The phrase "men are not bad, women are not loved" is actually a popular saying that depicts a phenomenon that may exist in certain situations, but does not apply as a universal rule. It mainly expresses that some women may be more attractive to men who are a little naughty, challenging, less traditional, or a little "bad". But that doesn't mean that all women like such men, or that such men are necessarily more popular than "good" men.
Here are some of the reasons that may explain this phenomenon:
1.*Credenging**: Some women may find it more challenging for men who are slightly "bad" than those who are traditionally "good" men. They may need more effort to win the hearts of these men, and this may make some women feel more attractive.
2.*Confidence & Charisma**: Sometimes, men who are considered "bad" may be more confident and attractive, and these traits may appeal to some women.
3.*Freshness**: For those women who are used to being in a relationship with a "good" man, being in a relationship with a "bad" man may bring a sense of freshness that can trigger attraction.
However, this does not mean that all women are attracted to "bad" men, nor does it mean that "bad" men are necessarily more attractive than "good" men. Everyone has their own preferences and personalities, and attractiveness also depends on a lot of factors, including an individual's background, experiences, values, etc. Therefore, what kind of men are more attractive to each person may vary.
Finally, it is worth noting that both "good" and "bad" men should respect others and abide by social morals and legal provisions. Honesty, respect, and understanding should be the most important qualities when seeking a romantic relationship.