Introduction: Children have frequent nosebleeds since kindergarten, and when they were in elementary school, nosebleeds were very severe. I often have colds and have ** diseases; My husband was drunk and sway......ing
I am 46 years old, and at the end of 2020, my husband and I went to his uncle's and aunt's house to play.
At that time, my uncle had a cerebral infarction, his heart was not good, and it was not very convenient to walk. After studying in Bigu, he and my aunt can walk 10,000 or 20,000 steps a day. My aunt has high blood pressure and has studied Bigu, and she has not needed to take blood pressure medication for several years.
At that time, my aunt said: "Learning to Bigu, a cold is like playing." "I just feel like how can a cold be the same as playing? I used to have a very bad constitution and often had colds.
My aunt's sister helped me join Bigu to study. There is another little thing that touched me very much, it was the cold winter wax moon, when I went downstairs, my aunt wore a very light down jacket, and walked very lightly, all of them are in their seventies, giving people the feeling of exuding a kind of spirit from the inside out, feeling very good, can Xue Bigu still learn younger and younger?
When I got home, I studied hard. One day a friend shared his child's experience of nosebleeds, and I thought of myself, my child has had nosebleeds since kindergarten, very often; When I was in elementary school, I had a very bad nosebleed.
Listening to Gu You's sharing, I'll listen to how it was cured? I listened to the replay twice to find a way to cure my child.
I've been looking for a way to educate my child, and I've always felt that she doesn't like me. I always compare my child with other people's children, thinking that she is not as strong and powerful as other children, anyway, I want my child not to be as weak as me.
In the past, I didn't talk to my children, except for talking to them about learning, my children didn't talk to me.
I used to ride an electric scooter to take my kids to school. At one point I said, "You put your arms around your mother." She said, "No." "She's not close to me at all. When she was young, she often said to her father, "Mommy is bad." ”
After studying Bigu, I realized that I was pressing my children too hard. The reason why my child has a nosebleed is caused by my strict discipline of my child?
I was wrong, I started to change, I no longer always wanted to say something to educate her as before, and tried to talk to the child in a pleasant way.
I learned to keep my mouth shut. In the past, when I saw my child playing with her mobile phone, I thought about how to control her and prevent her from playing. At this time, I watched her play with her mobile phone with the mentality of appreciating the child. Children have their own ideas. My child is gentle, kind and nice.
Slowly, the child would talk to me about interesting things, and we would often laugh happily while talking.
My mind changed, I knew that I had changed myself, and just a little more than a month later, suddenly one day, my child didn't seem to have a nosebleed recently. Originally, the child's nose would be broken every three or five days, and sometimes every morning. I don't have a nosebleed like this, I think it's amazing!
Since then, the child has rarely had nosebleeds. I have been studying here for two years, and in the past two years, the child has not had a nosebleed again, and everything is fine.
I followed the anchor to learn to walk Tianxingjian. I studied silently at home, and after studying for more than three months, the village chief sent a message, and I bought a set of books and sent a family photo.
The next morning, I cooked for my family, and the cucumber and shredded pork noodles were particularly delicious. After serving it to my husband and children, I felt that my stomach was full, and it was after I received the information from the lecture that I decided to open the valley, and I didn't eat if I wasn't hungry.
I remember the village chief saying that if you weren't hungry the next day, you could try Bigu. In this way, he lost ten pounds in seven days. The body is very relaxed, I feel that my waist is thin, my people are beautiful, and my self-confidence has come.
I used to have a tendon in my temple that was constantly bouncing, and my brain was often groggy. After clearing the valley this time, I feel that my brain is very refreshing. In the past, the ears buzzed every day, but this time there was no sound. That's great!
This opened up a valley and tasted the sweetness. If I want to regulate my cold, I will go to the Guyou meeting with my aunt.
In the past, I used to use a child's name for my screen name. At that time, the tutor told me that you use the child's name, and it feels like you don't have yourself in your heart. He woke me up with a word, and when I got home, I thought about what kind of screen name to change? In the years since I had my baby, I have devoted myself to my child and given everything I have.
What is my name? I responded to the mood at that time, when I was walking on the roadside, I didn't enjoy the scenery when I walked on the side of the road, and I didn't care about the trees being green and the leaves were falling. The feeling of walking in the sky is so beautiful, everything is so beautiful, I touch it with my hand, and I feel that everything is beautiful, then I am called Meimei, and I have such a name.
Later, I attended several more training camps. There have been some changes in my body. In the past, my body was very cold, and I couldn't feel the warmth no matter how thick I wore it in winter, it was the kind of cold that came out of my bones. After studying, I know that this is not enthusiastic enough.
When I was in elementary school, I had an injection in my left arm, and then it itched, suppurated, and I fell with a scar the size of a coin, a very hard, red, bulging pimple. After two or three times of Bigu, one day when I took a bath, I touched it, and the hard scar was gone, and it was as flat as **.
I think it's so good, how can this scar be removed! I wonder if the caesarean section scar can be removed?
I used to have a ** on the back of my neck that was very rough to the touch, and it felt like rust, with a lot of dark spots. Now that I've been studying for two years, my neck doesn't feel so sharp. There are still spots on it, but some have fallen off. I think the more I learn, the better I get, and I will definitely be able to get rid of them all in the future.
Colds are rare now. I remember that before the first Bigu, there was a cold, and my throat was itchy, so I did a percussion and swallowed it, and the liquid in my mouth could moisten my throat. This cold, a week to get better, took very little medicine. In the past, it was not good to have a cold for ten days and half a month, and when my throat was itchy, I had to cough. I didn't have a cough this time, which I think is great.
