Behind this bustling metropolis, there is a soul of silent dedication. She is the undertaker Wu Jinna who never attended a friend's wedding.
Thousands of the deceased have found their last peace in her hands. She never participated in the celebration of her friends, but silently took on the responsibility of life and death.
What makes a young girl choose such a profession despite the eyes of the world?
For the undertaker, most people have little access to this special profession on weekdays, except for white funerals.
The only way to learn about this profession is through some marketing accounts on the Internet.
So when it comes to this profession, the evaluation of them in society is mixed, and it is different.
Many people can often see it on the InternetThis profession has a high recruitment salary, as well as the beautification of this lesser-known profession by some marketing accounts.
As a result, many people feel that this profession has a high income and makes a lot of money. Some people joked that if he could be given such a high salary to be an undertaker, even if the corpse ran away, he would be able to recover it.
But is the actual work of the mortuaries really as good as these ridiculous statements?
It can only be said that it is very different, and the world's misunderstanding of this profession is still very serious.
The first is that the real salary of most mortuaries may not be as high as we imagined, and any easy monthly income of more than 10,000 yuan is just a gimmick of some marketing accounts.
A career that can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month will not be too easySuch a high salary among mortuaries can only be achieved in some big cities or if they are already well-known in the industry.
Moreover, the work of the undertaker is far from being as simple as guarding the body, they also need to put on makeup and bathe the body of the deceased, who is avoided by everyone, to give the deceased dignity and respect after death.
In their work, they often dispose of the bodies of the deceased who have experienced accidents, and repair mutilated limbs that give outsiders nightmares at the slightest glance.
Whether it is visual, olfactory, or spiritual, the impact on a normal person is huge.
So in fact, although the degree of tolerance in society is increasing, and people's minds are becoming more and more open-minded, they are still not accepted by the world.
Even if people are materialists nowadays, it is undeniable that if they really meet someone who is a mortuary priest in their lives, most people will still avoid him, let alone invite him to their happy event.
Wu Jinna, as an 85** mortician, is also facing such a problem, social prejudice has made her feel very uncomfortable, and the family's incomprehension of her work is like a thorn in her heart.
So what made Wu Jinna choose such a career that is not favored by the world?
Wu Jinna's career choice enlightenment actually came from her experience when she was a child.
As a child, Wu's parents were often busy with work and found it difficult to find time to spend with her. When children of the same age can pester their parents and play with them every day, Wu Jinna can only guard the lonely empty room alone.
At this time, a relative who was very close to her mother knew Wu Jinna's current situation and felt very sorry for this little girl, so she often came to Wu Jinna's home with snacks and toys to accompany her.
The care of the little aunt gave Wu Jinna a complete and warm childhood, and the little Wu Jinna relied on her aunt even more than her parents.
But there are unforeseen circumstances, and this kind aunt can't wait for Wu Jinna to grow upDuring a business trip, my aunt was killed in an accident.
Wu Jinna was devastated when she heard the news from her parents, and at that time she could not accept the fact that her aunt could no longer accompany her, and shouted that she must take one last look at the body of this loved one.
But her parents were worried that their children would be scared and contaminated with bad things when they saw this, so they resolutely stopped Wu Jinna and did not let her see the last side of her aunt as she wished.
This incident planted a thorn in Wu Jinna's heart. The other life and death experiences that she experienced later also gave her a deeper understanding of death.
So when she was faced with the choice of major at the age of 16, she was determined to choose the relevant major of mortuaryRegardless of his parents' admonition and opposition, he resolutely chose to become an undertaker after graduation.
What seems to outsiders to be a very unfortunate career is her yearning and ideal in the first half of her life, and she studied professional knowledge hard at the undergraduate level and strives for excellence.
After graduating from her bachelor's degree in 2005, she was still eager to learn and felt that her learning results were not enough to achieve her dreams.
At that time, Japan's funeral technology and culture were relatively developed, so she decided to go abroad and enter Japan to learn advanced "old man bathing" technology.
But this thing is not as easy as imagined, and the ** of the deceased person will be more fragile, and a little less will make the corpse more unbearable.
Learning this technique requires meticulous treatment of every inch of the deceased's skin, such as hair, cheeks and the bathing techniques used on the body.
Wu Jinna studied hard in Japan for eight years before gradually mastering this technique.
In 2013, she returned to China and started a funeral companyShe always upholds respect for the deceased in her work, and cleanses their bodies.
Her heart is strong and warm, her eyes are clear and firm, and her hands are gentle and delicate. She used her own hands to make the final farewell for every deceased, bringing comfort and comfort to every family member.
Her skill and carefulness impressed everyone, and many people came to her because of her skills, including many corpses that had died unrecognizably in an accident.
Once, the family of a girl who died in a car accident found her and wanted to ask her to repair the girl's body, at least not to bury it so tragically.
Wu Jinna was also shocked when she saw the fragmented corpses, but then came the determination to repair them and bury the deceased with dignity.
When the family members saw the girl's corpse again, they couldn't help but be shocked by Wu Jinna's superb skills, and the corpse that was unrecognizable before was no different from the girl's life.
Even the old man in the girl's family praised Wu Jinna, hoping that she would be able to carry out the funeral after her death.
After getting the affirmation of the guests, Wu Jinna also strengthened her determination to be an undertaker, and this burial treatment also made the heart of the young Wu Jinna who did not see the last side of her aunt.
Gradually, she accepted death more calmly than ordinary people. She chose this seemingly lonely and heavy career, but she found a peace and solace in it that transcended life and death.
Her experience also made us understand that becoming an undertaker is not only a responsibility, but also a belief, a kind of cherishing life and respecting the deceased.
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