Hayao Miyazaki once said: "If a person loves you, he will come to you no matter what, no matter how ugly the words are, no matter how hard the quarrel is, how many times he deletes it, he will not let go."
I think so. Whether a person loves you or not, it is not difficult to find out in life, if a man's love for you becomes cold, he will show it in words, and a man's love for you will become cold, he will say these six words frequently, as long as you are not in love, you will find out.
1.Busy. If a man frequently says to you that he is busy, it means that his love is getting cold, if he really loves someone, even if he is busy, he will say that he is free and will find time to accompany you, if he does not love someone, even if he is not busy, he is also saying that he is busy.
Do you remember that when you are in love with him, no matter how busy he is, he will find time to accompany you, even if he is busy, he will reply to your messages in seconds, but when his love becomes cold, you send him a message, or ask him out, he says that he is busy, in fact, he is not busy, but he does not have the desire to see you when he is in love.
To see whether a person loves you or not, it depends on his attitude towards you, if he frequently tells you that he is busy, then his love for you has become cold.
2.There is no vacancy.
When a man's love becomes cold, he will often be unavailable, when a person does not love another person, he will frequently tell you that he is not available, whenever you send a message to chat with him, or ask him out for dinner, he will say that he is not available, in fact, he is free, but he just doesn't want to chat with you.
When he doesn't love someone, no matter whether he is free or not, he will always say that he is not available, and if he loves someone, no matter how busy he is, he will find time to spend time with each other.
Just like in life, Xiao Lin and Xiao Liu have been in love for many years, and both of them are very motivated people, but Xiao Liu and Xiao Lin have been together for a long time, Xiao Lin often sends him messages or asks him to travel, and Xiao Liu will say that he is not free now.
And Xiao Liu's other friend, no matter what happens to her, the woman calls Xiao Liu, no matter how important Xiao Liu is, he is free.
This is the expression of loving someone and not loving, when you love someone, even if you are busy, you will take time out of your time and appear in front of the other person when they need him.
3.As you see fit. If a man loves you, when he is with you, he will respect your ideas and choices, and when you don't know how to choose because of a thing, he will give you many options to choose.
A man who doesn't love you, he will say whatever you want. In life, Xiao Li and Xiao Liu have been in love for many years, but they have been together for many years, and sometimes there will be conflicts.
Every time there is a quarrel because of a contradiction, Xiao Liu will say whatever you think, sometimes the two of them have a cold war for a long time after a quarrel, and neither of them admits their mistakes, so that the misunderstanding continues, and then Xiao Li proposed to break up.
This relationship is not destined to last long, because if you love someone, you will worry that the other party will misunderstand and will explain it clearly to the other person, rather than just what the other person thinks.
If a man frequently tells you that he is busy and has no time, just these six words, it means that his love for you has faded, don't be stupid and can't tell the difference.