"How are you going to come back, aren't you supposed to die outside? "Ni Xiying, who was working hard and busy at home, suddenly saw the person outside the door, her emotions instantly lost control, and she shouted loudly.
However, the person outside the door was none other than her husband, who had been missing for ten years. Everyone thought he was dead outside, but ten years later, he came back and said, "**What the hell is going on?"
Ni Xiying's first husband was the person standing outside the door, named Ni Fasheng.
Ni Xiying, who went out to work ten years ago, disappeared due to the SARS epidemic and could no longer support her family, so she married her current husband Lao Feng, and the two lived in harmony. However, upon his return, Ni Fa Sheng accused her of being unchaste, saying that she was with other men behind his back, and demanded that the house they had worked so hard to build be divided.
So, in the past ten years, Ni Fasheng has gone **? How should Lao Feng deal with this sudden situation? Ni Xiying, who was born in the countryside, although her family is not wealthy, has always been strict with her.
Ni Xiying has been the pillar of the family since she was a child, and she shouldered the burden of housework at a young age. Not only does she make dinner while her parents are busy with farm work, but she also helps with household chores after finishing her homework.
The poverty of her family made Ni Xiying independent early, and she would get up early every morning to feed the pigs, and then carry her schoolbag to study in a rural primary school. At school, she met Ni Fasheng.
They often play together between classes, Ni Xiying likes to tease him, and he is willing to play with her. A special tacit understanding and friendship has been formed between them. After entering secondary school, they continue to maintain this association.
Ni Xiying, with her tenacity and diligence, interprets the strength of family and the importance of education. And her friendship with Ni Fasheng also shows the deep emotional bond between people.
After graduating from high school, Ni Fasheng decided to give up his studies to look for better job opportunities in other places, considering his family's financial difficulties. After learning the news, Ni Xiying was deeply touched by the situation of the four walls of the family, and decided to go out to work to subsidize the family.
Although her parents felt sorry for her, they were also helpless due to the financial pressure of the family. After learning that she went out to work with Ni Fasheng from the same village, her parents took her to Ni Fasheng's house.
Since then, the two have been married, and together they packed their bags and went to other places. In a foreign country, Ni Fasheng cared for Ni Xiying, and the relationship between the two became clearer after the secret love on campus.
Ni Xiying and Ni Fasheng's love story began with a simple wedding banquet, however, the married life was not as happy as she wished. During her pregnancy, the reaction was strong, and Ni Fasheng couldn't stay by her side all the time because of work.
Despite this, she chose to stay at home and face the hardships of pregnancy alone. She takes care of Ni Fasheng's life meticulously, even when he goes out to work, she will care for him through **.
At first, Ni Fasheng would send money back every month and talk to her frequently.
Ni Xiying's days are calm and busy, although there is less time to meet each other, but she understands in her heart that in order to live, Ni Fasheng needs to work hard to make money. She waited with great anticipation, and finally, the child was born, and she woke up from her slumber to see Ni Fasheng's tired but satisfied face, and her sleeping daughter in her arms.
At that moment, she felt that all the waiting and dedication was worth it. Although Ni Fasheng has only been home for a few months, his heart no longer seems to be completely at home, he always looks at his mobile phone when he is taking care of his children, Ni Xiying didn't think much about it at the time, only thinks that it may be something at work urging him to return to the field.
However, Ni Xiying's intuition told her that some things are not simple.
After everything stabilized, Ni Fasheng went out to work again, but he kept saying that the business outside was not good, and the money sent home was sporadic and not enough for the family to live.
Ni Xiying had to take on the burden of the family alone, she raised the children, did housework, and sometimes did odd jobs near her home to earn money to buy good food for the children. However, Ni Fasheng went home less and less, and the money sent home went from less to nothing.
Despite the disappointment and helplessness, Ni Xiying was pregnant, and she could only keep calling Ni Fasheng, hoping that he could send money back. After the birth of his youngest son, Ni Fasheng never came back, so Ni Xiying had to take the child to find him at the place where he worked.
Seeing her with the child, Ni Fasheng looked a little flustered.
