As the saying goes, "Men are not bad, women are not loved".
In the world of love, "bad men" always seem to be able to play with ease, while some of the more traditional "good men" often lose in the competition for love.
What's even more puzzling is that many "bad men" don't have handsome appearances and don't have a rich economy, but they can stir up a thousand waves in a woman's heart, easily capture a woman's heart, and even make a woman involuntarily fall into the whirlpool of love, unable to extricate herself.
Why is that? Why do "bad men" always make women die?
* This is the first question we need to understand"Bad" here does not refer to moral turpitude or bad conduct, but to a unique personality and behavior.
This "badness", sometimes manifested as uninhibited indulgence, sometimes a kind of cynical chic, it is like a magnetic field, attracting the eyes and hearts of women, I will call this mysterious power "attraction".
So,Where does the attraction of those "bad men" come from?
1. There is a deep heart hidden under the uninhibited appearance
Bad men "tend to have an uninhibited appearance, they dress casually and behave freely, giving people an elusive feeling, and it is this mystery that fills women with curiosity and a desire to explore them." And under this uninhibited appearance, they often hide a deep heart, with rich emotions and a unique way of thinking.
This inner depth makes women feel that they have a unique charm that is worth in-depth understanding and exploration.
2. Self-confidence without conceit, exuding unique charm
Bad men "are usually very confident, they know their strengths and weaknesses, and they are comfortable with their shortcomings." This self-confidence is not conceited, but a charm that radiates from the depths of the heart. They don't change themselves because of outside evaluations, and they don't sacrifice their personality to cater to others.
This kind of persistence and self-confidence makes women feel that they have a unique charm that is irresistible.
3. Be good at listening and know how to capture a woman's heart
Bad men "tend to know how to communicate with women, they are good at listening to women's voices, and they can capture the deep emotions of women." They will not interrupt a woman's words easily, but will listen patiently and give her enough attention and respect.
This kind of listening and understanding makes women feel that they understand themselves well and are able to resonate emotionally with themselves.
4. Dare to take risks and bring fresh and exciting feelings to women
Bad men are usually adventurous, they don't settle for a dull life, but they seek new and exciting sensations. They may try some new activities or trips that bring different experiences and feelings to the woman.
This adventurous spirit makes women feel that they are full of vitality and passion, and have a unique charm.
5. Mysterious and full of challenges, stimulating a woman's desire to conquer
Bad men "often have a mysterious temperament in them, they don't show their all easily, but will keep a certain distance and mystery.
This sense of mystery inspires a woman's desire to conquer and want to get to know them better, to unveil their mysteries and see what they really think and feel inside.
6. Be good at seizing the opportunity to make women feel unique care
Bad men "usually know how to get the timing right, and they will give a woman love and support when she needs it." This kind of care is not empty promises or false flattery, but genuine care and thoughtfulness, they will lend a helping hand when a woman is in trouble, and give comfort and encouragement when a woman is lost.
This timely care makes women feel that they are reliable, trustworthy and dependable.
7. Have the courage to take responsibility and show the responsibility of a man
While "bad men" may come across as uninhibited, they tend to show a man's sense of responsibility when it matters most. They have the courage to take responsibility and will not shirk or shirk responsibility.
This spirit of responsibility makes women feel that they are mature and have a strong sense of responsibility and mission.
AbsolutelyWe also can't ignore the shortcomings and problems of those "bad guys".
Their uninhibited and cynical informality may just be an excuse for them to evade their responsibilities and commitments; Their self-confidence and independence may just be a disguise for their selfishness and indifference.
Love is not a game, but a process that requires both parties to give sincerely.
While women fall in love with "bad men", they should also remember to keep a clear head and rational judgment, and not easily sacrifice their dignity and bottom line for a relationship.
Because, it's not worth it!