If there is no mutual trust between parents and children, family education cannot be carried out.
So how can parents and children trust each other?
It depends on whether parents trust their children or not.
For example, a parent gives a mobile phone to a child and says, "Can you control the time you spend playing with your phone?" The child must have said yes. But in reality, most children simply can't control the amount of time they spend playing with their phones.
What to do? Many parents use this as an excuse to strictly control their children's mobile phone play, or even not let their children touch mobile phones at all.
That's distrust.
This mistrust can lead to conflict between children and parents.
Maybe some parents want to say, he really can't control himself! I don't care about him, who cares about him?
What I want to say is that many parents don't understand what the focus of your education is on their children, not to control their children, let them study, and do what they don't want to do, because they are afraid that they will delay their studies.
This is a wrong way of thinking.
As a parent, in the face of this matter, you should give your child trust and believe that he can control himself, although you know in your heart that he can't control himself.
You have to give him time, give him the opportunity to make mistakes, let him realize the consequences of not being able to control himself, and let him feel that you trust him and that he has failed his promise to his parents.
Over time, he will gradually learn to take care of himself.
Of course, this will take time.
You don't have to worry about him delaying his studies by playing with his mobile phone, as long as his self-control is exercised, it will be much easier to catch up with his studies.