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Happiness grows inward
Yali Middle School Class 2223 Kong Sihan.
After making my happiness list, studies and grades aside, I found that among the factors that affect my happiness and unhappiness,"Yes. Always occupy the majority. "Being affirmed and valued" will make you happy, and "being denied and left out" will be unhappy. "Yes. The high content shows that the other factor plays too important a role in my happiness garden, and I think that the feeling of being depressed in recent days is also related to this. So I opened one for myselfPrescriptionsIf you want to be happy, you have to grow inward.
To grow inward is to let one's own factors dominate in the garden of happiness and find the fulcrum of inner life. "Man is a creature living in a self-woven web of meaning", and the inner fulcrum of life is the knot that connects the threadsThe joyful power they produce determines the weight that this web of life can carry.
Love is the most practical way to motivate people to grow inward and find their inner fulcrum. No matter what form of love, such as painting, writing, and reading, it is like a living fire that burns forever in the chest, even if the night is boundless. Love makes people always stride forward energetically, it is the peach blossom source when it is in distress, and it is the white jade hall when it is successfulSo it's no surprise that happy fireworks burst out of it. Love is not an idealist's words, it does not require much noble belief or perseverance, even if it is just the development of interest in leisure time, it is enough to feel the joy brought by love. It can be seen that love is one of the most important fulcrums of inner life, an important form of inward growth, and makes people happy because of themselves.
Growing inward also requires the ability to feel beauty. Loving beauty is the instinct of the human heart, and appreciating beauty and creating beauty can bring happiness to people. And feeling beauty is an ability that requires eyes that are not indifferent and a free heart. The fast pace of life, the monotonous repetition of two points and one line, and the pan-entertainment information all make our minds numb and rigid, and the extensive information ** makes us lose our awe of the unknown, lack sensitivity to beauty and goodness, and form a mountain that is not a mountain of old age and sophistication. It is difficult for us to rejoice in the blooming of a flower or the growth of a grass, so we lose many opportunities to be happy.
The objects of love and beauty are also external objects, but unlike the others mentioned above, the former is from the inside out, and the latter is to accept the subjective evaluation of others, which is from the outside in. The judgment of love and beauty is a subjective thing, and it is completely up to oneself to judge whether one is happy or not, which can be mastered and cultivated. But the happiness that others bring you is different, it depends on what others say about you, and what you do varies from person to person, depending on the situation, it is uncertain, and it is extremely fast and difficult to grasp by yourself. When most of the decision-making power of happiness is in the hands of external factors that are difficult for oneself to control, it is easy to be swayed by the outside world and live in the judgment system of others, so that the power of the self disappears in happiness. Of course, this is not to say that the other is not important in happiness and even in life, "taking people as a mirror can see the gains and losses", the other is an important way to help us correctly understand and construct ourselves, but it is not as good as that. The excessive involvement of others will make happiness uncertain, and at the same time, it will be difficult to be truly happy because of self-satisfaction.
Therefore, when being "over-affected" in your happiness, you may want to try to actively grow inward.