I received a private message, the content is not long, but the situation is quite tangled, tangled, it is difficult to give an answer ......
A buddy askedHis girlfriend said that he didn't want to marry far away, what should he do? Do you persist or give up?
To be honest, although similar situations are not common in life, some plots are actually similar.
For example, graduation season is breakup season, and I believe many college students have experienced it.
No way,The two have different destinations and are destined to break up.
Sometimes, there are also times when one side is willing to compromise and follow in the footsteps of the other.
Unfortunately, such a relationship may not necessarily have a happy ending.
So,Girls say they don't want to marry far away, should boys give up?
The answer is also no, after all, if you really love, how can you say that you will give up.
Having said all this, there is never a standard answer.
It can only be said that this problem is indeed too complicated, so complicated that there is no solution at all.
Of course, there is no solution to the problem, and some processes can still be followed
No matter what the final outcome is, at least there are no regrets!
1.If you have enough time, let's wait and see.
First of all, if two people are just talking about this issue in small talk and are not in a hurry to make a decision, then you don't have to think too much about it.
After all, life is always full of unknowns, and planning too long-term is a kind of mediocrity.
When two people are together, there are many variables, maybe one day they break up because of other things, maybe one day their girlfriend suddenly changes her mind, and all kinds of possibilities exist, so don't think too much about it first.
You can have an initial response plan, but there is no need to rush into a decision.
2.If you don't have much time, try to convince her.
Of course, if you're pressed for time, such as graduating soon, or if you're moving around soon, you'll have to discuss it.
Everyone has their own roots, and it's understandable that they don't want to be too far from home.
As a boy, to find out the specific thoughts of his girlfriend, is it completely unconsiderable to marry far away, or is it a lack of security?
Or maybe you have other concerns, such as the difficulty of finding a job.
Only by figuring out what your girlfriend thinks can you convince her, and you can share some positive examples with her, but remember that you must not put pressure on her.
3.It really doesn't make sense, so I will consider accommodating her.
If, after trying to communicate with his girlfriend, he still can't get her to change her mind, the boy can also think about it in turn, whether he is willing to follow his girlfriend?
Love requires two people to tolerate each other, not that girls must accommodate boys, in fact, there are boys who are willing to compromise.
After all, if it is true love, then it will definitely not give up easily.
Moreover, boys are generally more independent, and if they go to their girlfriend's city for development, they can also live well.
4.If there is no fate, say goodbye decently.
Life is realistic, and reality is often quite cruel.
Sometimes, if there are some irreconcilable contradictions between two people, then breaking up is the best choice.
Girls don't want to marry far away, and boys don't want to compromiseThey may be true love, but they don't love enough, so neither of them is willing to back down.
Although there are regrets, try to play the ending better, with blessings, say goodbye decently, and bless each other.
Actually,Times are different, as long as people are independent enough, then distance is really not a problem.
This is the same for both men and women, and anyone can give in.
The key is to see, how much love, right?
Finally, finally, I want to say.
When you get to the crossroads, you don't necessarily have to go your separate ways
Forget each other in the rivers and lakes, although chic,
Walking with the end of the world, isn't it more fragrant......