He rubbed his hands together and took his wife and children back to their quarters. However, as soon as Ni Xiying entered the door, she found that there were women's clothes in the room. The two had a fierce dispute, Ni Fasheng thought that this was a common mistake of men, and there was no need to make a fuss, but Ni Xiying was disappointed in him, no wonder he didn't send money home, no wonder he didn't fight **, and he didn't want to go home, it turned out that it was all because of this woman.
Although after the quarrel, Ni Fasheng's apology and assurance made Ni Xiying's heart soften, and she chose to forgive for the stability of her children and family. She hopes that Ni Fasheng will correct his mistakes and take on the responsibilities of her husband and father.
In the Spring Festival of 2003, Ni Fasheng, who had worked for a year, returned home and reunited with his wife Ni Xiying.
As they walked around the village and saw that new houses had been built for each family, they felt a little guilty because their houses were still leaky and dilapidated houses. After Ni Xiying heard his idea, she proposed that they go to Guangzhou to work together, so that the two of them do not need to be separated from each other all the time, and they can earn more money, build a new house as soon as possible, and let the children live a good life.
They discussed it for a while, and just after the New Year, they packed their bags and set off. However, as soon as they arrived in Guangzhou, they were hit by SARS, and the whole city was filled with an atmosphere of panic.
After two days on the street and no work, the factory was shut down, and in the face of high living expenses, they decided to temporarily return to their hometown in order to have someone to take care of their children.
Ni Fasheng decided to let his wife Ni Xiying go back to her hometown to take care of her family first, and stay in Guangzhou to find a job. However, what Ni Xiying didn't expect was that after returning to her hometown this time, she was never able to contact him again.
Although she kept calling, no one answered, and he never took the initiative to contact her. Ni Xiying spends every day in panic, fearing that he may have contracted SARS in Guangzhou or even lost his life.
After the epidemic ended, Ni Xiying began to inquire about her husband's news, and entrusted relatives and friends to look for clues, but never got any results. She even went to Guangzhou to find it herself, but the people around her speculated that Ni Fasheng might have died.
However, Ni Xiying is unwilling to accept this fact easily, she insists on the last glimmer of hope, and is unwilling to give up the search for her husband. At Ni Xiying's insistence, her daughter began to post missing information on the Internet, hoping to find her father's traces, but unfortunately, there was still no response to the news of the search.
Faced with her husband's disappearance and the family's predicament, Ni Xiying decided to fulfill her husband's wish and demolished the family's house and built a new one. To raise money to build a house, she borrowed money from all over the place, sometimes working four jobs a day to keep her children schooled and pay off her debts.
But even though she worked so hard, the house was still only half built, and the family was still so poor that there was no rice to cook.
When Ni Xiying's children were crying out that they were hungry every day, even her mother-in-law suggested that she find another man to maintain the family. One winter in 2008, when she was about to go out to work in the fields, a strange man appeared on her doorstep.
The man's name was Lao Feng, and he was an employee at a nearby factory. People in the village introduced him to Ni Xiying, and when he heard that she was a single mother raising her children alone, his heart was filled with sympathy.
He stepped forward and said to Ni Xiying with a smile: "Hello, I was introduced by the aunt next door, Sister Ni, I have something I want to discuss with you, can you help me?" ”
Ni Xiying looked at him curiously, and said with a smile on her face: "If there is something, just say it." Lao Feng looked at Ni Xiying frankly and said that he was willing to take on the responsibility that Ni Fasheng failed to bear, and provide financial and emotional support for Ni Xiying and the children.
Ni Xiying was deeply moved by Lao Feng's selflessness and love, and she knew that she could no longer support this family on her own. So, she said sincerely: "Lao Feng, I am very grateful for your kindness, and you know the situation of me and the children, I am just afraid of affecting you." ”
Lao Feng was very moved when he heard this, his eyes flashed with tears, he stepped forward and held Ni Xiying's hand tightly, and said firmly: "Sister Ni, I am willing to take on the responsibility of being a husband and father, give us a warm home, and I will help you in the future." ”
As time passed, they got along more and more, and gradually understood each other's situation.
