Far from marrying? What is a long-distance marriage? What we all think is that if you are not in the same city as your parents, you will marry far away. Maybe it has more definitions.
Since childhood, everyone around us has taught us to listen to our parents, especially our own marriage. From ancient times to the present, most marriages without parental consent end in failure, or they are not happy and happy, and there is a category of people whose choices will be completed even if they are kneeling. I'm the one who doesn't listen. chose a person that his parents were not optimistic about, and married far away. From the initial freshness to the current helplessness, the path I have chosen must be walked on my knees.
Before I had no children, I comforted my parents that now there is a high-speed rail everywhere, and I can come back in a day's round-trip, and I will come back often in the future. But the girls who marry far away, have you done it? Do you go back to see your parents every year, as I said before? My answer is that I deceived my parents and didn't go back to spend the New Year with them every year, because reality no longer allows you to leave as soon as you say.
When you want to go back, the child is still young, you can't bear to let the child toss back and forth, and you are worried that the child will not adapt to it after going back, and the parents are also so relieved, then wait for the child to go back when he is older.
But the child is older, and the epidemic gives you a reason not to go back. In the three years of the epidemic, every family in the country has suffered different degrees of hard damage, and you have no choice but to go back if you want to go home. So the so-called idea that distance is not a problem is a blow to the head. But the ultimate reason is only clear to me, and my own economic situation makes me afraid to go back, for fear of my parents' worries, and fear of neighbors' gossip.
There are also some people on the Internet who say that marrying far away is a big gamble, and if you win, you will be happy, and if you lose, it will be a failure. I hope that girls who want to marry far away will not let themselves lose!