Why are there more and more older leftover women now?In fact, there is no time, work pressure, and life pressure; Fertility anxiety and so on are all excuses, I think. Say that there is no time, people say that they want to do whatever they want, and there is always a crowd! Work pressure, life pressure is more need to find the right person to bear together, birth anxiety, the older you get, the more anxious, it is better to enter the game earlier, long pain is not as good as short pain! If you get married early, you will live a good life and be happy, and if you don't live well, it will be easy to leave now.
If the older leftover women don't work hard, it's not just the little girls who compete with them, but also those who want to get married for the second or even the third time, and those with children and capital compete with them for some single men! After experiencing it, I understand that in fact, many things are not so difficult! The pressure won't be that much!
In fact, the core problem isAnyway, so many people are not my own, and there is too much empathy. If in the hometown, in the work environment, in the social circle, if the older leftover girl is isolated, do you think she will be in a hurry! Do you think there will be a sense of initiative!
Of course, the second problem, I think, is that the more time passes, the more you can see something;
I think the world is sober. So the requirements are very high! Many boys don't know how to think that the conditions may be lower when they are older, but they didn't expect that people are more demanding, so many men might as well pursue little girls, at least the cost of little girls is not so high, plus life experience and love experience are not so complicated (not that they don't know enough);
At least you can conquer faster when you pursue, plus men, after all, I still like young girls!
Of course, there are also some older leftover women who have begun to save themselves, for example, if you can't meet a better person, I can cultivate an excellent person, and the sister-brother love is formed, and I often see people born in the 80s who found the boys of the 00s in Xiaohongshu! I have to say that this is also a way;
You like young, I can like young too!
The second aspect is that some people's love relationships have also changed, and they are no longer obsessed with waiting for others to pursue, and they must let people meet the requirements before they get married. Instead, you can get married first, and then fall in love! Anyway, to put it bluntly, divorce is nothing!
There are many women who are divorced and married for the second time are more confident than older leftover women, especially when they have a certain amount of capital when they get married for the first time, and after they have children, they can find a partner with higher requirements, or they can slow down the pace to find a partner. You can even ask for a bride price in the open!
In fact, you will find that if the competitiveness with older leftover women is not as good as that of women in second marriage, do you think they will be more terrifying! I heard that in terms of childbirth, if the first child has been experienced, the second child and the third child are easier even if they are older! Some studies suggest that the experience of a firstborn child may have some positive effects on subsequent births.
So you see that the competitiveness has weakened, but there is also a practical problem, if there are more and more older leftover women, in fact, they will not be so anxious, thinking that I am not the only one anyway, and even for a better life, I will increase the standard a little, fishing psychology, if you find it, you will find it, and it doesn't matter if you don't find it! Of course, there are some people who have experienced some setbacks and cannot come out, so they need to have a healing tube and get out of the shadows in order to better face the future, what do you think about this, welcome to follow me "she solves worries" and communicate with me!
Older leftover women