Whether a person has the ability or not is often evaluated by others, and this is society. And we often live in the judgment of others, isn't that sad? If a person has the ability, he will not be like this, he will use his own indicators to measure. So, how can a person evaluate whether he is capable or not?
Then, you have to think carefully about whether you have achieved the following eight points:
First of all, speak and do things purposefully, without external interference. People who don't have the ability often do things without goals, and like to take one step at a time. In this way, he can only follow behind others forever, and it is absolutely impossible to become the best in the industry.
A capable person, he is always result-oriented. Be a person and do things, force yourself to do it with goals, and they will decisively give up everything that has nothing to do with the goal.
Second, they will think for themselves and not be swayed by the words and actions of others. Being assertive and having ideas is a yardstick for a person to mature.
Only a person who is mature in thinking and steady in his work can have his own clear judgment of right and wrong, and will not easily change his mind. In this way, his behavior will not be influenced by others, and he will naturally not be led by others, let alone cut leeks by others.
Third, know how to refuse and not be stumped by the words and deeds of others. The most precious thing in life is time, and if you want to be successful, you have to make the most of it, and how should we buy time for ourselves?
If others use you, if others support you, and you are embarrassed to refuse, for fear of offending others, for fear of conflict, then you lose. And a capable person knows how to refuse, and is not afraid of offending people. He will refuse all meaningless socialization, stay away from people who have nothing to do with his own interests, and will never compromise in order to maintain the so-called image, and offend if he is offended.
Fourth, don't cause trouble, don't be afraid of things, dare to express your own ideas, and have a distinct personality. Many times, we like to be a docile lamb, in fact, this is the saddest, being a person has no edges and corners, and there is not even a sense of existence in a collective.
To be a man is to be sharp and angular, we can not cause trouble, but we are definitely not afraid of things, if we have ideas in our hearts, we must say them, and if we do not agree, we must dare to turn our faces. Of course, they don't fight for will, and strive to do their best as the criterion.
Fifth, have a calm mind and be able to see through society. If you are not satisfied, you will not complain, but try to change with action. And when he saw many people lying flat, he could also laugh - a person who pretends to be asleep, no matter how you call it, it's in vain, why bother?
Finally, he can see through human nature and know that there is good and evil in human nature. He also does not underestimate the goodness of human nature; He does not depreciate the evil of human nature. Human beings are inherently complex, and there is no need to be so clear.
And he, because he understands human nature, he often uses human nature for his own benefit - conforming to the human nature of others is also the only way to succeed.
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Read the book "Capable Things" attentively. It allows you to use the wisdom of the boss to empower your life, help you reject mediocrity, and achieve brilliance!
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