Lao Feng is full of sympathy and pity for Ni Xiying, a tough woman who bears the burden of the family alone, and he hopes to bring some changes and improvements to her. It didn't take long for their relationship to come to fruition, and Lao Feng became her dependent.
Ni Xiying's in-laws also expressed their understanding and support for this, after all, their son is no longer there, and she can no longer be left to bear all this alone. With the blessing of everyone, they held the wedding in the traditional way, inviting a large group of relatives and friends to the village to celebrate.
Lao Feng's joining changed Ni Xiying's life, and his down-to-earth ability made him hand over all his salary to Ni Xiying the moment he got married.
Ni Xiying is a virtuous and virtuous woman, with the support of Lao Feng, her family quickly got rid of the previous debt predicament, and also rebuilt the previous unfinished house with two floors, which was highly recognized by her parents-in-law, and they treated Lao Feng as half a son.
In addition, Lao Feng's factory also provided them with a low-rent house, which solved their housing problem. However, just as Ni Xiying was immersed in a happy life, her ex-husband suddenly appeared, breaking the tranquility and happiness.
One day in 2013, Ni Xiying was busy in full swing, because the children were about to come home from vacation, and she had to clean the house as soon as possible so that the children could live comfortably.
At this time, there was a sudden knock on the door, Ni Xiying thought that the children were back, and while complaining that the children didn't know how to bring the key, she walked to the door and opened the door, but the people standing at the door made Ni Xiying panic.
When the middle-aged man stood in front of the door, holding in his hand the guilt of disappearing for ten years, he was Ni Xiying's husband - Ni Fasheng. Seeing him standing silently at the door of her house, Ni Xiying had mixed feelings in her heart, and she silently called Lao Feng a **, hoping that he could help solve this embarrassing scene.
In the midst of her and the villagers' denunciations, Ni Fasheng's family also scolded him, and he looked at his relatives and knelt down to apologize to his parents and wife in tears.
"There hasn't been a day in these years that I haven't spent a day in pain, and I want to come back to atone for my sins, but I haven't earned any money, and I feel like I don't have the face to come back," he said. Ni Xiying listened to his explanation, her heart was still full of questions, she didn't understand, even if she didn't make any money, she should give her a ** or send a message.
She had been worried about Ni Fasheng for ten years, and although everyone thought that he had passed away, when she married Lao Feng, her heart was still full of guilt for him. Now, when Ni Fasheng suddenly returned, the words he said were ridiculous.
When he found out that he was being turned away by his wife and that a man was standing next to him to protect her, he complained that his children had become someone else's children ten years after he left.
He angrily scolded Lao Feng for being a third party, claiming that they did not have a marriage certificate and that their cohabitation was illegal, and threatened Ni Xiying to return to him. However, all this made Ni Xiying feel funny, and she thought that Ni Fasheng came back because he couldn't get along outside.
So, she ignored Ni Fasheng, who was standing outside, pulled Lao Feng back to the courtyard and closed the door. However, when she went to the court to file for divorce, Ni Fasheng asked her to pay compensation on the grounds that the house owned half of herself, which surprised Ni Xiying.
In November 2013, the court granted the two a divorce. The verdict showed that since the house was purchased by the two during their marriage, the property rights did belong to the two of them, but due to the difference in area, Ni Fasheng had a smaller share.
In addition, Ni Fasheng also needs to pay more than 200 yuan per month for living expenses to his minor son. Although Ni Xiying was not satisfied with the verdict, she and Lao Feng still worked hard to buy the property rights of the house in Ni Fasheng's hands, and they never had anything to do with him again.
Some people believe that Ni Xiying's encounter with Lao Feng is a choice she made in order to get out of the predicament, and there is no need to care too much about the opinions of others.
Some people think that even if the husband disappears, it is not appropriate to find a next partner as long as the marriage certificate is not cancelled, and this behavior may be too hasty. At the same time, the society's recognition of Ni Xiying's hard work and dedication also calls for a more just and reasonable property distribution system.
These properties were originally the result of Ni Xiying and Lao Feng's hard work, but now they are half taken away by a man with no sense of responsibility, is it fair?