The woman cheated on her husband's partner, and the partner found the man and said bluntly, and the man even acquiesced
Thousands of years of cultivation can be spent in the same boat, and eternal cultivation can be slept together. As the saying goes, the relationship between husband and wife is like a hundred years of practice, accumulating thousands of threads of kindness day after day. In the journey of life, it is inevitable to encounter some minor or important differences, but as long as both parties are broad-minded and can tolerate each other's small flaws, these differences can be easily resolved.
However, in a marital relationship, there is one thing that cannot be tolerated, and that is cheating. This behavior demonstrates the perfidy of the marriage and, when it happens, acts like a mirror to tear the marriage relationship apart. Even if the mirrors are put back together, it is difficult to hide the cracks in them, and the bond between husband and wife is difficult to return to its original state.
However, there is such a man who fell into the love of his friend's wife. And it is surprising that his friend chose to ignore all this in order to please his wife, and the world is so vast.
The origin of all this can be traced back to a request for help received by the reporter**.
In 2019, a reporter from the mediation column of a TV station received a ** from a 34-year-old woman, A Xia. On the ** end, Ah Xia couldn't hold back her sadness and confided her pain to reporters. She described her husband's betrayal, tears sliding down the time and space of the call.
Ah Xia said that she and her husband have spent a full decade together, and during these ten years, she has always adhered to her duties as a wife and assumed corresponding responsibilities. For the sake of this family, she also gave birth to a son and a daughter for her husband, and together they performed a happy family. And her husband has been working hard for this family of four silently, fighting for the future together. With the joint efforts of the two, the family has been doing quite well.
Until October last year, Ah Xia's husband's attitude towards her changed dramatically. In October, Ah Xia was rushed to the hospital due to a sudden serious illness.
When sick, a person becomes extremely fragile both mentally and physically. At this time, Ah Xia urgently needed her husband's company, but for three days after the operation, her husband did not show up, and even if he called his mobile phone, he only hurriedly said a few perfunctory words.
Her husband's indifferent attitude deeply hurt Ah Xia's heart. After the operation, she did not return to the home where they lived together, but returned to her parents' home with a pair of children, seeking to be in the company of her family**.
During this time, the husband's attitude has not improved, and he is indifferent to even his own children and has not taken on the responsibilities of a father.
In this way, in the aggrieved mood, Ah Xia's illness was ** again. I thought that if I was hospitalized again, my husband would come to his senses and come back to visit her. However, her husband's indifferent attitude remains the same, and only her mother's family is taking care of her.
Pushing open the door of Daxing's house, Daxing and his father were sitting on the sofa. Seeing the arrival of the reporter, the two ** showed a hint of surprise.
After the reporter explained his intentions, Daxing pointed out with a face full of grievances: "This woman is simply lying. ”
He said that during his wife's illness, he and his parents paid for all the medical expenses for Ah Xia. Because Daxing needed to work, he was unable to accompany his wife Ah Xia in time.
Ah Xia also admitted that her in-laws did pay for her medical expenses, but her husband did not fulfill his responsibilities as a husband in addition to providing financial support, and failed to give him enough care. When he went to visit Ah Xia in the hospital, her husband always looked indifferent.
Daxing felt aggrieved when he heard these words, supporting a family of four, as a car driver, he usually works very hard, plus he was originally introverted, and after his wife fell ill, his mood also plummeted.
During the period after Ah Xia's operation, he also went to the hospital to take care of him. Because he felt sorry for Ah Xia, he hoped that Ah Xia would be able to follow him home after the first operation, and he would take care of his wife.
However, in the face of Ah Xia's insistence, Daxing finally compromised and sent Ah Xia back to her maiden home. Both children are at their mother-in-law's house, and Daxing, as a father, naturally wants to visit the children. But whenever he went to his mother-in-law's house and asked to enter the door, he would always be kicked out of the house by his mother-in-law.
