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Text|Lei Lei. Pearls have been a symbol of dignity and purity since ancient times. When it lies quietly in the rough iron ring, it seems to be trapped by the iron chain of fate, although its brilliance is there, but it is ignored by the world, and only gives the value of the iron ring. However, if it is cleverly inlaid on the sparkling gold chain, then it can be swayed with the gold chain, showing endless brilliance. This can't help but make people think deeply: the same pearl, its value varies according to the environment, let alone people? Isn't our life just like this pearl, either buried or revealed, in our interactions with different people?
The relationship between people is delicate and complex. Sometimes, the beginning of a relationship means a gentle turn of the wheel of fortune. The interaction between the sages is like the confluence of clear springs, each with a point of clarity, and after blending with each other, it becomes clearer and broader. They learn from each other, learn from each other's strengths, and under each other's influence, they constantly improve their own realm, so as to achieve a kind of growth beyond the individual. On the other hand, the interaction between fools is like sludge mixed with water, and the closer they come into contact, the more they will be trapped in it, and it will be difficult to extricate themselves. They don't want to forge ahead, they are content with the status quo, and over time, they form a passive, complacent atmosphere, in which each of them gradually sinks.
As the saying goes, "those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black". When you choose to walk with excellent people, then their words and deeds, way of thinking, and even their living habits will subtly affect you, making you become better unconsciously. Their tenacity, perseverance, courage and wisdom will be your motivation to move forward, so that you can move forward bravely and fearlessly when faced with difficulties. And when you choose to be in the company of mediocre people, then you are also likely to gradually lose your direction and goal in their negativity, complaining, prevarication and evasion, and become as mediocre as them. Such changes may be silent, but they are profound and long-term.
Those who read often have a bookish atmosphere; People who travel bring their own customs. The friends you have, their hobbies, and their lifestyles will all affect you to a greater or lesser extent. Reading friends will share with you those stories of ancient and modern China and foreign countries after tea and dinner, so that your horizons will become broadened and your thinking will become active; Friends of travel will take you to appreciate the scenery of the world, so that your mind becomes open-minded and your soul becomes free. The impact is invisible, but far-reaching.
In the same way, in the company of those who work hard, you will become more diligent before you know it; Walk with successful people, and you will draw endless wisdom and strength from their successful experience. This is because the human mind is always inclined to be upward, good, and true. When we surround ourselves with people who are full of positive energy, our hearts are also lit up, bringing out the potential and strength that lies within us.
However, the interaction between people is not a one-way street. When you are accepting the influence of others, you are also influencing others. It's like a mirror, you smile at it, it smiles at you; You cry at it, and it will cry at you. Therefore, when we choose to get along with others, we should pay more attention to our own cultivation and quality, and strive to become a person who can give positive influence to others.
Life is like a dream, and years are like a song. In this long and short journey of life, we will meet all kinds of people. Some people will become passers-by in our lives; For others, they become indispensable partners in our lives. No matter what kind of people we meet, we should cherish the time we spend with them, because every encounter is a collision of hearts; Every time we get along, it is a blend of life.
Finally, I want to say that who you are with in this life is really too important. Because the people who can really influence you and change you are often the ones who are closest to you and closest to you. So, please cherish everyone around you! May we all find our true selves in getting along with others, live our true selves, and achieve a better self!