It's an ordinary story, one that happened in my family, but it changed everything in an instant. The occurrence of my father's cerebral infarction caused me to conflict with my brother's opinions, and eventually I became the unfilial person who was accused by the world.
It all started on an ordinary weekend. My brother and I are preparing for my father's surgery next week, and the doctor said that the success rate of the surgery is high, but there is still some risk. I think we should follow the doctor's advice and support my father to undergo surgery, while my brother thinks that surgery is risky and should be conservative** and not rash.
Why are you so calm? Don't you care about Dad's life and death? I said to my brother with some anger.
Of course I care, but we can't take risks, surgery is risky, it's better to try something else. The brother calmly responded.
During the argument, our voices grew louder and louder, and finally caught my father's attention. Although he is not in good health, he has always cared for us. He said heavily, "Don't be embarrassed, I'll decide for myself." ”
My brother and I were stunned, we didn't expect such a response. But on the eve of the operation, we went to the hospital with my father. The door to the operating room was closed, and my heart was heavy as I watched my father be pushed in. Perhaps to avoid another argument, my brother and I didn't say anything more.
The operation lasted for hours, and the wait seemed like a century. Finally, the door to the operating room opened, and the doctor walked out with a serious expression on his face. My brother and I stepped forward, and we both felt uneasy.
The operation was successful, but my father's physical condition was still weak and needed to recuperate. After the doctor said this, my brother and I breathed a sigh of relief, but the worry in our hearts did not completely dissipate.
During the time my father was in the hospital, my brother's differences did not diminish. The doctor suggested that my father needed to be cared for, but my brother and I had different views on how to take care of him. I advocated hiring a professional caregiver, while my brother thought we could take turns taking care of it without spending so much money.
Why can't you be unanimous to the outside world? What a disappointment for me. Father looked at us with exhaustion in his tone.
During this tense and anxious time, my relationship with my brother became more and more strained. We kept colliding with each other, but we couldn't reach an agreement. Eventually, despite my brother's objections, I decided to hire a nurse.
You have gone too far and do not take into account other people's opinions at all! "My brother blamed me.
You are, always thinking about saving money, not caring about Dad's feelings. "I'm angry too.
During the argument, we didn't even notice that our father was listening silently. He stood up suddenly, and said in a low tone: "You all stop arguing, I'm already annoyed enough." I thought you could unite for me, but I didn't expect ......”
My father's words were like a handful of cold water, extinguishing my brother's anger and me. His eyes were filled with disappointment, and I suddenly felt a pang of heartache. I didn't expect that my argument with my brother would make my father feel so tired.
In the days that followed, I tried to control my emotions and take care of my father with my brother. But there was always a trace of sadness on my father's face. One day, he couldn't help but say to me, "You are my pride, but now it makes me feel heartbroken." ”
I burst into tears, I never thought I would be the one who let my father down. My brother and I have always been a source of pride for our father, but now we are a burden to him.
In order to make up for my mistakes, I began to pay more attention to my father's feelings and work with my brother to develop a care plan. Slowly, the sadness on my father's face gradually dissipated, replaced by satisfaction and peace of mind.
In this process, I also deeply realized the preciousness of family affection. We can't always be stubborn, quarrelsome, and we can't allow ourselves to be a source of conflict in our family. Family members should understand and care for each other. I learned a lot from this experience and learned to be more mature in family relationships.
Eventually, my father was ** and our family was reunited. That day, my father said to me with a smile: "There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest." You are all my pride and my greatest happiness. ”
I have learned a lot about the importance of family and the responsibility of being a responsible child. Although family affection is tortuous, it is eternal in the end.
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