Tu Lei, a host who was out of the circle because of his sharp words, was once rated as "China's No. 1 Emotional Master" by netizens for his performance in "Love Defense".
However, netizens' evaluation of him is also at two extremes.
People who like him think that he is a rare "clear stream" in the entertainment industry, and those who don't like him may feel that he doesn't even have the basic qualities of being a person.
Tu Lei gave up the stage where he had been for nearly ten years and changed careers to become an anchor with goods.
still has a stinky face and an aggressive tone, but the number of people in the live broadcast room is shy**, what kind of magic does Tu Lei have?
Tu Lei's childhood was not happy.
His mother fell seriously ill when he was very young, unable to walk and take care of himself.
As a result, all the burden of the family fell on the father alone.
Every day when he goes out to earn money, he comes home to take care of his wife and young son who can't take care of himself, and his father's temper is becoming more and more irritable, and he is always angry with his wife inadvertently.
The young Tu Lei grew up listening to the disputes and quarrels between his parents since he was a child, and his childhood lacked great love, which may also lay the groundwork for his current character.
However, Tu Lei, who is not very old, is unusually sensible.
He saw his father's hard work and his mother's helplessness.
He tried to do something, and handed his father a glass of water in time for a compliment after work.
Whisper beside your mother, in fact, Dad loves you very much.
He always tries his best to ease the relationship between the two, become a mediator between his parents, and make this home more like "home".
Not only that, Tu Lei's grades are also among the best in the class.
He silently told himself in his heart:
Only by studying hard can I earn a lot of money in the future, so that I can take my mother to a big hospital for medical treatment. ”
Tu Lei worked hard and relied on his own efforts to be admitted to the Computer Department of Nanjing Institute of Metallurgy, which is today's Jiangxi University of Science and Technology.
During his college years, Tu Lei also had excellent grades and won scholarships every year.
After graduation, he entered an industrial and commercial bank in Jiangxi Province to work, but the dull working atmosphere here made the lively Tu Lei unable to stay.
He decided to quit his job and started sales.
With Tu Lei's good eloquence, he has done well in the sales industry.
In less than a year, he was exceptionally promoted by the leader to another subsidiary as general manager.
That year, Tu Lei was 23 years old.
became the general manager at the age of 23, and naturally some people were not convinced. The company's internal people are uneven, and the performance is not up, and Tu Lei is also very embarrassed.
So, he chose to leave.
However, fortunately, he has saved some money over the years, and he wants to partner with a friend to start his own company.
The two said they would do it, Tu Lei trusted this friend, so he handed over all the 500,000 deposits to him and asked him to be responsible for renting the venue and talking about cooperation.
But what he never expected was that Tu Lei's decision made him fall into the abyss for a while.
This friend of his rolled up all the money and ran away.
Tu Lei fought desperately, and what came from the opposite side was always turned off.
Tu Lei couldn't contact him, and Tu Lei, who was at the end of his rope, picked up a kitchen knife and was about to rush to that person's house.
Later, he met the police halfway through and persuaded him to come back. But even if he reported the case, Tu Lei understood that all his belongings might never be recovered.
Desperate, Tu Lei plans to let God decide his fate.
The one-yuan coin tossed from his hand swirled and flipped in the air for countless rounds, landing somewhere on a vast map of China.
No matter which place it is, this is the same for Tu Lei, who was already disheartened at that time, he just wants to leave this sad place.
So Tu Lei used the little change he had left to buy a train ticket to Hunan.
God seemed to be really helping him, Tu Lei must have never imagined that this would be a decision for the rest of his life.
When he first came to an unfamiliar place, Tu Lei, who was short of money, just wanted to find a job quickly, and when he heard that the radio was recruiting radio anchors, he went.
Tu Lei, who majored in computer science, applied for a job as a radio anchor, compared to a room full of competitors with professional backgrounds in broadcasting and hosting, Tu Lei did not have much hope.
During the interview, Tu Lei took out the set he usually used in sales to promote himself.
Unexpectedly, this is exactly what the interviewer will be tempting.
Tu Lei is very eloquent, and the interviewer thinks that he is a material for being a radio anchor.
In this way, Tu Lei started his new life.
In 2004, his first radio program "Lushan Night Talk" was broadcast, and Tu Lei was responsible for answering the audience's emotional questions.
The show didn't last long, and Tu Lei was liked by many listeners.
Because he can always point out the crux of the problem very well, revealing the essence of the problem in just a few sentences, so that the doubts of the audience who come to ask for help will dissipate.
