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In order to enjoy a better life, they left everything in China and chose to move abroad, thinking that they could breathe fresh air in other countries and live a convenient and free life, but after going abroad, they found that it was not easy.
Some people have been unable to find jobs, have been discriminated against at every turn, and have lost their lives as a result. So what have these Chinese who have chosen to emigrate to ** experienced? Do they regret their decision?
The man's name is Ding Yong, a software engineer, and his wife's name is Wang Xiaochun, and they are from Beijing and later immigrated to Oakland in the United States with their children.
Before coming to the United States, Ding Yong and his wife had a good job, they were highly educated, they were domestic master's students, and his wife was also an executive of a company, even if they stayed in China, they could live a good life, but the couple preferred life in the United States.
In Ding Yong's view, Beijing is not suitable for their familyBefore going out with your children every day, you have to observe how the weather is and how polluted it is. And I have to endure congested roads, and I don't even have the mood to go out and play.
The reason why his wife Wang Xiaochun chose to go to the United States with her is very simple, that is, she feels that there are many people in China, which is very crowded, and after going to the United States, she can realize her dream of being a housewife, which makes her very happy.
Before immigrating to the United States, the couple was full of expectations for life here, and they also made an immigration plan, planned every step of the way, and determined to do a good job as a housewife.
In this way, the family came to the United States full of joy, originally thinking that here, they would live happily, smoothly integrate here, and find a satisfactory jobBut after coming to the United States, their lives were not smooth.
Ding Yong is a technician, and with this identity, he quickly got his identity, bought a house in the United States, and then brought his wife and children to the United States.
But when they first came here, the two began to feel a lot of inconveniences, such as driving, although there is no traffic jam here, but the car is driving fast, they need to be cautious and cautious and drive out cautiously.
This is still a small problem, the biggest problem is to find a job, although Ding Yong has a high degree of education, but after coming to the United States, there is also a language barrier. Because most of his job search is ** communication, due to the language barrier, the response is relatively slow, the other party has finished speaking, Ding Yong has not yet reacted, so he did not find a satisfactory job, and the resume he submitted was also in the sea.
And although the United States is an emigrant, it does not mean that the locals can accept these outsidersIt's not uncommon to be discriminated against in life and work, and the same is true for finding a job.
After coming to the United States, the cost of living is relatively large, if you can't earn money, the family's life is also difficult, and the children's education and so on need money. Later, he thought of a way, since he couldn't make the money of the Americans, then make the money of the Chinese.
So he set up a studio and opened a studio in the United States, but he didn't have American customers, he only found two domestic companies to cooperate, and that's itDing Yong started a domestic business to make money from Chinese customers, so that their income has stabilized a lot.
Due to his work, Ding Yong returns to China from time to time for business trips. His wife Wang Xiaochun did not have the slightest desire to return to China, and the reason was that the country was too crowded. But life as a housewife in the United States is not as simple as she imagined.
She originally thought that she could take good care of her family and children, but it turned out that it was not so simple, Wang Xiaochun felt that being a housewife was much more difficult than working, so she also wanted to find a job.
When she was in China, Wang Xiaochun was an executive of a state-owned enterprise, and she felt that with her education and ability, she could find a satisfactory job in the United States, but in the end she was deceived.
She made a project in accordance with the company's regulations, and her friend reminded her to mark the copyright, but Wang Xiaochun disagreed and trusted the company very muchUnexpectedly, in the end, the company took her project, but did not ask her.
And Wang Xiaochun also doesn't want to take the child back to China, because the child is allergic to peanuts, she feels that Chinese food has many allergens, not suitable for eating domestic food, what scares her the most is that after taking the child back to China, it will be lost, maybe it will be abducted by human traffickers, there are many people in China, and it is inconvenient everywhere.
So no matter how difficult and troublesome life is in the United States, they don't regret it, and they don't want to return to China, maybe they think that as long as they work hard to integrate into the local society, their lives will be much betterBut will they really fit in? It's an unknown.
But compared with other people who have moved abroad, the life of Ding Yong's family is lucky, and some people go to extremes after going abroad, because they can't bear it, what's going on?
