Song Ailing once opposed Sun Yat-sen's love affair with Song Qingling
In the ancient Chinese marriage system, men were allowed to take concubines, and women's status was restricted. "Cold Palace"It symbolizes the isolation of women who do not like it. Entering **, the Western-style concept has impacted polygamy, although the phenomenon of polygamy still exists in some social classes, monogamy has gradually become the mainstream.
Monogamy is advocated to save resources, but this is mainly aimed at ordinary families, and wealthy families regard two- and three-bedroom as the norm. Although the New Thought advocated single-mindedness, there was no guarantee that a woman would become the love of life.
Many young people enter into marriage in the ignorant adolescence, and the male options in traditional families are limited, and once the family is established, it is not easy to change. **Celebrities in pursuit"Love", not hesitating to break with the original match, showing the complex emotional trade-offs of that era.
Sun Wen and Song Jiashu have a deep friendship, but Song Jiashu never expected that his second daughter would have a soft spot for Sun Wen. This not only made Song Jiashu feel embarrassed, but even Sun Wen, who is a well-known national soldier, is also facing double pressure.
Song Jiashu was worried that he didn't want his daughter to marry Sun Wen, who already had a wife. Celebrities in that era divorced and remarried, and there were often twists and turns, such as the story of Lu Xiaoman and Xu Zhimo, and the final ending was not satisfactory.
Song Jiashu is worried that his second daughter will follow in his footsteps and go to misfortune. Faced with his daughter's insistence, he turned to his eldest daughter, Song Ailing, to find a solution. When Song Ailing learned of this, she was furious and resolutely opposed, seeing this as a "scandal" in the family, trying to prevent the relationship to avoid possible negative effects, and she regarded her sister's emotions as a potential ** storm.
Song Ailing's opposition was not out of reason, but from her inner unwillingness. In the past, her pursuit was unsuccessful, but now when she sees her sister and Sun Wen having feelings, she will inevitably feel jealous.
As the eldest sister, she tries to prevent this possible union by arranging a marriage for her younger sister, which is behind her deep jealousy of her second sister who surpasses herself. She proposed to her father that she hoped to end the relationship between Sun Wen and her second sister by this means.
Song seems to agree with this approach, and Kong Xiangxi is shocked by this, fearing that it will damage his second sister's reputation. However, none of them realized Song Ailing's hidden jealousy.
Song Ailing quickly arranged for the second sister a ** man of the same age and the same beliefs, and arranged a family gathering to facilitate their marriage. However, the second sister firmly refused the other party, and no matter how persuaded by her family, she stood her ground.
Realizing that time is running out, Sun Wen in Japan is faced with a choice: he already has a wife and children, and needs to support the elderly. Under the guidance of his friends, he understands that only through divorce can he be united with Ching Ling.
With the support of his friends, Sun Wen went through the divorce procedures in Japan, and at the same time apologized to his original wife, Mrs. Lu, and invited her to Japan to discuss the future. Surprisingly, Mrs. Lu, a traditional Chinese woman with small feet, showed amazing understanding and readily agreed to the divorce, probably eager to end her turbulent life and seek peace and stability in her family.
Original text: The Song family in Shanghai is worried about Song Qingling's future, and no amount of persuasion can change her determination to follow Sun Wen. Even Song Ailing, the recognized wise man of the Song family, was helpless.
She firmly believes that as long as Sun Wen and Qingling are separated, they will always find a wishful husband for her, but Qingling has quietly planned to go abroad to join Sun Wen. After teaching her friend's daughter English, Ching Ling seized the opportunity to embark on a journey to Japan.
When the Song family found out, she had boarded a Japanese ship and set sail. At this moment, Song Ailing was the most annoyed, she understood that Qingling would definitely soar in the future because of Sun Wen, and enjoy glory and wealth as the first lady.
Although Song Ailing married into the Confucian family for a while, in front of Sun Wen, her status still could not be compared with Qingling's potential status. If Qingling becomes Sun Wen's wife, then her dignity will far exceed Song Ailing's thoughts.
Faced with their daughter's relationship with Sun Wen, Song Jiashu and his wife were full of worries about the emotional hardship that their daughter might endure, rather than directly opposing it. Song Ailing reveals a deep jealousy, a subtle emotion that reveals the fact that she tried to pursue Sun Wen but was rejected, a past that is not fictional, but a well-documented family history.
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