The arrival of Tu Lei made the ratings of the radio station rise steadily, and then Tu Lei was transferred to a TV show "True Love Reception Room" as the host, which was his first screen appearance.
In the following years, Tu Lei was also invited to host legal programs, as well as talk shows, current political analysis programs, etc., covering a wide range of genres, and the ratings of the programs were also good.
Tu Lei is also a little famous at this time, and he has also accumulated a group of his own fans.
However, Tu Lei does not seem to be satisfied with this.
He began to research a new and unique hosting style, and only in this way could he stand out from the same hosts and make his career more colorful.
As a result, he did, in an otherworldly way.
In 2010, Tu Lei participated in a talk show "Quack Popcorn" on Qinghai Satellite TV, in which he played the role of an observer.
The topic of discussion in one episode was about the post-80s, and Han Han was the person who was discussed on the show at that time.
Han Han was a very famous writer at that time, and he also appeared on the cover of Time magazine in the United States.
When everyone was praising Han Han's fame and achievements, Tu Lei's words made the scene silent for a moment.
Tu Lei pushed himself to the forefront with one sentence, and many viewers and Han Han's fans came to scold him.
However, although Tu Lei fell into the most controversial controversy, he also entered the public eye and gained a lot of traffic, and more and more people got to know a "poisonous tongue" host named "Tu Lei".
After becoming famous, many programs threw olive branches to him. Tu Lei has been invited constantly and has hosted many programs. Of course, in addition to the "poisonous tongue", Tu Lei's views on many events have also won the recognition and love of the audience.
The emotional observation program "Love Defense War" he participated in won him the title of "China's No. 1 Emotional Master".
In the show, whether it is facing a couple who is trapped in a different place, or a couple who is struggling with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or the entanglement of a flowery man and a material woman.
In the face of all kinds of complex and strange emotional relationships, Tu Lei's sharp words and straightforward attitude made many viewers applaud.
At the same time, he can also present the essence of the problem in front of the audience, and let both parties know more about what they should choose next.
He often utters some truths on the show, which still sound very useful:
The main thing in managing feelings is to manage oneself and manage oneself well, and the difficulties will always pass! ”
Whoever loves me is delayed; What hurts me will not be forgotten. Because what you get is not cherished, and what you don't get is precious. ”
True freedom is not homelessness, but homelessness. ”
Of course, some people questioned Tu Lei's hosting style, thinking that he was too arrogant and had no one in his sights.
In fact, we rarely see such outspoken people on this kind of reality show, on the contrary, everyone respects each other.
Therefore, when such a maverick and very different style suddenly jumps out, we will first feel repulsed, which is the instinctive reaction of the vast majority of people.
But if everyone dares to tell the truth and express their true feelings, then over time, we will be accustomed to Tu Lei's style.
As Lu Xun said: "There is no road in this world, and when there are more people walking, it becomes a road." ”
However, the reality is that very few people are willing to tell the truth, because it comes at a great cost.
Tu Lei has become famous in the hosting industry, and his career is also booming.
However, what he is doing seems to be becoming more and more unacceptable.
Negative events about him often appear at the top of hot searches.
In 2019, when he was on a plane, Tu Lei put his foot on the front seat and exposed it on the Internet, and netizens accused him, thinking that as a public figure, he lacked basic qualities and morals.
Subsequently, he sent a long article to explain, saying that it was because he had varicose veins, and the doctor said that he should raise his legs to promote blood circulation.
But later, CCTV host Liu Yuanyuan posted a blog to question him, thinking that what he said was illogical.
After this turmoil, Tu Lei's reputation plummeted.
In April 2020, Tu Lei posted on Weibo that he was leaving "Love Defense" and resigning from the role of emotional mentor for ten years.
Now he has also embarked on the road of anchoring with goods.
But in the live broadcast room, he is still unsmiling and short-tempered.
Tu Lei's performance in the live broadcast once again fell into the accusations of netizens, and he was even picked up for selling some three-no products.
When he was bringing durian, he was also embarrassed throughout the whole process, covering his mouth and nose, with a disgusted expression.
Some netizens think: "If you can sell it, sell it well, and don't sell it if you can't smell it." It feels like he doesn't really bring the goods, just to make money.
As a public figure, he should have been more cautious about his words and deeds.
It can be special, but it can't go overboard
The basic moral bottom line and professional ethics are the guidelines that everyone should abide by.
Tu Lei is a person with personality, but in the face of some places that everyone does not recognize, Tu Lei really needs to reflect on and correct his own problems, in order to win the recognition and support of more people, and to go further on the road in the future.