Three major things that should be accomplished in life

Mondo Culture Updated on 2024-03-07

After a person is conceived and born in October from his mother, he has come to this complicated world, and he has to complete the three major events of study, work (employment) and marriage and love in his life, that is, to start a family, he can leave his parents to live independently, go to society, and move towards maturity, and his parents will really rest assured.

Let's talk about the first thing to study, a person's academic performance is not only related to the learning environment and atmosphere, whether they work hard, but also related to people's learning IQ talent, everything can only go with the flow, because Bi Jing who is admitted to 985 colleges and universities such as Tsinghua University and Peking University every year is a minority.

As for the second job (employment), in addition to personal efforts, this matter is also related to national policies, and there is a little bit of luck in it. More than 30 years ago, graduates of engineering colleges and technical secondary schools were generally assigned to work in state-owned enterprises as state cadres, but in the late 90s, state-owned enterprises were transferred to capital, and the status of state cadres was gone, and even became laid-off workers. Of course, some of them began to start their own businesses, and eventually became private enterprise owners or even entrepreneurs, achieving financial freedom and contributing to society.

Most of today's young people graduate from university with the main goal of becoming a civil service or career editor, but is this the best choice? It will take another 20 or 30 years to come to the conclusion that young people should choose to be stable or start their own businesses, each has its own reason, don't you think?

The third thing is a person's marriage and love, as the saying goes"Thirty and standing"But in the whole society now, how many older men and women are over 30 or even over 35 years old and married at the end of the marriage? And most of them are only children, how can the bloodline of the family continue if they don't get married? Of course, a person's choice of whether to marry or be single is an individual right and cannot be interfered with.

For example, my son just started working after graduating with a doctorate this year and has a girlfriend, I ask him when he will get married? He said at least two more years? I don't look anxious at all, as our parents are in their 60s, we always want to do our son's marriage as soon as possible, because we can rest assured that we should do it early, don't you say? However, the marriage of children can only be decided by themselves, and parents can only make suggestions.

I talked about the three major things that should be completed in life, I don't know what you think?

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