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Do you know? What is it like to love someone to the extreme? Bai Yansong perfectly answers this question in "White Talk": at a certain age, or when you love to the extreme, you will find that you no longer desire what you want from others, but pay more attention to "what I can do for you". It's not hypocrisy, it's not pandering, it's the need for love deep down.
This shows that when a man truly loves a woman, he will have a strong desire in his heart, that is, he wants to do something for the other party, and wants to see the other party feel happy and satisfied because of his own efforts. This desire is not an external compulsion or disguise, but stems from the inner desire and pursuit of love.
Middle-aged men may no longer say "I love you" as easily as they did when they were younger, but their actions reveal deep affection and kindness to their partners everywhere. If a middle-aged man has done the following three things for you, then even if he loves you to the extreme.
1. Make money for you to spend, and never calculate with you
True love cannot be expressed in words, and deeds are the best illustration of faithfulness. —Shakespeare.
Middle-aged men understand that love needs the support of a material foundation, and as the pillars of the family, they know the importance of money. However, a middle-aged man who truly loves you will not hesitate to share the fruits of his labor with you, and is even willing to pay more for you.
Uncle Wang is such a person. He wakes up early and works late every day to provide a better life for his wife and children. He never calculates the expenses with his wife, and even often takes the initiative to buy her some things she likes.
He said: "I make money to make a good life for both of them, and as long as they are happy, I am happy." This kind of unpretentious love makes people feel the sincerity and affection of middle-aged men.
In Uncle Wang's view, providing material security for his family is his responsibility and responsibility as a man. He never complains about the hard work and fatigue because he knows that it is all for the happiness of his family. This spirit of paying silently and never caring is one of the manifestations of a middle-aged man who loves you to the extreme.
Second, when there is a disagreement, let you
Love is not about finding common ground, but about learning to respect differences. —Pierce Anthony.
In love, it is inevitable that there will be times when two people disagree. However, a middle-aged man who truly loves you will choose to let you and respect your opinions and ideas at these times. This is not to say that they are not assertive or weak, but that they are more willing to make compromises and concessions in order to preserve each other's feelings.
Mr. Li and his wife have been married for many years and have always had a good relationship. However, the two will also have disagreements over some family trivialities. Whenever this happens, Mr. Li always chooses to give in, he said: "Home is a place of love, not a place of reason." I'm willing to compromise for her sake because I don't want her to be hurt in any way. This spirit of tolerance and consideration makes people feel the cherishing and care of middle-aged men for love.
In Mr. Li's view, love requires tolerance and understanding from both parties. He is willing to put aside his stubbornness and prejudice for the sake of his wife and respect her opinions and ideas. This spirit of mutual respect and mutual understanding is one of the manifestations of a middle-aged man who loves you to the extreme.
3. Share interesting stories with you every day to make you happy
Love needs joy, and happiness requires love. —Anonymous.
Middle-aged men's lives may be full of stress and trivialities, but they are still willing to share interesting stories and amuse you every day. They understand that happiness is the preservative of love, and only by making you feel happy can you make each other's feelings deeper and longer.
Uncle Zhang is such a person. Although he is busy with work, he will tell his wife some funny stories and jokes every day when he comes home. "Seeing her smile makes me feel like it's worth it," he said. ”
This simple happiness is one of the details of life that middle-aged men weave with love. They are willing to use their humor and humor to resolve the triviality and boredom of life, so that love blooms more brilliantly in happiness. This spirit of managing with heart and caring with love is one of the manifestations of a middle-aged man who loves you to the extreme.
Conclusion:
In short, middle-aged men's love may no longer be as vigorous and passionate as it was when they were younger, but their love is deeper, more stable, and longer.
If a middle-aged man is willing to make money for you, let you, and make you happy, please cherish this hard-won love! Because such men already love you to the extreme, they use their actions to interpret their dedication and persistence in love.
At the same time, please remember to give them the same love and respect, so that this love will be more beautiful and long-lasting under each other's care!