I think most people have a common shortcoming, no matter what, they feel that their thinking, thinking is fine, and the fault is someone else.
When we encounter things, how to deal with them, how to solve them, this is a very worthy test of the problem. Take yourself as an example, it's a good proof of this.
Yesterday, I discussed with my wife, and we appeared at the door of the company at half past 12, ready to go to see a Chinese doctor. As a result, after 12:30 o'clock, I still couldn't see my wife's figure, at this time I felt a little angry, obviously discussed, my wife didn't have any concept of time, I felt very annoyed, angry.
Fortunately, reason controlled me and didn't blame my wife, otherwise it would have brought inner harm to my wife. Reason told me that my wife didn't come, and the work should be very busy, and the work in the afternoon has not been handed over yet, which is very hard. I should think more about my wife, work is not an easy thing.
I can't always think about myself, because I agreed on the time, but I ended up waiting for 10 minutes and feeling unhappy and annoyed.
Life has taught me how to respect and consider others more, so that my life can be better and happier. People who read a lot can have a lot of temperament