Someone once asked Song Chunli:"You've never been a mother, how do you play the role of a mother well? ”
She paused for a moment and said"I had the opportunity to be a mother, but I gave up, I have a mother's heart, so I understand. ”
Song Chunli, who was a smash hit in the 90s of the last century, has now become an excellent performing artistShe frequently plays the role of "mother" in film and television dramas, but she has no biological children in real life
may be the desire to be a mother, which makes her particularly involved in the role of "mother".Many people also wonder that she got married when she was 27 years old, and she has been married for more than 40 years and has a very good relationship
Why did you choose not to have children? Later, when she participated in the show "Blue Feather Lounge", the audience learned that she had given up the opportunity to be a mother for her career
Song Chunli was born in an ordinary family in BeijingHer father was a worker, and her mother was at home to take care of her and her brother, although not rich, but fortunately, the family is very happy.
Influenced by her father since she was a child, Song Chunli loved literature and art, and often followed her father to listen to cross talk and Peking Opera.
In order to help her father share the pressure, Song Chunli and her brother began to learn to do housework, and they had already learned to do laundry and cook when they were in school.
Later, her mother became more healthy and loved her two children even more, and it was during this time that Song Chunli developed an independent personality.
Song Chunli has never bothered her parents in her studies, and her grades have always been among the bestNot only that, she likes literature and art, she often participates in school literary and artistic activities, and often performs on stage at a young age.
Later, after graduating from middle school, he was recruited as a dancer by the Guangzhou Military Region Art Troupe, but because he wanted to go to the south alone, his parents did not agree.
But within a few years, due to special reasons, the song and dance troupe has been stuck in a dead endIt wasn't until 1969 that Song Chunli was seconded to the repertory troupe, and she changed her career from a dancer to a dramatist
Since then she has been systematically studying actingSlowly, she fell in love with drama, I fell in love with acting, and I rehearsed late every time, and I had endless energy.
It is precisely because of her love for acting that she has starred in it"The Great Wall of the South China Sea", "Mountain Flowers", "Spring Breeze Warmth".and other dramas, and his acting skills are becoming more and more mature.
Seeing that she has reached the age of marriage, Song Chunli is still immersed in performing dramas, which broke her parents' hearts, and even her leaders persuaded her to fall in love early.
Soon after a friend's introduction, she met inSun Weixi, a teacher at the college.
The two introduced each other's family situation to each other in the letter, got to know each other, and exchanged **, similar experiences made the two more topics.
Later, Song Chunli went back to her hometown to visit relatives, so she told Sun Weixi in advance and asked him to pick her up at the station, and when Song Chunli got off the train in Beijing, she didn't find Sun Weixi, which was inevitably a little lost.
When she got home, she said hello to her parents and went to *** college to find Sun Weixi, the two passed by and recognized each other, Song Chunli asked him why he didn't pick her up?
Sun Weixi looked dazedLater, I found out that it was because the letter was still in the mailbox, Sun Weixi hasn't had time to pick it up yet, so he doesn't know.
Soon after this meeting, the two confirmed their relationship, and later the two entered the marriage hall under the witness of their families.
But the two often exchanged letters, telling about their respective lives, and Sun Weixi would visit Song Chunli during the winter and summer vacations, and take care of her diet and daily life by the way.
In 1979, in the filming of the film"The Spy".time,Song Chunli found out that she was pregnantAt that time, she had just entered the film and television industry, and her career had not yet stabilized.
In addition, she is not young anymore, and if she goes home to have children, her career may be interrupted, with her career on one side and children on the other, Song Chunli is in a dilemma.
She told her husband that Sun Weixi was very excited when he heard that his wife was pregnant, but when he heard his wife's concerns, he was silent for a while and said"It's good that you follow your heart, and I support you in any decision! ”
In the end, Song Chunli thought backwards and decided to give up the child, her husband also comforted her that there would be more in the future, and many years later, she recalled this experience again, and if she was asked to choose again, Song Chunli would not hesitate to choose the child.
At that time, the movie was filmed as scheduled, and when the crew heard that Song Chunli gave up her child in order not to delay the shooting, they were all impressed by her!
Later, she starred in many works and became a popular actress in the entertainment industryIn 1994, she won the Golden Rooster Award for Best Actress for the movie "Nine Fragrances".
The role of her mother "Jiuxiang" made her highly praised by the audience, and someone once asked her why she could perform such a suitable role as a mother since she had never been a mother.
She lamentedMaybe it's because she gave up the opportunity to be a mother, which makes her know more about being a mother. ”
The success of her career made Song Chunli regret her decision even moreOver the years, she has devoted herself to her career and ignored her husband's feelings
The two have been married for many years and have been in a good relationship, but they have never had childrenSong Chunli felt very sorry for her husband, so she decided to return to the family
Her husband was even more overjoyed with her decision, and the two began to decide to have a child, but it was already very difficult for Song Chunli, who was over 40 years old, to get pregnant naturally.
So the two decided to test tube after discussion, but after a doctor's examination, Song Chunli's body could no longer bear to give birth to a child, which made the couple fall into sadness.
Faced with such a marriage, Song Chunli blamed herself very muchIn the past few years, she has been filming hard, and her body has fallen into many diseases due to filming, she was very sorry to deprive him of his full strength as a father.
For this reason, she thought about divorcing Sun Weixi, Knowing that his wife had the idea of "divorce", he directly refused and comforted his wife:"We can be happy without children. ”
Under Sun Weixi's guidance several times, Song Chunli slowly untied the knotLater, the two recognized their nephew Song Chuyan as their godson, which can be regarded as fulfilling Song Chunli's dream
Under the guidance of Song Chunli, Song Chuyan was also admitted to the Beijing Film Academy and became an actorLater, his son was filming outside all the year round, and he had no time to accompany them
The old couple came up with the idea of *** againSo when she was 61 years old, she adopted a baby girl, and now the two devote all their energy to raising their daughter.
Watching their daughter grow up day by day, the two are very pleased, although Song Chunli gave up the opportunity to be a mother when she was young, but fortunately, in her later years, she has both children and daughters, bless them!