There is a good saying: "The location is different, and less words are more expensive; The three views do not agree, and the tongue is wasted. As the years went by, my understanding of this sentence became more and more profound.
In the journey of life, I have learned to observe the changes in a quiet manner, away from the distractions of right and wrong, and to see the world through the eyes of a bystander. In this way, there is less entanglement between right and wrong, and more calmness and peace.
When I was younger, I was always keen to express my opinions, to argue right from wrong, and to compete over one thing at a time. However, as I've grown older, I've come to understand that each person's position and perspective can be influenced by where they are and what they're going through. Even if you try hard, some people will not understand your views and positions throughout their lives because of the limitations of their life experience and their growth path, let alone accept your understanding and judgment, let alone the solution to the problem. At this point, it is not stupid to say less, but it is a wise move. For example, at work, when disagreeing with superiors or colleagues, excessive arguments can lead to conflict and affect the team atmosphere. Choosing silence or communicating peacefully is more conducive to problem solving.
Saying less or being silent does not mean that we have nothing to say, but rather an expression of a higher realm. It requires us to build up strength in silence and prove our point with action. Sometimes, a smile, a look in the eyes, or even a silent gesture is more powerful than a thousand words, and it can move people's hearts more and show the cultivation of connotation.
Especially in the era of eyeball economy, in the complex social world, we must remain as calm as stopping water and not be swayed by those emotional remarks.
No matter how the tide rises and falls, no matter how the wind and clouds change, when the tide recedes, the reef will always be exposed. The events of the Internet are often like this: what is said today will inevitably be reversed tomorrow, and then reversed, or even reversed again. This is the fueling of online public opinion, this is the preconception of people's consciousness, and this is the various manifestations of people's clouds. In fact, this is not only the case on the Internet, but also in real life.
When the tide of ** is surging, we must be like a firm reef, unmoved, with the brilliance of reason to penetrate the fog and gain insight into the essence of things. Let calmness be our shield against emotional storms and protect our minds from being disturbed. In the sea of information, we must think carefully, not blindly follow, and use the beacon of wisdom to illuminate the way forward.
Watching the changes requires enough patience and insight to not be distracted by the outside world and maintain inner peace. In the information age, various opinions and voices are flooding life. If you participate blindly, you can easily lose yourself. On the contrary, looking at things from the perspective of a bystander can see the essence of the problem more clearly. For example, in the discussion of hot events, do not blindly follow the trend, first calmly observe the views of all parties, and then make your own judgment. Staying away from right and wrong is the wisdom of life.
In life, it is inevitable to encounter people who tell the truth from wrong. Entangling with it is not only a waste of time and energy, but it can also cause trouble. Learning to stay away is to protect oneself and respect life. Tao Yuanming stayed away from officialdom and disputes, returned to the countryside, found inner peace and satisfaction in a quiet pastoral life, and left the famous sentence "Picking chrysanthemums under the east fence and leisurely seeing Nanshan".
As my experience grows, I should understand the importance of speaking less and staying away from right and wrong. Observe everything in the world with a peaceful mind, avoid the distractions of right and wrong, and make life more fulfilling and beautiful. Practice this truth with actions, face the ups and downs of life with a calm state of mind, and taste the tranquility and indifference that belong to you.