There were a few times when it took a lot of effort to step into the threshold, but he was scolded by Ah Xia. Once or twice, he may be reluctant to endure it, but as the number of times increases, Daxing is no longer willing to step into the door of his mother-in-law's house.
Daxing complained that his mother-in-law's family had always had opinions about him, accusing him of being incapable and unable to earn money, and often ridiculed him in every way. Two years ago, he borrowed 290,000 yuan from his mother-in-law's house in order to go out to work. Because of this money, the mother-in-law's attitude towards him became more and more unfriendly.
After his wife's surgery this time, Daxing went out to do a business. The mother-in-law felt that he didn't care enough about Ah Xia, and her dissatisfaction with him deepened.
Regarding his wife's current "wicked people sue first", Daxing feels that he has been wronged.
The reporter stepped forward to persuade: "Ah Xia has undergone two surgeries, and she is already under some pressure in her heart, so she is a little irritable." As a husband, you should care more about her and be considerate of her, so don't worry so much. ”
Hearing the reporter say this, Daxing was even more aggrieved, and he told the reporter with a bitter face that it was not that he had changed his mind, but that it was his wife Ah Xia who really changed his mind. In order to make Ah Xia happy, he endured a lot of grievances, and even did not stop Ah Xia's affair. "Ah Xia is having an affair outside?This 180-degree change made reporters a little overwhelmed.
It is really difficult for every family to read the scriptures, and the reporters who came to mediate did not know what to say at the moment.
Suddenly, with a "snap", Ah Xia's slap fell on Daxing's face. Seeing this, the father-in-law, who had been silent, finally stood up to stop it.
The reporter also hurriedly stepped forward to dissuade: "No matter what the real situation is, don't do it first." ”
After Ah Xia's mood slowly calmed down, the reporter began to ask about the specific situation of Daxing. Daxing told reporters that his wife, Ah Xia, had a relationship with a man named Ah Zheng and it had been going on for about a year.
Ah Zheng is Daxing's companion who drives a truck together, and the two came together because of their common work.
According to Daxing's recollection, two years ago, the couple bought a big car together in the hope of improving their lives. Since Daxing couldn't cope with it alone, he hired a man named Ah Zheng to run it together. Daxing never thought that his wife would develop such a relationship with Ah Zheng.
Ah Xia on the side was reluctant to admit it: "It's just nonsense, my relationship with Ah Zheng is innocent, there is no such thing at all." ”
Ah Xia defended that her acquaintance with Ah Zheng was purely because Ah Zheng and her husband worked together in a sports car, and the two were just ordinary friends, and there was no contact in private at all. To be fair, both sides have their own reasons, and the reporter is also a little dizzy, and it seems that a third person needs to be found to confirm it to figure it out.
In order to prove that what he said was not fiction, Daxing provided the reporter with the ** of Ah Zheng's wife. Over there, the reporter heard a statement again.
Ah Zheng's wife told reporters that her husband did have an unclear relationship with Ah Xia. In Ah Zheng's mobile phone, she once flipped through the ambiguous messages between Ah Xia and her husband. After that, Ah Zheng's wife went to Ah Xia's maiden home in person, confronted Ah Xia in person, and told her to stop pestering her husband Ah Zheng.
Subsequently, the couple had an in-depth conversation, and Ah Zheng also said that he would no longer have contact with Ah Xia and voluntarily no longer work with Daxing.
In the days that followed, Ah Zheng returned to the family dutifully. He severed all contact with Ah Xia. Ah Zheng's wife told reporters that Ah Xia had a "problem" and that she firmly believed that her husband could no longer be involved with Ah Xia.
Despite the testimony of a third party, Ah Xia still refused to admit it. Suddenly, the reporter's mobile phone received a text message from Ah Zheng.
In the text message, Ah Zheng claimed that things were not as simple as Ah Xia said to Daxing, and everything had another hidden meaning. In view of the increasingly complicated situation, the reporter decided to call Ah Zheng's **.
