The world is complicated, and we often fall into it, losing ourselves, gaining and losing.
It's better to do things soberly, be confused, and face life calmly.
A person who achieves these "four don't ask" is the real wise man.
Fate, regardless of the ending
There is such a passage in the Reader:
"In a sense, everything in the world is an encounter. When cold meets warm, there is rain; When winter meets spring, there are years; Heaven meets earth, and there is eternity; Man meets man and has life. ”Every encounter and parting is the right time for cause and effect.
The more I grow up, the more I understand: getting together is an accident, and parting is the norm.
There is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed, and there is no parting that is not bitter in life.
No matter how intimate the relationship is, it can only accompany you for a while, and few people can accompany you for a lifetime.
Regardless of the return date, regardless of the day or night, come and go as fate as you like, near and far as you like, and feel close to each other.
Cause and circumstance are comfortable, and you can be at peace with what happens, whether it is regret or regret.
In the future, don't seek the result, don't ask the ending, cherish the fate, and follow the fate, which is the best way to live.
Work hard, don't ask for returns
But know what to do and do good, don't ask about the future.
Doing things too much about the result doesn't change anything.
Instead, it will make you think more and do less, get entangled in the present, and stagnate.
Don't live up to your original intention because you are in a hurry.
If you wait, life will give you the answer.
Obsessed with one thing for too long, tired; I've been in a relationship for too long, and I'm tired.
About hard work, about paying, do not seek to be satisfactory, only want to be worthy of the heart.
Slowly you will find that the things in the world are less fortunate when everything goes well, and more are surprises that come naturally.
In life, you don't ask whether it's right or wrong
Life is like a journey, with different destinations and different destinations.
There is no right or wrong journey, the difference is that everyone has their own way of living.
The avenue is a smooth road, and the trail has a different scenery.
There is no absolute good, bad, right or wrong in life, don't compare yourself with others, go your own way, because your life cannot be defined.
It is said that every human being experiences growth three times in their lifetime:
The first time was when I discovered that the world didn't revolve around me;
The second time is when I find that no matter how hard I try, I still can't do anything about something;
The third time was when I knew that I couldn't do anything and would give it a go.
Mai Jia wrote in "The Sea of Life": "The height of life is not how many things you can see clearly, but how many things you look down on. ”
Thinking less, seeing openly, and living thoroughly is the wisdom of life.
In this life, there is no question of the next life
Yu Guangzhong once said: "The next time you pass by, there is no more self in the world." ”
In this life, you can't do it all over again. Many things, many people, even if we regret it, we can't go back.
The coming days are long, and in the end they can't withstand the impermanence of the world.
So, while your youth is still there, don't waste it; Cherish it while you're still old.
Cherish your feelings and don't live up to them;
Cherish your time and don't squander it;
Cherish your health and don't overdraw;
Cherish life, don't waste it.
Do not regret the past, do not hesitate the present, and do not fear the future.
The heart is free from obstacles, and you can be at ease.