As the saying goes, all roads lead to Rome, and some people in this world were born in Rome, while others were born as "mules and horses".
Maybe you don't want to agree, however, sometimes the heights that a person can reach in his life are already decided at the time of his birth. But we can also get more wealth with a few details.
First, the birth environment and upbringing
The Jews have long said that it is impossible for a person to make more money than he knows.
A person's knowledge, experience, and upbringing determine the upper limit of his earning money to a certain extent. For a child in a poor mountain village and a child in a bustling city, they have different ideas about money from an early age. The education they receive, the people they come into contact with, and the way they learn to make money can all be very different. And these factors will restrict the harvest and development of their wealth in the future.
Some people work hard and are very smart, but the environment in which they grew up limits the direction and length of their development, and it is difficult for them to receive a better education and see the wider world. However, we cannot choose our own birth, but we can at least do better within our means, at least create a better environment for our next generation, and perhaps this is the meaning of our efforts in this difficult situation. A person can try to broaden his network, which is actually a resource environment. Many people who want to make money will try to get closer to the rich. It's not vanity. You can make more friends with high level. Grow your knowledge and expand your thinking. Get more resources, increase mutual cooperation and communication between friends, and improve your cognitive abilities at the same time.
Second, the mode of thought
There is a saying among the most profitable Jews: "Wealth is in the mind, and your worth is in the mind, not in your hands". Thought patterns refer to a person's way of thinking. It depends on how you think about it. In the big picture, it's a worldview and a view of life. A good thinking pattern can help people gain inspiration and strength in the face of difficulties, while a bad mental model can make people feel hopeless, helpless, and even depressed. So it's not that hard to know if you're rich or not.
Recall the three most important places you grew up: school, society, and family life. Of course, the best time to study is during the school period, where you can gain more knowledge and skills to deal with various problems in the future. Some people say that "society is the best school", so after work, we should strive to participate in some meaningful activities or projects, constantly enrich ourselves in the process, and learn as much as possible from what we have seen and experienced. Find and explore the value of life you want. In addition, we should learn to make use of all the resources and information around us, such as friends, family, colleagues, teachers, leaders, and so on. These will have a huge impact on our future development.
The biggest difference between the rich and the poor is the difference in their knowledge and ideas. What kind of thinking pattern you have determines what kind of wealth you can reach. Some people desperately want to make money, but they have never found the right way to make money, even if they fail again and again, they have never thought of fundamentally changing their money-making thinking. He always works in the same way, so even if they work hard, they will always earn hard-earned money.
Smart people seldom repeat one thing, they always think that the current is not perfect, and there is room for improvement, so as to reach a higher height, which is actually the difference between qualitative change and quantitative change. As the saying goes, "choice is more important than hard work", if we are diligent in thinking, increase our knowledge reserves, be good at summarizing the successful experience of others and our own failures, and "eat a trench to grow a wisdom", and finally find a suitable direction for ourselves after analysis, judgment and comparison, and then work hard, it is likely to get twice the result with half the effort. But if you don't think about it, you will be reckless and invest financial and human resources. No matter how much effort is put in, the most you can do is change in quantity, and you may even fail. But if you can broaden your horizons and learn to use your brain to think about how to make money before you take action, then you can easily make a qualitative leap.
3. Expressive ability
No matter how complex the idea of making money is, it still has to come to fruition. If you don't have outstanding ability to act and a firm mind, then all dreams can only be on paper. Some people have the idea of making money, and the idea may be good, but they lack the ability to act. They are giants in thought and dwarfs in action, and such people are often more likely to suffer. You may have to rub shoulders with the wealth at your fingertips many times in your life, because of the lack of action and execution, even if you think perfectly, you can only stare at these wealth being obtained by others. No matter what your idea is or how big the risk is, the first thing you have to do is to think about it, and if you think about it, you have to take the first step firmly.
Only when you do it yourself can you know what problems you need to solve, how far you are from success, and whether it will succeed in the end. If you're thinking correctly, instead of rehearsing in your head a hundred times a day, you might as well try it once. If you want to succeed, first change your mentality, when you choose the right direction, the most effective ** you hold in your hands is to work hard, believe in yourself, everyone's destiny is in their own hands.
Integrity
When you have started running a business, then you must maintain integrity, as we all know, integrity is the foundation of doing business. Integrity is an intangible asset, it can even help you make a fortune by accident, fight back, and come back to life! When you have a good credit, you will gradually establish a reputation in the business circle, and at this time, it may be easier to make money than you think. And to do business, if you want to make money for a long time, you must have this capital, that is, credit! "If you want to gain the trust of others, you have to make commitments. "Before making every promise, we must be thoughtful, take into account all possibilities, and don't promise things that we are not sure to do, but once we do, we should be responsible for the end. We must keep and deliver on our promises, even when there are difficulties in the process.
To do business is to be a human being", some small businessmen believe that it does not matter whether the promise is fulfilled or not; As long as it's profitable, it's fine. This kind of thinking is actually very wrong, no matter how small the business, if you don't maintain integrity, only want to make a one-time transaction, then others will hate you more and more, don't like to deal with you, and even wary of you. As a result, you end up not being able to establish yourself in the business world.
To sum up, although we cannot choose our origins, we can still gain wealth by learning, thinking, acting, and practicing our own qualities.