This year's Spring Festival is the longest self-driving trip for me. I set off at 8:30 on February 13 and returned home at 20:30 on February 14, which lasted 36 hours and drove 1,400 kilometers. Although I was tired, I had some special gains and insights.
Don't care how far it is, if you set off, then it will be close. One of the destinations of this trip is a place about 700 kilometers away from me, and it takes more than 8 hours to drive according to the map, and if you include the rest time on the road, it takes about 10 hours each way. This distance is a way of travel that a person who usually does not travel long distances will hardly choose. That's what we usually call something we don't do at all. The main reason why I don't do it is because I feel that it is difficult to do it, and it is impossible for me to do it. Sometimes I wonder if the reason why I can't do a lot of things is because I have already labeled it impossible before I do it. Then, even if you do it yourself, once you encounter difficulties, it is a proof that you think it is impossible. As a result, it directly led to the impossibility of his own reality. Now I am more and more opposed to labeling myself as impossible and impossible, and I will not label others as such. You don't think it's possible, unless you have the ability to foresee. Since we are still under the rules of the unknown of the future, all our cognition of the future may not be absolute. For those who feel like they can't do things that haven't happened yet, this perception will only hinder their own development. The reality is really heartbreaking, we are not only facing our own denial, but also having to face the distrust and opposition of those closest to us. When they ask themselves what they want to do, they will always judge it with their own perceptions, thinking that it should not be or is impossible, and then they will try to stop it, which is what they think they care about. Do unto others as you would have them do to you. If you think it's impossible, why do you want to do it to others? Just like for children's education, many children are stifled by the ignorance of parents, and we are constantly using our cognition to prevent children from doing what they think can be done in the cognitive world, is this a kind of concern or a kind of sadness? If you look at what you're doing around you and what you're doing sometimes, who really isn't? It is also this kind of self-driving trip, so that you can thoroughly understand that many impossible things, as long as you think of doing them, then the result may not be as you imagined. It's like a good destination 700 kilometers away, and every kilometer you move forward, you get closer to your destination. The consumption of physical energy is actually not really tired. The continuous driving operation is really tiring for physical fitness, and there are a few times when I feel like I am asleep while driving, and there are also several dangerous situations at one time. So, if it's not for some kind of psychological need like yourself, don't toss it in this way easily. However, this kind of physical tiredness is really very different from the pain of inner struggle. Before I really did some things now, I had been struggling, but I always gave up halfway because of my own insistence, in addition to bearing the physical consumption brought by this halfway, more because of waste, bringing myself this psychological blame for myself. I struggled, but because of my own infirmity, I couldn't struggle with the self that could satisfy me. If you are doing something at the moment, you may feel that doing such a thing all the time makes you feel physically tired and tired, but when you experience the inner consumption of your own struggle and have nothing to gain, it will be easier to accept this physical tiredness. Just like my own self-driving, if I think of not doing it, then I may be limited to the internal friction that I should have done but did not do, but after this 36-hour toss, it is impossible to have such self-consumption. So is it more beneficial for yourself to consume physical energy? Speaking of which, writing is only physical work later, but compared to what you don't do, even if you are tired, you still need to do such a thing. Because, doing so is the least expensive for yourself. Physical consumption is often the cheapest kind of consumption, if we only need to pay physical consumption, in exchange for a kind of peace in our hearts, wouldn't we be happy!
Author: Gu Yu's Notes.