At the beginning of 2023, a news of "suicide of a female master in Hong Kong" caused a lot of heated discussions, this female master is only 27 years old, in the prime of her youth, and has a promising future, but she chose to end her life early.
And relatives and friends in Hong Kong, China, did not expect that she would choose to go to extremes with such an excellent person, and the reason why she did this has a lot to do with her immigration to the UK.
The female master's name is He Yiqiong, a native of Hong Kong, China, who went to Geneva to study for a master's degree after finishing university in Hong Kong in 2017, and later returned to work for the Hong Kong Red CrossBut for a better life, she moved to London, England with a so-called BNO passport.
In 2019, the United Kingdom suddenly vigorously promoted this passport, threatening that Hong Kong people who get this kind of passport can apply for visas to enter the UK with their immediate family members and become British, and also vigorously promote how good this passport is.
At that time, many Hong Kong people believed in the UK, so they took their families to the UK, and in a book called "One Way", which tells the story of Hong Kong people who immigrated to the UK through this passportThe hero's name is Arvin, and his wife's name is Fiona, who is an English teacher.
Before going to England, the two were very longing for life in Britain, and even said that they would rather be beggars abroad than stay at home to be emperors. But after coming to the UK, their lives were more difficult than they had imagined.
When they were in Hong Kong, China, Ah Wen and his wife had servants to take care of the children and cook for them, but after coming to the UK, the two could not cook, could only eat bread, and the rented house was not much better than living in Hong Kong, and it was still very crowded.
And before coming to the UK, Arwen was a driverHe doesn't speak English, and he can't even bargain at the basicsBecause of this, he couldn't find any high-tech jobs, so he could only deliver food, but the income he earned was much less in China.
At the beginning, the two still had some savings, and they didn't have to worry about food and clothing in life, but slowly their savings became less and less, and the two had more and more contradictions.
In addition, Ah Wen is not a temperate person, he likes to use brand-name things, even if he has no money, he has to buy a TV, because he believes that he will be able to make money, but his wife is very worried about his current life, but he persuaded Ah Wen to save a little, and at the same time look for a job everywhere.
When she was in Hong Kong, she was a teacher and earned a lot of money, but after coming to the UK, she could only work in a cake factory, wasting her master's degreeFortunately, I got the appreciation of the leaders later, and I slowly got better.
However, because the savings of the two are not enough, they may not be able to continue to apply to stay in the UK, and the conflicts between the two are increasing, and the relationship is also broken, and they are also threatened to divorce.
Although the life of Ah Wen and his wife in the UK is not smooth, it is not bad compared to He YiqiongShe went to the extreme because her life was too difficultWhat's going on?
Before coming to the UK, He Yiqiong thought everything was very good, and she planned to live and work in the UK for five years before applying for permanent detention. But after coming to the UK, her life was particularly embarrassing.
In the beginning, she tried to find a job, but she couldn't find anything, but fortunately, a charity was willing to take her in, but this salary could not support her.
She lives in the UK and needs to rent a house, but the housing prices in the UK are very expensive, and the apartment He Yiqiong rents is very small, and she needs to share a toilet with others, and the sanitary environment is also very poorBut the monthly rent costs more than 7,000 yuanUnder this pressure, she is even more afraid of losing her job and often fears that she will be deprived of her wages.
Before committing suicide, He Yiqiong revealed to her brother that she often had insomnia and hair loss, and her life was not very good. In order to save money, she restricted her diet every day, and for some days she still only ate one meal a day, and her life was very difficultThe ideal life was not lived, and there was a lot of chicken feathers, and slowly He Yiqiong suffered from depression.
In order to treat the disease, she also made an appointment with a psychiatrist, but what she didn't expect was that she ended her life before she could go to the doctor. He Yiqiong came to the UK to live a good life, but no one thought that in the end, she would bury her life and end up like this, which also made many people sigh.
Everyone wants to live a better life, and it is normal for them to choose to stay away from the country and live abroad, but not everyone can go smoothly and have a happy ending.
Some people do live better after going abroad, but some people hit walls everywhere and even go to extremes, but no matter what the outcome is, it is a personal choiceAs long as we don't do things that harm the country, we respect those choices. It's just that they made the right choice? Did they end up living their ideal life? All this will have to be answered in time.