* At that end, Ah Zheng told reporters that he did have an ambiguous relationship with Ah Xia for about a year, but during this period, he has been morally condemned in his heart.
So, he took the initiative to ask Daxing to sit down for dinner together, and confessed his relationship with Ah Xia to Daxing.
Ah Zheng said: "Both of us have families and children, so we can't be so irresponsible and only care about our own happiness. ”
However, Daxing's attitude later surprised Ah Zheng. According to Ah Zheng, after he confessed at that time, Daxing not only did not get angry, but became more and more friendly to him, and even often invited him to his house for dinner.
Ah Xia's mother also confirmed Ah Zheng's statement. Once, Daxing brought a strange man to her house and insisted that she recognize this person and say that he was his second son-in-law.
Ah Xia's mother said angrily: "How could a son-in-law do such a thing?At that time, she felt very inexplicable, and always thought that her son-in-law was so ridiculous because he drank too much.
After that incident, Ah Xia's prejudice against her son-in-law Daxing became more profound. Now it seems that she has learned that her daughter has had an illicit relationship with a man outside.
However, Daxing is a bloody man, how could he allow his wife to have such a thing with another man under his nose?Daxing explained: "I just want to save this family. ”
Daxing told reporters that he was very angry when he learned about this at first, and he wanted to file for divorce from his wife, but after returning home and seeing his children, he hesitated.
Do you want your daughter and son to grow up in a broken family?A pair of children have reached the age of sensibility, and if the family is broken, their growth will definitely be affected.
Daxing told reporters: "Our relationship has always been very good. Ah Xia and Daxing met through someone else's introduction, and the two have always been very satisfied with each other, and Daxing has always thought that Ah Xia is the "perfect wife" given to him by God.
At first, the two supported each other in married life and have been doing well. Daxing's feelings for his wife are also getting deeper, although this incident makes him very angry.
However, considering that they have shared the same bed for so many years, ten years of relationship is not something that can be separated. Coupled with the fact that a pair of children are already so old, if you can choose to turn a blind eye, it is worth saving the family.
Therefore, Daxing, who has always been introverted and shy, chose to endure in silence, thinking that his wife might have been confused for a while, and when his wife realized her mistake, she would return to him.
With the mediation of the reporter, Ah Xia finally admitted the fact that she had an improper relationship with Ah Zheng.
Ah Xia also said that her actions did cause harm to her husband Daxing, and at this moment she bowed her head and admitted her mistake to her husband Daxing.
Facing his wife, Daxing showed a gentle look. In front of the reporter's camera, Daxing said something like this: "Don't care what happened before, as long as the two of us can be good now, we can go down well, like before, do whatever we have to do." ”
Daxing's mother also said that as long as her daughter-in-law can understand her mistakes and return to the family in a down-to-earth manner, the family can still live a happy life as before.
Ah Xia immediately said that she was willing to live a good life with her husband, and the two of them would not quarrel in the future. Now my illness has been **, but my mental state is not very good.
In order not to add trouble to her husband and mother-in-law, she hopes to live in her mother's house for a while longer, and when her mental state is better, she will return to her mother-in-law's house and live with Daxing to live the old days. She just hopes that Daxing can return the money she borrowed from her mother's family as soon as possible.
Daxing also said that he would care more about his wife's thoughts in the future. Regarding the money owed to his mother-in-law, Daxing said that he has repaid 200,000 yuan so far, and he will work harder to pay off the money owed to his mother-in-law as soon as possible.
The incident finally came to an end, and the two finally reached a consensus. Ah Xia will rest at her mother's house for a while, and when she is completely recuperate, she will accompany Daxing to run a car together. The two decided to work together to pay off the 90,000 yuan as soon as possible.
Things have developed to this point, and it can be regarded as a happy ending. I hope that the couple will not have disagreements again because of this incident, live in a down-to-earth manner, and set a good example for their children.