Sun Tzu's Art of War is a way to live
1. In the face of insults, jokes, and mockery, people who are quiet are the real ruthless characters. They are neither angry nor embarrassed, strong inside, and unmoved by the outside world.
2. Those who always compete with others and are bent on pursuing victory and defeat are often brave and resourceful, and often lose miserably in the end. The real winners are those who know how to back down at the right time and are good at admitting defeat.
3. They never complain about the harm caused by others, nor do they blame others for being sorry for themselves. They know that all mistakes stem from their own lack of judgment and ability.
4. The more stable a person's emotions are, the less likely they are to get angry, which means that he has sufficient hole cards in his hand and is full of confidence.
On the contrary, if a person loses his temper frequently, it probably means that he has little hole cards left in his hand and can only rely on tantrums to hide his powerlessness and dissatisfaction.
5. If you want to be popular, then never let others feel how shrewd you are, you must make people feel that you are very real and simple, so that others will be willing to approach you (must remember).
6. Don't always chat with those two or three colleagues, but know how to chat with different colleagues, which is called information exchange.
7. When chatting with others, you should not only talk about your own strengths, but also talk more about the strengths of the other party, otherwise it will be difficult to continue chatting.
8. The person who criticizes you in person, you must listen with an open mind, this is the person who is good to you.
9. Others can laugh at themselves, you must not follow them, people who know how to laugh at themselves will not have too low EQ, and those who like to go along with and step on others will have really low EQ.
10. Don't ask for face, don't want face, suffer a few more losses, be ridiculed a few times, and the above will be.
11. Don't casually ask others how much money they make, higher than you, you are uncomfortable, lower than you, he is uncomfortable.
12. The leader is always right, don't try to reason with the leader, especially when you are not capable.
13. People who have not had contact for a long time suddenly become very enthusiastic about you, either because they want to see your jokes, or they just don't have anything good.
14. Your friend suddenly snubs you, not because you did something wrong or said something wrong, but because the dog said something in the back.
15. Don't easily say that another person is good in front of anyone or any occasion, 16. People who talk little are often two extremes, either really simple or unfathomable.
17. Don't care how others hit you, ridicule you, and slander you, including parents, relatives, and friends. Always spend all your time and energy on growing yourself, and making yourself stronger is the biggest counterattack to them.
18. If you don't help, don't ask others about the progress of things, it has nothing to do with you.
19. When you are poor, you must be sharp and bold, and when you are successful, you must be cautious in your words and deeds, and walk on thin ice.
20. Some people only care about you to find out how miserable you are.
21. I don't like to waste my time, meddle in other people's affairs, and pay attention to other people's lives.
22. Real skills are stolen, and few people really teach you.
23. Learning is not the goal, but using it.
24. Exercise, regular work and rest, and regular physical examination.
25. Focus on today, focus on yourself, don't think nonsense, don't have internal friction, because it's useless.
26. Listen to the majority of people, refer to the opinions of the minority, and finally make your own decisions.
27. Put right and wrong, feelings, and morality aside, and weigh the pros and cons of everything.
28. If others don't ask you for help, don't take the initiative to help.
29. High-level skills in interpersonal communication:
Enthusiastic, generous, I don't know.
30. You can't be too honest, no matter how good your friends are, they may betray you.
31. Don't tell others about your plan, let them see the results directly.
32. What you really want to do, even the gods should not talk about things in secret, and words should be defeated.
33. No matter who has something to do, as long as they don't inform you, then pretend not to know, and don't ask afterwards.
34. Money, not borrowed, cars, not borrowed.
35. No matter who you are in front of, as long as you don't owe him, there is no need to be submissive.
36. Try to restrain your desire to refute and learn to praise or shut up.
37. Relatives and friends invite guests to dinner, but they don't invite you, so don't know, let alone inquire.
38. Don't get too close to anyone, after a long time, you will find that all losses are related to acquaintances.
39. If you are too good to a person, he will get used to it. As long as you don't do a good job once, he will hold a grudge.
40. You treat the other party as a true friend, but the other party doesn't think so, maybe they just treat you as an ordinary friend.
41. There is no affection in front of interests, only human nature, when there is a conflict of interests, no matter how good the relationship was before, he will not take care of you.
42. If you don't make any decisions for anyone, you may not have merit, and if you are wrong, you must be wrong.
43. No one will cherish what is at your fingertips, and just the right amount of indifference and rejection makes people happy.
44. Don't complain and complain to anyone, otherwise what you will get in exchange is often not understanding and sympathy, only ignorance and ridicule.
45. Money can test human nature the most, if you don't have money, society will teach you what is indifference and the world is cold.
46. Get along with middle-level leaders, use more attitude, less ability.
47. To get along with senior leaders, we should use sincerity and less skill.
48. When you get along with a female leader, you must give her the focus and focus.
49. Get along with the male leader, give him more opportunities to pretend to be a good teacher, and satisfy his ego.
50. When talking to a small leader, you must have nothing to say and satisfy his vanity and glass heart.
51. When talking to big leaders, you must have something to say, reflecting your professionalism and overall view.
52. Don't show affection in front of singles.
53. Second-hand work must not be accepted.
54. Don't raise the bar with people who are too familiar.
55. Have a side hustle, and don't tell anyone.
56. Looking for a job is not looking for labor dispatch.
57. Speak slowly, think clearly, and then speak.
58. Ignore the facts that have been made.
59. Take someone else's car and close the door to count.
60. Don't make decisions for others, and don't give opinions.
61. A group of people are chatting, only listening and not talking.
62. The boss who paints a big pie every day, and only talks about ideals and not money is playing with you.
63. Those who are easy to get may not be sincere, and those who are sincere are often difficult to get easily.