Know it or not
In the ancient romance drama "Know", the role of grandmother profoundly expounds the important principles and wisdom in marriage with her words of wisdom. Her words and deeds not only reflect the values of ancient society, but also provide profound inspiration for modern people's view of marriage.
First of all, let's review the wisdom of Grandmother in the face of Sheng Hong's request for Mo Lan to learn from Mama Kong. The grandmother did not refuse directly, but rejected his request through prevarication and vague responses, avoiding directly offending Sheng Hong. In the face of Sheng Hong's request, the grandmother did not immediately make a clear response, but chose an ambiguous attitude. She responds to Sheng Hong in a way that neither refuses nor allows, leaving Sheng Hong's request in a vague state and not giving a clear answer.
This ingenious way of avoiding it not only does not hurt Sheng Hong's face, but also expresses his grandmother's unwillingness to accept this request. Through this story, we can learn that in dealing with interpersonal relationships, sometimes it is not necessary to reject directly, but can be subtly avoided to avoid hurting the feelings of others. This ingenious method of rejection is not only common in ancient societies, but also has universal applicability in modern societies.
Secondly, the grandmother told Minglan that when husband and wife get along, they must not be virtuous, and they must know how to hold men, which is also an important principle in marriage. Although this teaching may seem contrary to the traditional concept of female virtue, it actually reflects the grandmother's deep understanding of marriage. Not being virtuous does not mean not caring about the family and the husband, but rather breaking free from the shackles of tradition and pursuing one's own worth and dignity. In ancient society, women were often required to silently endure the injustice of their husbands and the suffering of their families, but her grandmother taught Minglan to know how to protect her rights and interests and not to make compromises. This attitude of self-assertion and courageous struggle can not only protect the dignity of women, but also maintain the equality and harmony of marriage.
In ancient society, the status of women was relatively low, so it was crucial to know how to hold on to men and protect their rights and interests. This teaching is also applicable in modern society, where equality and respect in marriage are the cornerstones of marital happiness.
In the end, the grandmother promoted her daughter Sheng Yun to marry into the Hu family in the countryside, on the one hand, because the Hu family was kind and kind, and on the other hand, because the Hu family did not accept concubines and stayed away from family disputes. This episode reflects another important principle of the grandmother's approach to marriage: choosing an environment in which the family is harmonious and free of strife is essential to the happiness of the marriage. In ancient times, family disputes were commonplace, so choosing an environment away from family disputes can provide a guarantee for the stability of marriage. This teaching also has a profound enlightenment for modern society, marriage is the union of two families, and choosing a harmonious family environment can lay a solid foundation for the happiness of marriage.
To sum up, the words of wisdom of the grandmother in the original work of "Know" profoundly expound the important principles and wisdom in marriage. Her teachings are not only universally applicable in ancient societies, but also provide profound enlightenment for the modern view of marriage. Through an in-depth interpretation of the words and deeds of the grandmother in the play, we can better understand the inner world of the ancient characters, and at the same time, we can also draw wisdom from them to guide our modern life.