Before, I was not good, I had inflammation, and I always went back and forth. The itching is terrible, and all kinds of embolisms and agents are used, which makes it very dry. I went to the hospital for an examination, and the doctor said that I had a bad cervix and precancerous lesions. I didn't care, I'm also a big person, the doctor asked me to check it once a year, and I didn't go to check it.
After two or three valleys in the past two years, my ** inflammation has inexplicably improved. In fact, it is also a change in my own thinking, the relationship between husband and wife was not good before, and there was this ** inflammation, which can escape from sexual life, and the relationship between our husband and wife has become better during study.
I used to let my husband do everything, and I felt that my husband worked and lived, and he was better than me in everything at home. He also manages the family, he is a capable person, and I listen to everything he says. I'm an introvert, I will press anything in my stomach, and I won't let out a fire. That's the kind of character I am.
When my child was two or three years old, my husband broke a watch shaft, and one day I went out to play on the street with my child, so I stopped by to fix it. My husband also told me to take the watch well, but I didn't pay much attention to it. If the child wants to play, I will hold it for her to play. I went out with my little kid in a small stroller, played with him on the street, bought good food and came back, and forgot all about his watch.
When I came back, my husband looked for the watch and asked me if it had been repaired? My mind suddenly clouded me and asked me to fix my watch, but I forgot. I went to look for it in the car, but there was nothing in the car. When my husband saw that I didn't find the watch, he must have lost it, so he was so angry that he said, "I tell you, let you get it for me, you lost it for me, you quickly find it for me." I was scared. He cherished this watch very much, and he was reluctant to wear it, just wanted to bring it, but the watch shaft was not good, and he asked me to repair it and lost it.
I pushed the child along the highway and thought about how to get there, so I went to look for it. Where can I find it? Someone picked it up, right? As I walked, my mind was full of thoughts, and I was thinking wildly as I went. You're so angry with me, is this watch more precious than our mother? While walking, he was so aggrieved that he wanted to shed tears, so he swallowed it in his stomach, afraid that the child would see it. I still didn't find it and went home. My husband didn't say anything at the time.
The next day, my husband explained to me: "This watch was given to him by his sister, and he cherishes it very much." Very good piece of table turned out to be lost. ”
When he explained to me, I still had tears in my eyes and swallowed in my stomach. In the past, my personality was like that, I didn't know what to say, so I held it in my stomach.
Now what can I say. I've changed.
One day my husband couldn't sleep in bed, tossing and turning so much that he wanted to get angry, and he couldn't sleep when he was angry. Then he went to sleep on the couch with the quilt in his arms.
At that moment, I thought, "You can't sleep, is that still related to me?" You get out of bed, you can fall asleep on the couch? "I thought that I had already learned Bigu, I couldn't think about it so much, and I had to get up early tomorrow to cook for the children and take care of the children. I can't care so much anymore, he can do whatever he likes. I'll go to bed first. I'll change my mind. I feel that this time the change of mind is very good, and I will not dwell on this matter anymore. If it had been before, I would have been unable to sleep all night and would have been angry.
After work the next day, I asked my husband, "Are you asleep on the couch?" He said, "I didn't fall asleep on the couch either." I said, "You didn't fall asleep, but you ran out with the quilt, and you me off." What do you mean? If you can fall asleep on the couch, then you go up to the east room and sleep, and we will fall asleep in one room. ”
These are all things that I can only say after learning Bigu culture, and I couldn't say it before. My husband said to me: "You are careful, I am just afraid that it will affect you, and you will not have to get up early to cook for the children the next day." "As soon as my husband said this, I felt that nothing was wrong. If I had been before, I would have held it in my stomach, and I would have been wronged, what do you mean by that. There are many such little things in life, which I used to struggle with.
Through studying in this, I feel that my heart has become stronger, and I don't like to worry about everything before. I feel like I can think about a lot of things. I think I'm also a very capable person.
Sometimes when I go out to play, occasionally someone will compliment me on my beauty. I didn't notice it before, I didn't even feel it. I felt inferior to others in every way, and I was very dissatisfied with myself.
A few days ago, my husband came back from drinking, and it was more than 10 o'clock in the evening, and he picked up another **, saying that a friend he hadn't seen for a long time came, and they were going to meet. As soon as I saw my watch, it was almost 11 o'clock, and he was going out again. At that time, I didn't really get angry in my head, and I didn't care about his intentions, I just thought you could go, but I couldn't let you go anymore.
I feel like I'm getting smart now. I pretended to be angry, my face was stretched long, and I said, "What do you mean?" You're going out so late. Will you be able to live a good life anymore? He said in a very angry tone. My husband said to me, "I'm sorry, I'm wrong. "I still had a long face. I said, "What's wrong with you?" You're right about everything, you're a man who stands up to the sky. Everything you do is right. My husband knew that I was scolding him, so he said, "I know." "Just say a few words to me, and he went out.
Actually, I'm not really angry. He went out for more than twenty minutes and then returned. When he came back, he told me that he couldn't sit still when he got there, and fell asleep on the table with his head hovered. His friend sent him back.
Through this incident, I think my current life is very interesting. Don't worry about anything. I feel like I'm very broad-minded now.
By learning Bigu, you will not always think about bad things as before. Now when I encounter something, I will change my thinking and think in a good place.
In the past, when my husband came back drunk and came back with that face, drunk and swaying, I was so angry in my heart. But thinking that he is my husband and I want to take care of him, I will pour him a glass of water and put it on his bedside, do you like to drink it or not.
Now, when he comes back, I'll pour him a glass of water. I silently wanted to drink my glass of water, so that I could give him a hangover soon. It's the kind from the heart, I feel that no matter what my husband becomes, I think he's good!