Recently, when I was doing consultation, a netizen asked me a question: "Teacher, why do I feel ugly after I go to school for a while?" At first, I thought this question was very nonsensical, but after thinking about it carefully, it should be that this child is in trouble, and it should be that he lacks inner strength, so he feels that he is ugly.
Then I sent the other party a magic mirror emoji past, and then asked the other party, please ask the magic mirror, it will give you the answer, of course, this is just a joke like the other party is happy, but what I really want to talk to the other party is her inner strength, a confident woman is beautiful, so I believe you are also beautiful. We chatted for half an hour, and finally the little girl happily went to class, believing that she would become more and more beautiful and confident.
Confident women are the most beautiful, there is no doubt about this. Like a bright pearl, it can shine without the need for external light.
In stark contrast to those with low self-esteem, you are like a sunflower in the sun, with your head held high and your spirit soaring. When dealing with things, you are free and flexible, like a dancer who can easily dance on the stage of life. And those with low self-esteem are like fallen leaves in the autumn wind, hesitating, cowering, and losing the courage to move forward.
Some people are not confident because there are some objective defects or deficiencies, maybe because they are not slim enough, maybe because they have small eyes, or because they stutter when they speak... In short, people who are not confident can always find a whole bunch of irrefutable reasons for themselves. But there are no excuses or reasons for being confident!
This self-confidence allows you to move forward bravely on the road of life, without fear of wind and rain. You believe in your own abilities, dare to challenge the unknown, and dare to pursue your dreams. Your beauty lies not only in your appearance, but also in your confidence and charm from the inside out. Such a person is undoubtedly one of the most beautiful beings in the world.
Try to develop your self-confidence, and the teacher also recommends some methods for girls who are not confident:
1. You can practice looking into other people's eyes.
If you dare to face others, you have to wait to tell them, I am honest and fair. A person's eyes can reveal a lot of information, and girls who want to practice their self-confidence can try to make their eyes work for themselves, that is, to focus their eyes.
2. Speed up the speed of walking.
Try to relate to your own walking speed and posture. Walking with your head up and chest up and walking briskly will make you feel like your confidence is gradually growing. You can try to contact for 30 minutes a day. Change your mental state by walking briskly, because the movements of the body are the result of mental activity.
3. Pick a front position to sit and speak in public.
Whether we're at a party or at school, try to get ourselves in the front row. Try this as a rule, although the position is conspicuous, it will also be very conspicuous to enhance your confidence.
If we have the opportunity to speak in public, we must seize it. Try to give yourself a chance, even if we forget what we said after we finish, give yourself a chance to express ourselves. The same is true in the workplace and in the classroom.
4. Always smile.
In fact, we all know that a smile is a cure for lack of confidence and a magic wand to relieve embarrassment. Always let yourself laugh heartily, laugh from the bottom of your heart, you can't ** your own bad emotions, but also resolve the hostility of others.
The magic mirror also tells us that confident women are the most beautiful. When a woman has self-confidence, the whole person will shine with a different light, so that we also have the ability to face all kinds of famous scenes in life, with ease, and move forward bravely.