In 2015, in Caishi, Jinan, Shandong Province, a tragic and tragic incident occurred when a man drank a bottle of paraquat in front of his wife, followed by a 14-year-old son who drank a bottle of paraquat with him. Make the father and son so desperate? The son's last words are distressing.
The story also starts with a woman named Ah Hong, Ah Hong has a cheerful personality since childhood, very sociable, except for not loving school, she loves everything, after graduating from junior high school, Ah Hong entered the society, wandering in the town, and making a living by doing odd jobs. Ah Hong is the youngest daughter in the family, and her two sisters have already married other wives.
In a blink of an eye, Ah Hong is 19 years old, and the whole family is looking to introduce her to a partner, and it just so happens that the eldest sister's neighbor has a suitable candidate, the man's name is Da Zhuang, who is 26 years old, because of poor family conditions, he has not married a daughter-in-law, and Da Zhuang said that he can accept to join Ah Hong's family.
Soon, under the arrangement of the eldest sister, Ah Hong and Da Zhuang met, Ah Hong's cheerful personality made the honest Da Zhuang moved, Da Zhuang's parents were also very satisfied with Ah Hong, in order to make Da Zhuang and Ah Hong get married smoothly, Da Zhuang's parents said that they would renovate the old house of Ah Hong's family before the two got married to show their sincerity.
Not long after, under the urging of the family, the two got married smoothly, but unexpectedly, marriage turned out to be the beginning of Da Zhuang's nightmare, after marriage, Da Zhuang sincerely lived in Ah Hong's house, treated Ah Hong's parents as his own parents, and lived every day at two o'clock and one line, never paid after work, went home early to take care of the family, and took care of the family very much.
But Ah Hong is just the opposite, marriage did not let her retract, she is still obsessed with the outside world of flowers, Ah Hong dresses up every day, and plays crazy with friends outside, in fact, in Ah Hong's eyes, Da Zhuang is useless, there is no pursuit of life and career, and the two are not the same kind of people at all.
Later, the two gave birth to a boy, Da Zhuang was ecstatic, he felt that after Ah Hong became a mother, he would definitely take care of the family better than before, but what he didn't expect was that Ah Hong's lifestyle had not changed at all. A few years later, Ah Hong's parents died one after another, and Da Zhuang, who was the son-in-law, sent the second elder to the end, and the neighbors said that Ah Hong's parents recruited a good son-in-law, On the other hand, Ah Hong was still outside and ignored his family.
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After Ah Hong's parents died, she called Da Zhuang's mother over, hoping that her mother-in-law could replace her parents and continue to help her take care of the children, and she still went out to play by herself. When the child was six years old, Ah Hong actually brought the man outside home, and the mother-in-law saw the intimate behavior of the two with her own eyes, but in order to maintain the family, the mother-in-law did not tell Da Zhuang about it, and swallowed it into her stomach alone.
Later, Ah Hong gave birth to another girl, Da Zhuang thought, Ah Hong, who has two children, can always take on the responsibility of being a mother this time, but it backfired, Ah Hong often left the two children to her mother-in-law to take care of, and she soaked in the bar all day long.
Time came to 2012, Ah Hong chatted online, and met a man named Dayou, the two played hot on the Internet, and it didn't take long for it to appear, Dayou's monthly salary is more than 6,000, which is twice as high as Da Zhuang, Ah Hong is very satisfied with this, so she took her daughter to live with Dayou.
On Chinese New Year's Eve in 2013, Ah Hong took her daughter home for the New Year, she said that she wanted to take her son Xiao Zhuang to the city for a long time, when Xiao Zhuang came to the city, she was surprised to find that her mother actually lived with another man, Ah Hong also asked Xiao Zhuang to call Dayou's father, Xiao Zhuang said nothing and refused to call, so a week later, Xiao Zhuang was sent home by A Hong, back home, Xiao Zhuang saw his grandmother crying loudly, told his grandmother about the people and things he saw in the city, Xiao Zhuang cried and said: "Grandma, I don't call, Because I only have one dad."
Xiao Zhuang cried and told his grandmother: "Uncle Otomo is not only the person who lives with my mother in the city, but also Uncle Otomo's daughter, I have confided in my mother many times, hoping that she can go home and live together, but she can't listen to persuasion at all, and scolded me."
Good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles, this matter soon spread in the village, Xiao Zhuang felt that he would be looked at differently when he went to **, he felt more and more that he was abandoned by his mother, at school, he became the object of ridicule, Xiao Zhuang cried and said: "My classmates say that my mother is not a good person and ran away with others."
Xiao Zhuang didn't believe that Ah Hong would be so ruthless, and he didn't even want his own son, so Xiao Zhuang went to the city to find Ah Hong, and he persuaded his mother to go home again, however, this time, in exchange, it was still his mother's decision.
