life.
I hope that today, and in the future, you will be able to follow your heart and love yourself well.
Not pleasing or pleasing to yourself, not pleasing or pandering to ......
Live your own light, and you can be full of good happiness.
Give it a thumbs up and encourage all women.