When you have resigned and are about to leave, when you say hello to your boss and the boss is still educating you, what kind of mood will you have?
The owner's insight and experience is unmatched by most employees. The boss is still educating you at this time, proving that he is still regretting your resignation. I still have some feelings for you, and I hope you will do better in your future career, so I will take great pains to educate you.
If it were me, I would do it.
First, I'll gladly accept it and keep listening.
From the boss's point of view, what he says, his experience, may not please you. But now that you've left your job, I think he'll tell you everything he wanted to say to you but couldn't, and I hope you can listen to it and help me in the future.
Regardless of whether what the boss says is right or wrong, learning to listen is actually our most basic skill. Give the boss enough respect, maybe there will be business dealings in the future, and it will also be good for networking.
Second, talk to your boss about the questions you want to ask but are afraid to ask.
If you resign, you won't have to worry about it in the workplace. Maybe you're not happy working under your boss. A lot of confusing questions that I didn't dare to ask given my status as a former employee. Now is the best opportunity and to solve your doubts, which is very beneficial to your own growth.
Third, talk about your constructive suggestions for the company, and also ask your boss to talk about your evaluation of your previous work.
Since your boss is still taking the initiative to educate you, you might as well take this opportunity to ask your boss to do an analysis of you. At this time, the boss's point of view is the most objective and very helpful for you to recognize yourself. You can also express your opinion when your boss asks for your opinion on the company. Say it boldly and sincerely. Maybe you and your boss will become friends in the future and can help each other in the future if needed.
To sum up, it is advisable to sincerely accept the education of the boss, listen carefully, and give yourself a chance to recognize yourself. Come on!
One day in 2013, I left my previous company for more than 2 weeks. At around 9 o'clock in the evening, I suddenly received a ** from my former boss and asked me to go to his house.
Actually, I was a little reluctant to leave because I was a little dissatisfied with the company when I left. Although there was an idea of leaving the company at the time, it was not officially mentioned to the company.
During that time, my father was sick and hospitalized, and I took several long vacations. When I wanted to go back to work, my team was broken up and divided among others. I was a little hesitant at the time, but now it's all over and I can't quit. Because of my emotions, I didn't even say hello to my boss. I told the director of operations and left.
When I got to the boss, the first thing he said was how my dad's illness was. I replied, it's fine, almost recovered. Then he began to educate me. I criticized my character, the style of the leadership team, my behavior, and so on. Then he talked about the difficulties of the company, his management philosophy, and so on. Because of emotional reasons, I didn't think much about it at the time, but in hindsight, what the boss said made sense.
Until 11:30 p.m., I was leaving. The owner did two things that made me feel a little warm. The first thing was to send me back. The second thing, in the middle of the night, he called a friend and asked me for an old Chinese medicine doctor's ***
Until now, we still occasionally keep in touch and introduce each other to business.
Back to the question, you have left the job, and the boss can still educate you, which shows that he still has some feelings for you. I've been a manager and I've been a small boss. When I'm so disappointed in a subordinate, I want him to disappear right away so that I don't waste any affection with him at all.
So, I think that whether you agree with the boss or not, he should be well-intentioned, and you don't have to hold grudges. Besides, it is likely that they will still be in a circle in the future, and if you don't look down and look up, you may be able to share resources one day.