The entertainment industry in 2008 was very exciting.
In addition to the "** door" incident accidentally broke out by Edison Chen's computer repair, there is also the talented Ni Zhen who has a "verbal war" with a young model in a nightclub.
If Edison Chen caused the loss of private photos of many girlfriends because of an accident, it is worth forgiving.
Then Ni Zhen can be called a "scumbag" man.
Because Ni Zhen is not single at this time, his girlfriend is still the beautiful Zhou Huimin, which is very shameful, and many people are sensitive to Zhou Hui to the point that it is not worth it.
However, what is surprising is that Zhou Huimin not only chose to forgive Ni Zhen.
And on the thirteenth day after the incident, he announced his marriage to Ni Zhen in a high-profile manner.
This makes people feel incomprehensible, such a man who is used to stealing food, if you don't get rid of it, and marry him, isn't this sick?
But Zhou Huimin has her own thoughts, a man cheats, and breaking up and divorce are not the best solutions.
After so many years, Zhou Huimin has verified that her original choice was not wrong.
1. Whether the shoes fit or not, only the feet know.
And it took nearly 20 years for Zhou Huimin to determine that Ni Zhen was her reliance for the rest of her life, and she chose Ni Zhen not brainlessly, but clearly knew what she wanted.
Before she met Ni Zhen, she was like a small boat in the sea with nowhere to dock.
Zhou Huimin's life experience is pitiful, her father died not long after she was born, and the burden of the family was all on her mother, which made her go through a very difficult time.
However, in terms of feelings, Zhou Huimin came into contact very early.
When I was in the fifth grade, I was already in love, because in the eyes of the tutor, my mother did not allow the children to fall in love early, and I secretly fell in love with my mother at the beginning.
Later, he was inadvertently discovered by his mother.
The mother didn't tell her to break up with her, but asked the boy some questions, and then didn't care about her, which made her first love perfect.
In 1986, Zhou Huimin participated in the "Hong Kong DJ Amateur Competition" and won the runner-up, thus officially entering the showbiz.
At the same time, he also fell in love with a male singer named Chen Dezhang, and they almost got married.
Chen Dezhang prepared 200,000 yuan to buy a house, but because of greed, he was deceived by a good friend and bought a so-called wealth management product, but his friend ran away with the money.
Therefore, the marriage with Zhou Huimin is gone.
In the days that followed, Zhou Huimin also fell in love several times one after another, but the time was not too long, and no man could really let her rely on.
It wasn't until 1989 that Zhou Huimin met Ni Zhen that her love life settled down.
Ni Zhen is the son of Ni Kuang, a talented man in Hong Kong, with an extraordinary family background, and his aunt is a talented girl Yishu.
When he was in love with Li Jiaxin, Yishu once commented on Li Jiaxin: "Beauty is beautiful, but there is no soul." ”
However, Yishu likes Zhou Huimin very much.
During that time, Zhou Huimin had many suitors, which made Ni Zhen very nervous, and he also hurt an actor named Liu Ximing for this.
When Zhou Huimin and Liu Ximing collaborated on "Black ** Sword", a reporter asked Liu Ximing: "What do you think of Zhou Huimin." ”
Liu Ximing replied: "I admire Zhou Huimin. ”
As a result, this sentence annoyed **, making Ni Zhen mistakenly think that Liu Ximing was sensitive and interested in Zhou Hui, and immediately began to write articles to engage him, creating a lot of Liu Ximing's rumors.
For example, Liu Ximing is bowing his head to tie his shoelaces, which is written as ** female skirt bottom.
Liu Ximing went shopping, and was said to be going to ***
Outsiders didn't know what was going on, so they mistakenly thought it was the real thing, and Liu Ximing's reputation in Hong Kong became stinky, and his good future was ruined.
Originally, the company planned to train him to be Andy Lau's first person, but later he was reduced to having no drama to film, so he could only be forced to go to Taiwan for development.
Zhou Huimin had no choice, and it was not easy to persuade Ni Zhen, so he could only give himself a ** to Liu Ximing.
And Ni Zhen apologized like Liu Ximing after seventeen years, but the damage has already been cast, and Liu Ximing refused to accept this belated apology.
Although Ni Zhen didn't do this very authentically, it could also be seen how much he cared about Zhou Huimin.
Ni Zhen's family also likes Zhou Huimin very much.
In 1993, when Ni Zhen's grandfather died, he brought Zhou Huimin to the house, and Ni Zhen's parents liked this daughter-in-law very much and repeatedly told him to cherish this daughter-in-law.
Ni Zhen really didn't have anything to say to Zhou Huimin.
Not only did she never let Zhou Huimin do housework at home, but she was also very attentive in some small things.
Zhou Huimin's pet cat passed away, very sad, Ni Zhen used the beard of the cat he usually collected to make a cat doll for Zhou Huimin to solve the pain of similarity.
From these details, it can be seen how much Ni Zhen likes Zhou Huimin.
But like to like, the heart of the flower is also really the heart of the flower.
One day this year, when Zhou Huimin returned home, she found that Ni Zhen and Chen Farong had a very happy conversation, which became the fuse of the relationship between the two.
Second, after breaking up, Ni Zhen and Chen Farong announced their relationship, while Zhou Huimin went to Japan.
also officially separated this time, which made Ni Zhen and Zhou Huimin realize a problem, they have long been an indispensable part of each other's lives.
This feeling of cutting and untidy is the most annoying.