After Xiao Zhuang returned home, he proposed to his grandmother to ask his father to find him a stepmother, because he really didn't want to be the laughing stock of others, however, grandma's words made Xiao Zhuang completely collapse. Grandma said: "If the stepmother marries with a child, your life may not be easy, and you are likely to be bullied." Ah Hong's betrayal of the family has caused great damage to Xiao Zhuang's young heart, however, Ah Hong's shameful deeds are not the only ones.
Although Ah Hong gave up the family, but did not give up money, every month Ah Hong will ask Da Zhuang for alimony on the grounds of raising her daughter, maybe Da Zhuang is too honest, maybe he still wants to save Ah Hong, even if Ah Hong does too much, Da Zhuang will still give the full amount of his monthly salary to this vicious woman.
As the saying goes, people's hearts are not enough to swallow elephants, Ah Hong is such a person, she takes Da Zhuang's hard-earned money every month and lives with other men, Ah Hong did not think of Da Zhuang's good, let alone change her mind, on the contrary, she looked down on Da Zhuang.
Time came to 2014, Da Zhuang's field was expropriated, according to the policy, Da Zhuang and Ah Hong, as well as two children, each of them can share 200,000 yuan in compensation, Ah Hong learned, unprecedentedly returned home, excessively, Ah Hong not only took her share, but also proposed to take 120,000 from Da Zhuang's 200,000, in order to be able to keep Ah Hong's heart, Da Zhuang decisively agreed, surprisingly, Ah Hong got the money in hand, and ran into the city with his daughter, and continued to live with Dayou.
Ah Hong once again left his 13-year-old son, time came to 2015, this year, 14-year-old Xiao Zhuang dropped out of school, over the years, "mother ran away with a wild man" such words are endless, he can't bear the gossip of the people around him, so he went to the construction site to work to support himself, a month, only more than 1,000 yuan of wages, Xiao Zhuang saved the money, all handed over to his grandmother, because he knew that once his mother knew that his father had money, he would definitely have to leave.
One day in August of the same year, Xiao Zhuang held on to the last hope and went to the city to persuade his mother to return to the family, the ending was the same as before, Xiao Zhuang was not only rejected by Ah Hong, but also humiliated by Ah Hong, Xiao Zhuang was completely disappointed, and made up his mind to sever the mother-son relationship with Ah Hong. That night, Da Zhuang couldn't hold back, and had a big quarrel with Ah Hong in **, Ah Hong filed for divorce, Da Zhuang said that divorce was okay, but Ah Hong had to return the extra 120,000 levies that had been taken before, and the money that was finally obtained, how could a scoundrel like Ah Hong return it easily, Ah Hong emphasized that the house at home was hers and would never be repaid.
In fact, although Ah Hong has done a lot of outrageous things, Da Zhuang never wanted to divorce, because he is a very traditional man, and in his consciousness, having a complete family is more important than anything else. A few days later, Da Zhuang relented again, he began to humble again, in order to save Ah Hong, Da Zhuang came to the clothing store, carefully selected clothes for her beloved woman, and then went home to prepare a sumptuous dinner, Da Zhuang said that he had something to say to Ah Hong, and called Ah Hong home.
However, Da Zhuang's approach did not save Ah Hong, Ah Hong put forward more excessive demands on the spot, Ah Hong insisted on divorce, and said that he must take away the remaining 200,000 deposits in the family, Da Zhuang insisted on refusing to divorce, and did not agree to Ah Hong's excessive conditions, the two sides have been deadlocked, until the next afternoon, Da Zhuang saw that his wife had made up his mind, and deeply felt that he was very cowardly, Da Zhuang's emotions suddenly exploded, and he roared to Ah Hong: "If you leave this house, I will drink medicine, I will not live!" ”
Da Zhuang naively thought that forcing him to die could make Ah Hong change his mind, but he didn't expect Ah Hong to sneer and shout: "If you don't drink today, you won't be a man!" In a fit of rage, he picked up a bottle of paraquat and drank it all. When the son saw that his father had found a short sight, he ran out of the door crying, and it turned out that after going out, the desperate Xiao Zhuang came to the store, bought a bottle of paraquat, and followed him in the same way.
Subsequently, the father and son were both sent to the hospital, four days later, Da Zhuang died, 14 days later, Xiao Zhuang did not breathe, relatives found a suicide note in Xiao Zhuang's clothes, the suicide note was full of his hatred for his mother, the suicide note showed that Xiao Zhuang chose to commit suicide, all because his mother A Hong was at fault first, for more than ten years, his father has been bullied by his mother, he felt that his father was really pitiful, he didn't want to see his father in pain, so he wanted to accompany him.
In the end, Ah Hong bore 30,000 yuan of funeral expenses, Da Zhuang's family buried the father and son, because the two committed suicide, Ah Hong did not need to bear any responsibility, Da Zhuang's father and son suffered heartache, Ah Hong's actions are really infuriating, but what I want to say is that Ah Hong is the villain who made the mistake first, Da Zhuang really shouldn't use Ah Hong's mistakes to punish himself, now that Da Zhuang and his son have both died, how should his elderly mother accept it? And how do you spend the rest of your life?