A lot of people feel this way.
Put down the phone, I don't know what to do;Forgetting to bring your phone is like losing your soul.
Only by picking up the mobile phone, looking at the small **, swiping the circle of friends, playing a small game, and buying something, can you feel at ease.
Before you know it, time has passed, and so has life.
The garbage in the mobile phone is poured into life little by little, and life is slowly declining.
The way you look down at your phone and snub the people who really care about you.
Seen a public service announcement.
A grandmother in her 70s who lives deep in the mountains asked the staff to install a wireless network.
The staff was puzzled, Grandma didn't have a smartphone, why should she install the Internet?
Grandma said: "During the Chinese New Year, my children and grandchildren have returned, but there is no Internet, so they can't stay." With the internet, they were able to stay longer. ”
The staff said: "They are all looking down at their phones, how can they care about you." ”
Grandma smiled: "It's good to watch them play with their mobile phones." ”
In fact, similar situations do not only occur in families. More and more social interactions should be through mobile phones, and at parties, everyone takes out their mobile phones to avoid awkward conversations, or through mobile phones, bringing work into the "dinner". When you go out to travel, you spend more time looking at your phone than you do looking at the scenery.
At a gathering of friends, three of the five were looking at their phones. When talking about a topic related to someone, the other party just said "um", which is very boring.
At the end of the conversation, it is "nothing to say".
When you turn on your mobile phone, you can contact people thousands of miles away, but parents and children have become "netizens", and relatives, friends, classmates and colleagues have become "group friends". Put down the phone, everyone can't speak;Occasionally, it is a meeting of netizens, familiar and unfamiliar.
Sending red envelopes, emojis, and ** online information, everyone is very active, but if you really want to talk about serious things, or who you want to care about, you will be "dumb". If you want to borrow money, I'm afraid the other party won't even reply to a message.
Looking down at the phone has become a habit, so looking up at people, you are not used to it. To establish a relationship, both parties need to interact, and to ruin a relationship, one party can block and delete it.
People who always envy their phones, your life is led by the nose by others.
More and more people bring the "garbage" in their mobile phones into their lives, turning life into a "garbage dump".
Open an online platform and watch a live broadcast. "Wow, so many people buy books".As soon as you were excited, you followed everyone to buy a book. However, after the book was mailed home, he rarely read it seriously, let alone read it completely.
A friend of mine, following the host of a certain platform, bought dozens of books and put them on his desk, but he didn't read any of them. Because books are boring and boring, they are not as "colorful" as the host said.
There is a certain little ** that tells you to do itA certain dish。"Okay, the color and flavor are complete", you are hot-headed, so you bought a lot of raw materials according to the other party's requirements.
But the dishes you make don't taste good. If you think about it, the person who taught you to cook is in the north, and you are a southerner; **It is used to see, not to "smell"; Others eat with relish, it's posed, not the taste of the dish is really good.Looking back, you really wasted a lot of ingredients and really spent a small amount of money. Someone teaches you to do the, and you're happy. After all, if you exercise with everyone, you won't be lazy.
Sadly, you twisted your foot. Because you're not an "athlete" at all, and you're not a fitness trainer. Not only did you not look good, but you also hurt yourself.
Someone shouted in the mobile phone "Rice, discounted to 'one'", you were moved, moved your fingers, and bought dozens of catties. When I got off work, I asked the grain and oil store at the door by the way - oh, the things that others discounted are still more expensive than those in the grain and oil store. Also, you have to carry upstairs on your own back, and you can't enjoy the "home delivery" service.
Always remember that to live happily, you need to "refuse to buy, buy, buy". Low-priced things are often an effortless pit.From people to people buying and I buying, it's just one step away. You are always staring at your phone, and it is difficult to restrain you. Other people's happiness is someone else's, and your happiness is yours, but you are always imitating others and following others, and in confusion, you shout the slogan of "be yourself".
Using mobile phones to educate the next generation is the greatest sorrow of a family.
Parents are busy, children are noisy. The parents were in a hurry and took out their mobile phones: "Play by yourself." ”
The child hugged the phone and became quiet.
I don't know what day it began, the child began to grab the phone, secretly look at the phone, and recharge some garbage games.
When the child is in junior high school and high school, the parents are anxious and scold all day long - holding a mobile phone, is it useful?
Parents have never reflected that children like to look at their mobile phones, which are cultivated by their parents, but the process of cultivation is very long and hidden.
In the living room, parents hugged their mobile phones and laughed. How can children feel at ease with pens and homework books? Children are not saints and cannot be "free from external things".There are also many people who think that if you treat your mobile phone correctly, you can find a lot of valuable information from it. For example, an electronic version of an ancient text, a valuable movie.
Parents have good ideas, but the more valuable they are, the less attractive they are to their children.
Mobile phones really don't educate the next generation. Children are not gods, and they are not as disciplined as we think.
New York Times columnist David Brooks wrote, "Tech companies know what causes dopamine spikes in the brain." Their products employ 'hijacking techniques' to lure us in and create a 'forced cycle'. ”The garbage happiness in the mobile phone is unstoppable, this is someone else's trick. You should be sensible and remember three key steps.
First, real life.
Life in the network belongs to others, and you should pay attention to your own life circle. Look at the people around you and what they need. Put down your phone, have a chat, and take a walk. The most important concern is the elderly who do not know how to use mobile phones.
Second, the right to choose.
What you need and like, be sure to figure it out. Whatever is not needed, do not invite into life. Don't pay for your "low IQ".
Third, teach by word and deed.
You don't have to force the people around you to do it, but you should be strict with self-cultivation. A good environment leads to a good education. Don't use two rulers to measure people.
Maugham once said, "In order to tranquil the soul, a man must do two things a day that he does not like." ”Life is precious, live openly.
Although the mobile phone is good, use it self-disciplinedly.