3 years later, Ni Zhen and Zhou Huimin got back together, and this time both of them made a lot of determination, no matter what the gossip outside said, they would be together.
To this end, Zhou Huimin held the last concert of her life to say goodbye to her fans.
Ni Zhen closed his magazine and settled in Canada with Zhou Huimin, completely isolated from the hustle and bustle of the entertainment industry.
That should be the happiest period in Zhou Huimin's life.
Whenever the first rays of sunlight in the morning shine through the curtains and gently sprinkle on Zhou Huimin's face, she will always slowly wake up from her sweet sleep.
And whenever she opens her eyes, she is always greeted by the coffee cake that Ni Zhen has carefully prepared for her.
The aromatic aroma of coffee and sweet cake aroma are intertwined, like the gentlest call of the morning, making her day start with happiness.
Coffee cake is Zhou Huimin's favorite, and every bite makes her feel Ni Zhen's carefulness and love.
Every morning, Ni Zhen would prepare this delicious breakfast for her, as if to tell her that no matter how many challenges and difficulties there are in the new day, he will be by her side and provide her with solid support.
Recalling the days when he first arrived in Vancouver, Canada, Ni Zhen ran almost all over Vancouver in order to buy coffee cakes that met Zhou Huimin's taste.
He shuttled through the bustling streets and alleys, tasting all kinds of coffee cakes, just to find the flavor that could satisfy Zhou Huimin.
During her time in Vancouver, Zhou Huimin and Ni Zhen spent many wonderful times together.
They will enjoy each other's company as they sip coffee cakes together in the early morning sun.
They spend their free time on weekends going for a walk in the park to feel the tranquility and beauty of nature.
They will also sit in front of the window together at night, looking at the starry sky outside the window, sharing each other's thoughts and dreams.
These seemingly ordinary details of life constitute the truest and deepest happiness between Zhou Huimin and Ni Zhen.
They don't need gorgeous words and flamboyant manners, they just need tacit understanding and companionship with each other, which is enough to fill their world with warmth and light.
Zhou Huimin often sighs that happiness is actually so simple. You don't need to pursue those unattainable luxuries and fame, you just need to have someone who understands and loves you by your side, and spends every ordinary and beautiful day with you.
During that period of time, Zhou Huimin's social accounts were all ** of her and Ni Zhen's affection.
Until the appearance of the "Ni Zhen Kissing the Door" incident broke her peaceful life.
3. In 2008, when 44-year-old Ni Zhen was playing in a nightclub, he kissed a college student for 5 minutes, and the "kiss door" incident broke out.
Many people thought that Zhou Huimin would break up, after all, she is a Hong Kong goddess, and there is never a shortage of suitors.
How is it possible to compromise with a man who betrays him?
However, Zhou Huimin not only forgave Ni Zhen, but also chose to bear the turmoil with him, in a long article published by Zhou Huimin, she wrote:
When Ni Zhen and I met in Weiwei, we spent incalculable ups and downs together, and we have already honed in a set of art of getting along with each other.
One person's problem, two people to correct, one person's fault, two people to bear.
The two of us are a team, there is no difference between high and low, and winning or losing is also one.
Many people know that Zhou Huimin forgave Ni Zhen, but few people know that after "kissing the door", Ni Zhen had no chance to face Zhou Huimin and moved out of his home.
It was also this departure, as well as Zhou Huimin's attitude, that made Ni Zhen, who had a heart of flowers, wake up to the fact that Zhou Huimin was already an indispensable existence for herself.
It is precisely because of this that he boldly proposed to Zhou Huimin.
And Zhou Huimin actually agreed, which may also be a tacit understanding between the two.
On the thirteenth day of the outbreak of the Ni Zhen scandal, Zhou Huimin married Ni Zhen in a high-profile manner, which made many people puzzled, and they didn't know why the goddess was so wronged by herself.
However, in a letter made public by Ni Zhen, they gave the answer:
Only when you have been shaken can you know how to be firm, and if you have lost, you can learn to cherish.
Ni Zhen's sentence is of course a hurt to Zhou Huimin, but the relationship between them for nearly 20 years is not fake.
Choosing to break up, of course, is relieved, but will the future be better than now?
Looking for a man, he won't cheat?
The smarter a woman is, the more she understands this truth, and in the entertainment industry, many female stars have forgiven their husbands.
Of course, not every forgiveness will end well.
For example, Ma Yili and Tong Liya both ended in divorce.
Some psychologists have shown that there are many ways for men to cheat, one is habitual cheating, and marriage has always been supported by women's compromises.
In such marriages, women are often miserable, and divorce is certainly the best way to go.
On the other hand, the husband and wife live in a very harmonious way, and they are very happy and calm on the surface.
But there is a lack of deep communication, there is no spiritual communication, and people have the need to communicate, at this time, when there is a stimulus object in the outside world, derailment is a matter of course.
This is also the easiest way to get forgiveness, and many people choose to forgive.
But cheating is like a Pandora's box, it is difficult to close it when it is opened, and forgiveness depends on whether the person is worth it or not.
It has been 16 years since the "Kiss Guys" incident back then, and Ni Zhen has indeed changed a lot, perhaps because he had enough fun when he was young, or because he has matured.
Over the years, the market has never heard his lace news again.
Obviously, Zhou Huimin's choice is very correct.
It's just a pity that for so many years, Zhou Huimin and Ni Zhen have not had children, which is also very incomprehensible.
Maybe the two of them just want to live a simple two-person world.
Either way, everyone has their own way of life, bless them.