In today's society, the phenomenon of involution is becoming more and more serious, which not only affects the working life of adults, but also gradually penetrates into the learning and growth of children. A professor at Zhejiang University once pointed out: "Some children run early, but they can't run far. This sentence expresses the worries in the hearts of many parents. The involution puts children under heavy pressure, and the anxiety of parents often leads them to rush to the doctor. So, as parents, how can we help our children better break through in the involution?
First of all, we need to be clear about the idea that a child's growth is not a race, but a journey. Every child has their own unique growth trajectory and speed, and parents don't have to overly pursue their child's short-term academic performance. Overemphasizing grades and comparisons will only put children under more pressure, and even have low self-esteem and school weariness. Therefore, parents should pay attention to their children's interests and strengths, and encourage them to grow at their own pace, so as to raise healthy, confident, and creative children.
Secondly, parents should learn to adjust their mentality and avoid passing on anxiety to their children. When parents themselves feel anxious, it is easy to project this emotion onto their children, causing them to experience unnecessary stress. Parents should learn to relax themselves and face their children's growth with a peaceful mind. At the same time, it is necessary to establish a good communication mechanism with children, listen to their voices, understand their confusion and needs, so as to give more targeted help and support.
When helping children cope with the phenomenon of involution, parents also need to pay attention to cultivating their children's comprehensive quality. In addition to academic performance, aspects such as a child's character, emotional, and social skills are equally important. Parents can encourage their children to participate in a variety of extracurricular activities, such as sports, art training, social practice, etc., which not only help to broaden children's horizons and interests, but also improve their teamwork skills and resilience.
In addition, parents should guide their children to establish correct values. In this era of material abundance but great mental stress, children are easily subject to all kinds of ** and distractions. Parents should educate their children to cherish the present, pay attention to their hearts, and pursue truth, goodness and beauty, so that they can understand that the true value of life lies in inner fulfillment and growth. At the same time, parents should also lead by example and influence and shape their children's values through their words and deeds.
Finally, parents should pay attention to their children's mental health. The phenomenon of involution is often accompanied by fierce competition and great pressure, and children are prone to anxiety, depression and other psychological problems. Parents need to pay close attention to their children's emotional changes and find and solve problems in time. When necessary, you can seek the help of a professional psychological counselor to provide psychological support and counseling for your child.
In short, it is not easy to help children break through in the involution, but as long as we adhere to the correct educational concepts and methods, and accompany children to grow up with our hearts, I believe they will be able to go further and more stable on the road in the future. Let's work together to create a more relaxed, healthy and happy environment for children to grow up!