Thoughts are not in one dimension and cannot be understood!
And how can the little people understand the thoughts of the big people.
Not everyone can become Qin Shi Huang, don't be too demanding of others, don't expect too much, so that you won't be too disappointed.
A person's ability is only so high, but you want him to do something beyond his ability, failure is inevitable, it is not his fault, but your fault, you overestimate his ability, underestimate the difficulty of things for him, this is your failure, blame others.
A man who can't swim, you tell him to go into the water, whose fault is it?
A pawn, but you are delusional that he has the ability to be a general, it's not your fault whose fault is it?
You know that she is a person who likes to nag, complain, and calculate, but you still expect her to be generous and tolerant, it's not your fault whose fault is it?
If you don't understand human nature, how can you adapt to human nature? Mastering human nature?
In a high position, if you don't have the ability to look at the overall situation, you are not a qualified chess player, and you don't even know how many chess pieces you have in your hands, the upper limit is **, and you don't know what weaknesses you have, how to use each chess piece well?
A qualified chess player not only needs to be clear about the external situation, but also about the internal structure, the ability of the chess pieces, and the resources in his hands, so that he can use them reasonably and maximize the strength in his hands.
In your eyes, it is a big thing, but in his eyes it may be a trivial matter, and it is not worth being angry at all, this is the difference between the big picture and the small pattern, a person with big ambitions, will he be angry because of a trivial matter? (When the heart is big, the matter is small).
You know that the bottom people are thinking underneath, and you still expect them to understand you, it's your fault, not theirs.
Don't try to pull them off, unless you can prove that you're stronger than them, right, be careful that they pull you overboard.
We need to understand them, even respect them, and let them stay in their comfort zone, live in their own world, enjoy peace and conform to their humanity.
Some people are unteachable, because their minds are solidified, and breaking and reshaping is painful, and they will not allow themselves to fall into pain, because they lack the courage to change.
Let others be others and let yourself be yourself!
Live yourself as a beam of light first, then you can illuminate them, you are a dull stone, what do you use to illuminate them? Wake them up?
There may be places in the world that don't shine, but at least we can illuminate ourselves!